polyamory, open relationship courses


The 5-Step Formula Open Couples Use to Create a Rock-Solid Bond & Have More Joy & Passion in their Relationships

Join me for a free presentation where I’ll be pulling back the curtain and revealing the 5-step formula to let go of
self-doubt and fear, maintain control of any jealous feelings, so that partners who choose open relationships as
their preferred relationship structure feel loved and supported in a safe, non-judgmental environment.

The 5-Step Formula My Clients Use to Create Healthy, Loving, Open Relationships

(48 minutes)

Jealousy survival guide jealousy in relationships

In this masterclass, I’ll reveal…

  • The simple game plan my clients use to effectively manage their emotions of jealousy, fear, and insecurity while creating more loving, transparent multiple relationships.
  • Why denying or repressing jealousy is the exact WRONG strategy to follow… and the fastest way to build confidence in healthy, open relationships while gaining more joy and freedom.
  • The #1 reliable tool to gain more peace of mind and stay off the roller coaster of emotions even if obsessive thoughts, resentment, and worry have been part of the struggle previously.
  • The little known method my clients use to confidently communicate with their loved ones WITHOUT discussions until two in the morning, long drawn out fights, and feelings of not being heard.
  • AND… how to do all this while being 100% completely authentic and living in integrity… even if you have felt judged in the past.

NOTE: If you miss the live online workshop, have no fear as you
will get a link for the replay.


Here’s What People Are Saying:

“No matter how you learn, Kitty provides it. There are videos, conversations, and handouts. This program is more than life changing… it is LIFE IMPROVING. I am personally improved and so is my relationship. We no longer fight; we have conversations!

Because of Kitty and JSG we now enjoy life and each other like we did when we first started dating! …Thank you so much for all you have provided for us, Kitty. We are a completely different couple than we were a month ago. And, we’ve each had quite a bit of self discovery that has helped us grow personally and as a couple.” — Sara in Arkansas, USA

ethical non monogamy counsellingThe JSG Program was instrumental in helping me navigate from monogamy to polyamory. Without the course material, and Kitty’s perfect pitch coaching, I don’t think I would have made it. Kitty is a beautiful soul who will gently but firmly be your guide through this very tough but amazingly rewarding journey” — Mark Richter in New Zealand

“I met Kitty through a referral in early 2023 when I was in a place of feeling stuck in my marriage. Paralyzed is probably a betting description of how I was feeling. After watching Kitty’s masterclass, I knew she was the perfect person to help me navigate my journey. Kitty and her program were instrumental with getting me clarity on my identity and who I am at my core, as well as helping me recognize my true superhero and how I show up in the world. She also has provided me with amazing tools to help me navigate difficult conversations, manager jealousy and envy, and most important, how to live my most authentic life. I would recommend Kitty as a coach to anyone seeking similar support!” — Raymond in Pennsylvania, USA

“I was really good at monogamy for the first 27 years of my marriage. When I inadvertently wandered off the ranch, I struggled with if/how to tell my wife. After some research and many sleepless nights, I took the unconventional approach of proposing ethical non-monogamy. That didn’t land too well, and couples therapy didn’t help us make any progress. So, I was super-excited when I discovered Kitty and her LWB program. My wife and I went through the 9-week program along with dozens of other couples and individuals online. It was just what we needed…a forum to learn more about ourselves and the possibilities in front of us, to openly discuss and normalize the situation, and to prepare us both to make whichever decision would be best for each of us. Kitty and her team were so supportive, encouraging, and loving throughout the process and ongoing. In the end, my wife and I chose to transition to a loving co-parenting marriage with each having the latitude to pursue our best lives. This has been a far better path forward than the traditional storyline of divorce, anger and regret. Let Kitty and the communal LWB experience work its magic on your relationship, too. You won’t regret it!” — Phil in Washington, DC, USA

“LIFE-CHANGING – Kitty, Bea, and the entire community have been life changing. The course work, content, and online events with the community are curated in a way that builds and advances your emotional maturity, communication skills, and ability to overcome your ego. Although Kitty specializes for alternative/poly lifestyles, these skills are applicable for all. This initial coaching program was so life changing for me, that I have continued my journey with Kitty and her team through her other offerings.

I can’t thank them enough for guiding, building, and helping me become the person I am today. I also can’t thank enough the support you receive from others who participate in the program, and really become lifelong friends who show nothing but compassion and support for everyone.

