Cheers Sexy People! Welcome to February, my chickadees! Many think of February as the month of love due to Valentine’s Day. But for many of us, every day is a day for amoré! In an effort to switch things up for fun while at the same time give you stellar content, I have just released…
Cheers Sexy People! I hope your year is off to a running and spectacular start! In an effort to switch things up for fun while at the same time give you stellar content, I have just released a new educational burst podcast! In this new series, I will review various techniques that help ANY healthy…
Cheers Sexy People! Recently I have had the honor of being asked to be a contributing writer (along with many other fabulous writers) for a website called Multiamory. I met Dedeker Winston of Multiamory fame when I had her on our Loving Without Boundaries podcast when her book, “The Smart Girl’s Guide to Polyamory” came out.…
Cheers Sexy People! I hope that you are having a great week! I am experiencing a challenging week I’m not afraid to say. I find that when I’m vulnerable with my sharing and what’s going on with my polyamorous life, I connect better with my readers creating a win-win for all of us. It’s great to talk…
Cheers Sexy People! In my last post, I mentioned that within my own polycule, we had a trial run week of my boyfriend living with my husband and I full-time as practice for the potential real thing. A member of the Loving Without Boundaries community was kind enough to reach out and ask if I would elaborate…
Cheers Sexy People! I felt a massive weight had been lifted off of my shoulders after I recently truly forgave my boyfriend for his indiscretions that I talked about in this post. We had a really powerful conversation – not only about forgiveness, but ways in which I wanted to take ownership of being a great, attentive…
Cheers Sexy People! Last week, I contemplated how rules, boundaries and negotiations work in polyamorous relationships, and pondered how we find common ground and figure out how to better understand each other while still honoring our own needs and desires at the same time. Once again, this can be challenging in a monogamous relationship, but…
Cheers Sexy People! I have been waiting for the right moment to share what I have learned about the concept and teachings of Nonviolent Communication as described by Marshall Rosenberg. Given how my last two weeks have been, now is the time, my dear friends. This is really powerful stuff, and it’s another bit of…
Cheers Sexy People! Even though I write this blog doling out any insights I find, and do oodles of research on polyamory / ethical non-monogamy, communication, relationships, etc, sometimes I fuck up anyway. I view trying to live an ethically non-monogamous life, juggling more than one relationship, and doing my best to live a purposeful,…
Cheers Sexy People! A funny thing happened to me on my way home from pole fitness class. An old friend was in town, a friend that I used to have a crush on at different periods of my life, including my former life as a serial monogamist. We had never gotten together in the past…