“No matter how you learn, Kitty provides it. There are videos, conversations, and handouts. This program is more than life changing… it is LIFE IMPROVING. I am personally improved and so is my relationship. We no longer fight; we have conversations!

Because of Kitty and JSG we now enjoy life and each other like we did when we first started dating! …Thank you so much for all you have provided for us, Kitty. We are a completely different couple than we were a month ago. And, we’ve each had quite a bit of self discovery that has helped us grow personally and as a couple.” — Sara in Arkansas, USA

“When I had entered this program, I was in such a space of blame with my partner, everything happening to me was his fault. We were close to completing our relationship. The first week taking this program was so eye-opening. Everything that was talked about validated what I had been experiencing, and I quickly realized that I was also contributing to the challenges we were experiencing. Following several weeks of new awareness and resources, I was able to manage all the big emotions I was experiencing. Everything I learned was easy to apply and really worked. Now my partner and I catch our projections much quicker and have excellent communication skills when there are breakdowns. It saved our partnership! I am so glad I made this decision to take this coaching program, it changed my life!!” — Sarah in Colorado, USA

“I never imaged someone 1,000s of miles away I found online on Facebook could change my life for the better. I spent years, decades in traditional counseling and religion trying to keep the beach ball of my past trauma underwater – too much to keep under water at the same time (and that didn’t work). I’m beyond grateful to my partner for not giving up on us and me when I all but begged her to a few times this last year. I’m also grateful for Kitty’s passion to help the helpless.” — Doug in Arkansas, USA

“I was down in the dumps with no direction, purpose, or understanding of how to get myself out of it. Incidents and tragedies had accumulated to the point where I was mentally and emotionally lost. I was nervous about my current situation and scared about the future of my marriage. I started combing the internet to see if there was any help out there for me. I came across a web suggestion for Loving Without Boundaries and Kitty Chambliss. I deep dived the website and decided to show my wife. We both agreed that we should go ahead and book a call with Kitty to see what it was all about, since it was free. During the call, we liked what was said. Kitty is very energetic, charismatic, and enjoyable to talk with. But I had questions. How much will it cost? Is our relationship worth it? Will it work, or will it be a waste of money? We discussed and decided that our relationship was worth the chance. Kitty was also very good with our hesitation and worked with us on setting up a payment plan that we were comfortable with. Let me tell you, this has to be one of (if not the) best decisions we have ever made. I can’t even express how much I have grown, and am still changing, for the better. I’m a better husband, a better father, and simply a better man, due to the tools and support of this program. I have a renewed love for my wife and myself as well. Fantastic program, person, team, group and all.” — Jellybean (Brad), Seattle, Washington, USA

“Eight weeks ago we began our LWB program. This week we finish. It’s not likely we would’ve made it thru CoVid without Kitty Chambliss and her priceless gift of real insight and tools to help us find these healthy and helpful communication tools. Every concern we had about doing this type of work remotely over the Internet melted away after our first online meeting with Kitty. This is not a weekly counseling session, it’s much much more. Every week she provided us with hours of content, downloads and tools. It’s not too late to start again. This was single-handedly the best investment we have made in ourselves and each other. It’s much more than you’ll find in her book. It’s also content that you’ll have access to for the rest of your life.
Is today the day or is it just another day? Make it the first day of the rest of your life.” — Dustin in Arkansas, USA

“I’m halfway through the program, and I’m having great progress. I can withstand my feelings much better, manage my own jealousy, and communicate in healthier ways. I feel more confident and stronger and that’s bleeding over into other areas of my life! I’m feeling alot better and more empowered!” — Scarlett in Washington, DC, USA

“My experience was beautiful and deeply impactful. This program is life-changing for anyone who is willing to dig down deep and commit to the work and tools that Kitty provides. I cannot recommend it more to anyone who is working to grow and expand the ways they want to build healthy relationships with both themselves and their loved ones. It was powerful for me to realize that I have different triggers in my two relationships and really ‘unpack’ how I react to them.” — Chris in Florida, USA