If you’re on the fence – do it! This isn’t just a coaching program about your relationships, but focuses on you.” — Rob in Nevada, USA

“When I had entered this program, I was in such a space of blame with my partner, everything happening to me was his fault. We were close to completing our relationship. The first week taking this program was so eye-opening. Everything that was talked about validated what I had been experiencing, and I quickly realized that I was also contributing to the challenges we were experiencing. Following several weeks of new awareness and resources, I was able to manage all the big emotions I was experiencing. Everything I learned was easy to apply and really worked. Now my partner and I catch our projections much quicker and have excellent communication skills when there are breakdowns. It saved our partnership! I am so glad I made this decision to take this coaching program, it changed my life!!” — Sarah in Colorado, USA

“Kitty, I have been on a path of personal healing and growth most of my life. My path has included extensive reading, decades of therapy (including DBT and EMDR), somatic interventions, and countless hours of prayer. In a matter of months, your LWB program has done more for me than years of therapy. Your coaching methods keep me focused on the present moment, on gratitude, on my personal strengths, on my dreams for the future, and on how I want to show up in my relationships. Since starting your program, I have seen massive improvements in ALL my relationships, including (and most importantly) my relationship with myself. My therapist has remarked how much positive change she has seen in me since working with you and what you put together! The material you have put together in your coaching program is exceptional in my opinion. And your love and your caring for your clients is like a magic secret sauce that elevates the program even higher! I honestly don’t know where I would be right now if it weren’t for you, Bea, and the wonderful program you have so meticulously put together! ” — T.G. in Massachusetts, USA

“I never imaged someone 1,000s of miles away I found online on Facebook could change my life for the better. I spent years, decades in traditional counseling and religion trying to keep the beach ball of my past trauma underwater – too much to keep under water at the same time (and that didn’t work). I’m beyond grateful to my partner for not giving up on us and me when I all but begged her to a few times this last year. I’m also grateful for Kitty’s passion to help the helpless.” — Doug in Arkansas, USA

“What awesome coaching sessions! You’re the best! Thank you for the precious and powerful advice you give. We love the tools and are implementing them now! This has been the best investment I have made in myself personally. And it’s truly the most transforming program and course that I have ever been through! It’s a lifelong investment that’s one of the best things I have ever done in my life.” — Tim in Abu Dhabi

ethical non monogamy counsellingThe Jealousy Survival Guide undersells itself. It’s not just about Jealousy. It’s about relationships, in all their infinite variety. This program is essential for anyone looking to deepen their understanding of their relationship with their partner, themselves and all the people around them. I did not take the enrollment of this lightly but I am so, so glad I did it. It’s the best investment I’ve ever made in myself.” — Clive Silvaticus in the UK

“I was down in the dumps with no direction, purpose, or understanding of how to get myself out of it. Incidents and tragedies had accumulated to the point where I was mentally and emotionally lost. I was nervous about my current situation and scared about the future of my marriage. I started combing the internet to see if there was any help out there for me. I came across a web suggestion for Loving Without Boundaries and Kitty Chambliss. I deep dived the website and decided to show my wife. We both agreed that we should go ahead and book a call with Kitty to see what it was all about, since it was free. During the call, we liked what was said. Kitty is very energetic, charismatic, and enjoyable to talk with. But I had questions. How much will it cost? Is our relationship worth it? Will it work, or will it be a waste of money? We discussed and decided that our relationship was worth the chance. Kitty was also very good with our hesitation and worked with us on setting up a payment plan that we were comfortable with. Let me tell you, this has to be one of (if not the) best decisions we have ever made. I can’t even express how much I have grown, and am still changing, for the better. I’m a better husband, a better father, and simply a better man, due to the tools and support of this program. I have a renewed love for my wife and myself as well. Fantastic program, person, team, group and all.” — Jellybean (Brad), Seattle, Washington, USA

“It’s only been two weeks, and I’m already seeing incredible transformation! I can’t wait for all of the upcoming weeks – I’m so excited!” — Natalia in Philadelphia, USA

“Eight weeks ago we began our LWB program. This week we finish. It’s not likely we would’ve made it thru CoVid without Kitty Chambliss and her priceless gift of real insight and tools to help us find these healthy and helpful communication tools. Every concern we had about doing this type of work remotely over the Internet melted away after our first online meeting with Kitty. This is not a weekly counseling session, it’s much much more. Every week she provided us with hours of content, downloads and tools. It’s not too late to start again. This was single-handedly the best investment we have made in ourselves and each other. It’s much more than you’ll find in her book. It’s also content that you’ll have access to for the rest of your life.
Is today the day or is it just another day? Make it the first day of the rest of your life.” — Dustin in Arkansas, USA

