Hello Loving Without Boundaries Community!
First things first, let’s get one thing straight (pun intended): polyamory is, by definition, based on ethics and consent. It’s not about sneaking around or trying to “steal” someone’s partner. It’s about openly communicating, establishing consensual agreements, and respecting everyone involved, with the knowledge of all parties. Period.
I mean, think about it – would a self-identified gay person in good conscience who is emotionally mature and ethical hit on a hetero person? That doesn’t even make sense for either party. It’s the same thing here, good people. Just because someone is polyamorous doesn’t mean they’re going to disregard your relationship status and start making moves on your partner.
It’s time we put this myth to bed once and for all. Polyamorous people are just like anyone else – we’re looking for love, connection, and fulfilling relationships. We just happen to believe that it’s possible to have those things with more than one person at a time, as long as everyone is on board and communication is on point.
So, if you’re in a monogamous relationship and you’re worried about polyamorous people “converting” your partner, take a deep breath and relax. Trust in your relationship, communicate openly with your partner, and remember that polyamory is all about love, respect, and consent.
If you’re curious about exploring ethical non-monogamy yourself, or if you’re already walking the polyamorous path and looking for guidance, I’m here to help! Click the link below to book a complementary 45-minute Breakthrough Call with me, and let’s chat about your unique situation, challenges, and goals. Together, we can create a roadmap to help you navigate the beautiful, complex world of polyamory with confidence and joy.
lovingwithoutboundaries.com/apply
And if you’re not quite ready to take that step, no worries! Come join my private Facebook community, where you can connect with other amazing humans who are exploring ethical non-monogamy and all its possibilities. It’s a safe, supportive space to ask questions, share experiences, and learn from one another. To join, you will need to answer three simple questions. If you do not answer them, you will not be admitted. It’s for the safety of our community.
Remember, my dear friends: love is love, and there’s no one-size-fits-all approach to relationships. Embrace what works for you, communicate openly and honestly, and never let anyone make you feel ashamed or judged for your choices. You’ve got this!
With love and gratitude,
Kitty
P.S. Let’s keep spreading the truth about polyamory and busting those pesky myths one by one! If you found this email helpful, don’t forget to share it with your friends and loved ones. The more we educate and support one another, the more we can create a world where love in all its forms is celebrated and respected. 🌎💕
KITTY CHAMBLISS, Master Coach (ICF-Certified), CPC
Relationship Coach | Speaker | Educator | Trauma-Informed
Author of “Jealousy Survival Guide: How to feel safe, happy, and secure in an open relationship”