“I have learned life long tools to continue to improve my relationships. My life has gotten exponentially better since starting this program. Kitty is so encouraging, kind, and genuine! I wholeheartedly recommend this program.” — Britta in Texas, USA

“When we started this program, we were just entering into our open relationship and learning all the in’s and outs. The LWB program helped give us the tools and insight we needed to navigate this new terrain without sabotaging our relationship in the process. We now feel more confident in our ability to tackle any issues and emotions that come our way.” — Kristen B. in North Carolina, USA

“I definitely recommend doing this work. It sets you up to have strong relationships in life. As an online teacher, there are three domains that are important: 1) Instructor Presence; 2) Cognitive Presence; and 3) Social Presence. This coaching system has it all. Kitty was so present and really listens, the content was excellent, and the social aspect was great too with community and group calls. It had all the facets. If I were to rate it, I would give it EMPLEMPLARY! … It is worth investing in ourselves, putting in the work. I realize now it was a gift being locked up in the house (during COVID), finding ME again. I did so much work, and now I’m ready to interface with other people. I would go for coaching over therapy in the future.” — Linda in Massachusetts, USA

“Before we began this program, we were in a state of ignoring issues and just trying to make it through everyday. Now we have the communication tools to resolve conflicts, issues, and emotional triggers quickly. We rely on, support, and trust each other more than ever.” — Sara and Gabrielle

“Kitty is truly an incredible coach. Her vulnerability, caring nature, and open-mindedness helped me grow, both as an individual, and as a husband. If you’re considering opening up your relationship, there is no better person to turn to other than Kitty. Polyamory and navigating open relationships is Kitty’s area of expertise. She lives and breathes what she teaches. I felt safe enough to share my thoughts and feelings with Kitty because of the incredibly safe container that she creates.” — Jason in New York, USA

“I’d like to thank you again for all the work you put into creating this program and for all your support! Going through the program has proven to be life-changing for me! I’ve become stronger and I feel so much more empowered than pre-program. My relationship with myself has improved a lot, I just love who I am! So thank you for being the wonderful person who you are! Sending you love.” — Bea in the UK

“My husband and I had opened things up in our marriage and things went badly. I realized I am polyamorous and he isn’t. We were in fear and out of trust. We needed a safe and effective place to go to address our issues without being judged. Kitty and her program were our answered prayers! I learned so much valuable information that I can apply to every relationship in my life, especially to my relationship with myself. Our marriage is more solid, our communication is healthier, and our connection is stronger. I am feeling more confident in myself and look forward to living our best lives together!” — Anna A. in New Jersey, USA

“Even bad negative behavior and thought processes: once it becomes a habit, it feels comfortable, safe, and easy. Even though it’s destructive, it’s the easy way to go. You don’t have to do any work. You just scratch that itch, and it feels good and you just roll with it.

When you start to make these really intentional choices and changes in the way that you think, which then dictates how you behave, it’s fucking hard and it feels like, oh gosh, is it always going to be this hard? But what does Kitty always say? You are building that muscle, the more you flex that muscle – such as sharing with friends what I’ve learned  – that helps me even more.

The feelings will go away, but eventually you learn how to handle the feelings in a productive. Eventually the triggers are not so trigger-y anymore. Eventually it gets better! That’s the work you have to do.

It works for me, and I like who I am becoming because of it. It’s making me a more mindful parent; it’s making me a different kind of employee; it’s bleeding over into all sorts of aspects of my life. It’s not just my relationship, this is about me.” — Sarah in Louisiana, USA

“I want to thank you for the Blessing of being able to take the JSG Program. It is a great program. As I was going through the modules, I kept picking up new communication strategies and learning how to open up and be vulnerable. I have better ideas of how to communicate with my partners in a positive way, so that we can have real conversations and move forward in a loving, positive, uplifting way. This program and course gives me Hope that I will have more loving relationships. Kitty, I am glad to have you in my corner and believe in me. You are a great Coach and guide. I would recommend this program and course to anyone who wants to improve their relationships with themselves, their partners and other people in their lives.” — Fletcher W. in North Carolina, USA