“This program is really great. My ex-wife and I started this program to see if we could even bring our relationship back from the dead. Not only did we figure that out, by week 4 we were shopping for rings again. By the end of the program, we’re planning our rebuilt future. Thanks, Kitty!” — Scott and Danielle in Colorado, USA

“I’m halfway through the program, and I’m having great progress. I can withstand my feelings much better, manage my own jealousy, and communicate in healthier ways. I feel more confident and stronger and that’s bleeding over into other areas of my life! I’m feeling alot better and more empowered!” — Scarlett in Washington, DC, USA

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When I started the JSG program, I was a mess. My emotions were erratic, scary and I was out of control. Kitty’s program gave me a large amount of tools that help me daily in navigating my life. I am so grateful and happy I took the plunge and invested in myself and in my relationships.” — Sue Angle, near Vancouver, Canada

ethical non monogamy counsellingThe Jealousy Survival Guide program saved us and our marriage. After 6 years together and 3 years of marriage, I found out my husband had been cheating on me majority of our relationship. It destroyed us and over the next year and a half, we tried it all therapeutic couple’s retreats, self help books, individual and couple’s counseling. While it helped some, we still found ourselves struggling with the dreadful D-Word (divorce) constantly looming over us. My husband came across Kitty’s program while looking online for additional help for our relationship. I was instantly apprehensive because the program spoke about polyamory and opening of relationships. Both of which, I felt landed us in the situation we were in because we were open to polyamory. We took the plunge especially since we didn’t disclose to our therapist that we were polyamorous out of fear of judgment. Well enrolling in the JSG program was the best decision we could of made. Our life as a couple and individually have been transformed. We got more out of one call with Kitty than we did in an entire year of counseling. In 8 short weeks, I feel closer to my husband than I ever felt, our intimate and emotional connections have deepened tremendously. I’m no longer stuck in the dark abyss of betrayal and distrust. I am now in better control of my thoughts and emotions; not succumbing to my triggers. My trust in him has increased tenfold having me look at him with heart eyes because I have fallen in love with him again. If our story resonates with you, please invest in yourself and your relationship and enroll in the JSG program. The program will help any type of relationship; monogamous, polyamorous, open relationships, parental, business etc. while providing you with a safe, sex positive place to learn and grow. We are proud graduates of the JSG program and forever grateful to Kitty and the JSG Community that we now call FAMILY.” — Deanna & Keithan Smith in Texas, USA

“This program came at the perfect time in my life. All of the emotional intelligence I have craved for years to self-develop was provided. I am proud to be a better communicator and inwardly and outwardly loving in all of my relationships.” — Emily in Chicago, USA

“My experience was beautiful and deeply impactful. This program is life-changing for anyone who is willing to dig down deep and commit to the work and tools that Kitty provides. I cannot recommend it more to anyone who is working to grow and expand the ways they want to build healthy relationships with both themselves and their loved ones. It was powerful for me to realize that I have different triggers in my two relationships and really ‘unpack’ how I react to them.” — Chris in Florida, USA

“During the coaching sessions no one’s B.S. was overlooked. Kitty deftly called each of us out without anyone feeling attacked. This was important in helping me to separate out what emotions and actions were mine (not ours) to manage.The program was the right mix of coaching, self-paced (solo) learning, and homework with my partner. It allowed for multiple touch points each week. It is absolutely worth putting in the time.” — Cara in Brazil

“I have learned life long tools to continue to improve my relationships. My life has gotten exponentially better since starting this program. Kitty is so encouraging, kind, and genuine! I wholeheartedly recommend this program.” — Britta in Texas, USA

“This program made me realize I was approaching this whole journey from a place a fear, which is not what I want to do. I took a step back, asked for help, and feel 1,000 times better about it.” — Amber in Japan

“When we started this program, we were just entering into our open relationship and learning all the in’s and outs. The LWB program helped give us the tools and insight we needed to navigate this new terrain without sabotaging our relationship in the process. We now feel more confident in our ability to tackle any issues and emotions that come our way.” — Kristen B. in North Carolina, USA

“I began the program, very insecure, fearful and consumed by thoughts dragging me down. I now feel much more secure, with many tools under my belt that has set me up for such success. I feel prepared and able to handle my thoughts and feelings – making myself a better person, being a better partner in my relationship as well.” — Calvin Gautschi in Canada