“I can’t believe we are the old folks in town now – 6-8 weeks ago we were the little babies. Then I suddenly realized, ‘Kitty gets us, we are going to be saved!’ We definitely had a week when our relationship died in its own way. I compare it to the melting down of the chain. The chains were old, they were broken, they needed to be melted down, and then they came back out nice and shiny, looking fresh, and stronger than ever. Where we are at right now, we have really been thriving in our relationship and it has just been amazing!” — Luke in Oregon, USA

“I feel this has been transformational! Finally getting the tools and applying them in the right way was very perspective-changing. The group Q&A calls were so amazing. I think I have gained lots of knowledge with the modules. I feel like it is a beautiful journey. We are beings that are born to love, and I think that finally finding the right ways to stream it and to receive it is a beautiful gift. Thank you so much!” — Adel in Oregon, USA

“I would like to take a moment to celebrate all the skills that you have taught me!!! It has been life changing for myself, my husband, my kids, and my friends! Not everyday is perfect, but I am 10x the person I was before your program. Here is to celebrating you Kitty Chambliss and the NEW me!” — Angela H. in Oregon, USA

“For folks dealing with feelings of jealousy, inadequacy or otherwise unsure how to navigate the emotions of a poly relationship/lifestyle, JSG is for you.  I came into the program mentally flailing and unable to control my emotions during critical interactions with the ones I love dearly (and sometime with ones who love THEM dearly).  With honesty and accountability, Q/A, 1/1, FB Group, online learning and the support of the community itself, the tools Kitty and team have provided are effective and will lead to better relationships in my life…romantic, professional, or otherwise.

In the same situation doing it over, I would absolutely make the time and financial investment, and personal commitment.  Be ready to meet some of coolest, most loving, and authentic people, looking to get past the feelings of jealousy and anger, and improve relationship and love skills.

This program/system offers a way to understand and live in a way where more love is possible.  Things have changed for me since I began the work, and I plan to continue in the pursuit of living my best and most authentic life, while allowing and encouraging those the same!”

— WB, Bay Area in California, USA

“I cannot thank you enough for everything we are getting from your program and from you. We have only gotten to week three, and I am truly astounded at the two of us.  I knew we were strong, but I don’t know if I realized how unbreakably strong we could be. I am so happy to share the amazing impact you’re having on our lives!”

— Mel, near Seattle, Washington, USA

“When I came in to the program, I had been to counseling, hypnotherapy, meditation classes, and really began working out, physically. These were all helping, but were not resolving my core emotional issues. Enrolling in this program, I found the tools to break down, and find the root of what was happening within. Kitty has put together this program in such a way that I was able to figure out my values, my boundaries, learn how to overcome my emotional issues enough that I wasn’t just stuffing them, but learning how to live with your emotions, and to better control the outcome. I feel so much more confident now, having gone through the program. Honestly, I feel night and day different! If I have something come up, that is overwhelming, I have now the tools to stop, back away, and figure it out before it becomes an explosive issue. So worth the time, effort, energy and money!”

— Gordon G. in Oregon, USA

“Thirteen years into my monogamous marriage, my husband and I loved each other and were best friends. Best friends who lived in separate bedrooms. We had been through so much and supported each other through everything, but we had allowed life to take away our spark. When circumstances charged through our marriage, threatening to upend everything, we realized we needed help. We were desperate to find a way to stay together and to rekindle what we had lost, while at the same time finding a way to meet both of our needs.

We thought about couple’s counseling, but my past experience with counseling was shady and unproductive. So we kept trying, thinking, talking it to death — getting nowhere. We were going in circles.

He found Kitty Chambliss and her program online and asked what I thought. I was skeptical, so skeptical. How could some random woman on the internet help us? Surely we could figure it out for ourselves; we are bright and progressive people. But I was willing to try anything. So I booked the consultation call.

Kitty showed up, ready to work.  Even though it was a free call, she jumpstarted our journey with wisdom and insight. She asked questions that made me think, and she seemed to care about our responses. And it was evident that we were not automatically going to be offered coaching, just because we booked a consultation. She was looking for people who really needed and wanted her help. I am forever grateful that she offered to work with us.

I worried about the investment, but we tightened our belts and made it work. She was so ready and willing to work with our budget, to make sure we could get the help we needed. It was worth every penny and more.

At first, I was still a little worried that we were going to get a cookie-cutter program with auto-responses. But when I received the feedback on my first assignment, I was blown away. Every single assignment, question, and comment that I have submitted to Kitty, and to her lovely coaching partner, Bea, has been answered with loving care and insight. Every email from Kitty has been full of encouragement, explanation, and assistance. Bea’s thoughtful questions and challenges have been priceless. It is evident that the Loving Without Boundaries team loves what they do and cares about each individual that comes through the program. The email support alone would have made this program worth the money, but the content of the program is unparalleled. Each module builds on the previous, and each week taught me something empowering and beautiful. Some weeks were difficult, but the results were astounding. On top of all this, the group calls every week provided us with a support system of people who are going through similar journeys, people who understand. I have made closer friends in the past 9 weeks than I did at any other period of time in my life.

I won’t sugar coat it. I thought, going into this, that it would be an easy A. After all, I had been in open relationships in the past, so surely I would have an extra edge, right? HAHA! No way. This program required me to look at myself and the person I truly wanted to be. I cried, and I swore, and I procrastinated. But I did it. I did it all. Every single week, I would see the successes. Halfway through the program, I realized that my husband and I were closer than we had EVER been. That’s right. My husband has become the love of my life again, not just my best friend. We had never stopped loving each other, but now we understand the difference between loving someone and being in love with someone.

I would recommend this program to anyone… to EVERYONE. Whether you are polyamorous, monogamous, single, whatever your relationships look like. I have fallen in love with myself, and I have fallen in love with my husband all over again.

I no longer worry about what may come, because I know that we will be ok, no matter what.”

— “Jedi Master” Mel, near Seattle, Washington, USA

“Thanks to Kitty, we survived!

Thanks, Kitty. I appreciate everything you’ve done to get us this far! When I first reached out to you, I said “our relationship is in jeopardy” and I was fearful we would not make it another month. I’m forever grateful I have tools to use to continue to improve myself and our relationship. We are in a very different place than we were when I first reached out to you only a few short months ago.

Once deciding to enroll in the program, it forces a couple to stop, observe, strategize about their relationship and think deeply about what really is important and what you want life to look like, both individually and as a couple. Although Ben and I are still at different spots on the monogamous vs. polyamorous scale, I believe we respect where the other person is at, and are working together to move those spots closer on the scale, and be in a more unified space while also being true to who we are as individuals. I’m so happy I reached out to you, and am no longer living in daily fear. I was scared of this beautiful relationship ending, because we weren’t smart enough to communicate like adults, and were too stubborn to stop and listen respectfully to the other person! We communicate in a much different way than we did in April, and I’ll be forever grateful for your coaching that got us to this spot!

I’m not sure what our relationship looks like in 3 months, 8 months, 3 years, 8 years…and that’s ok. Today I’m grateful that we are best friends and life partners who adventure together through life by choice, not obligation, pursuing what is best for ourselves and each other while squeezing every drop out of our short life here on earth.

I’m am so incredibly grateful for the program and you. My anxiety levels are lower than they have been in the past few years as we have attempted to navigate this space alone. In the past when Ben was with someone else, I would panic and fear the worst. But after your coaching and the tools you have provided, I feel at ease when he’s away, and have learned how to control my negative emotions.

You not only gave us tools to get our relationship back on track, you gave me peace of mind and relief from the overwhelming emotions I had dealt with for three years. You’re right Kitty, I can stand it. I get to go through life with this wonderful human. I’ve been given the opportunity to color outside the lines with him, and if it doesn’t work, I can still stand it.
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Forever grateful,
— Michele in Tennessee, USA