“I definitely recommend doing this work. It sets you up to have strong relationships in life. As an online teacher, there are three domains that are important: 1) Instructor Presence; 2) Cognitive Presence; and 3) Social Presence. This coaching system has it all. Kitty was so present and really listens, the content was excellent, and the social aspect was great too with community and group calls. It had all the facets. If I were to rate it, I would give it EMPLEMPLARY! … It is worth investing in ourselves, putting in the work. I realize now it was a gift being locked up in the house (during COVID), finding ME again. I did so much work, and now I’m ready to interface with other people. I would go for coaching over therapy in the future.” — Linda in Massachusetts, USA

“The JSG program helped me to match my motivation with specific tools to make my non-monogamous relationships work. Clear and specific direction is the difference you get in Kitty’s coaching.” — Tracy B. in Georgia, USA

“Before we began this program, we were in a state of ignoring issues and just trying to make it through everyday. Now we have the communication tools to resolve conflicts, issues, and emotional triggers quickly. We rely on, support, and trust each other more than ever.” — Sara and Gabrielle

“Kitty is a fabulous coach. She has the biggest heart and really listens and empathizes. Kitty brings her experience in polyamory and creates ways to explore jealousy and other hard feelings. She helped me process jealousy and anger in non-violent ways. The Jealousy Survival Guide Program helped me with my relationship with my husband. I learned tools that I will use forever. Kitty has a special way of getting right into the heart of a matter. She is a great role model. She shares about her life and makes connecting and opening up safe to do. Kitty is a coach with so much energy. Her sense of humor is contagious. She knows how to help people. She is truly a master at what she does.” — Michelle A. in New York, USA

“Kitty is truly an incredible coach. Her vulnerability, caring nature, and open-mindedness helped me grow, both as an individual, and as a husband. If you’re considering opening up your relationship, there is no better person to turn to other than Kitty. Polyamory and navigating open relationships is Kitty’s area of expertise. She lives and breathes what she teaches. I felt safe enough to share my thoughts and feelings with Kitty because of the incredibly safe container that she creates.” — Jason in New York, USA

“Absolutely worth every penny. I wrote that first in case you’re just skimming reviews.

We have never experienced a therapist, counselor, mentor or coach on any topic who was so invested and engaged with us and so clearly and genuinely had our backs.

Both of us entered our relationship after failed attempts at monogamous marriages, knowing that we were just never going to be monogamous. But there are challenges galore to be navigated, and it is sometimes rough going (to put it mildly). We first met Kitty when she presented at the Beyond the Love conference, when we were just starting to seek out the skills we needed to grow our relationship in a non-monogamous way. In the few years since then, we’ve explored, grown, and figured out what we desire and don’t desire. We found that we preferred slightly different versions of non-monogamy. Eventually this led to a major relationship crisis, and we faced the impossible choice of either ending our relationship or circling the wagons while doing our best to suppress our desires until we couldn’t stand it anymore (which then would have eventually ended the relationship). We had bought Kitty’s book a year or two prior and decided to sign up for her 9-week coaching program.

Kitty has without exaggeration changed our lives. We are living the life of our dreams. If our past selves could look at the life we have created, they would be mind-blown. The beauty, love, and intimacy in our relationship and our lives is better than it’s ever been. You CAN have your cake at eat it too!” — Matt & Janet in Ohio, USA

“I’d like to thank you again for all the work you put into creating this program and for all your support! 🙏 Going through the program has proven to be life-changing for me! I’ve become stronger and I feel so much more empowered than pre-program. My relationship with myself has improved a lot, I just love who I am! So thank you for being the wonderful person who you are! 😊💜🤗💕❤️ Sending you love.” — Bea in the UK

“I started the program in an attempt to please my spouse. He is interested in polyamory and I was scared of it. I came to understand more about polyamory and I am happy to say that we both learned valuable tools to use in our goal to have a mature relationship. We don’t know where we will end up but we are happy that we took this program, our relationship is worth it!” — Kathy W. in Idaho, USA

“My husband and I had opened things up in our marriage and things went badly. I realized I am polyamorous and he isn’t. We were in fear and out of trust. We needed a safe and effective place to go to address our issues without being judged. Kitty and her program were our answered prayers! I learned so much valuable information that I can apply to every relationship in my life, especially to my relationship with myself. Our marriage is more solid, our communication is healthier, and our connection is stronger. I am feeling more confident in myself and look forward to living our best lives together!” — Anna A. in New Jersey, USA

“We were in crisis at the start of the program. With Kitty’s guidance and lessons, we were able to greatly improve all aspects of our life.” — John A. in New Jersey, USA

“Even bad negative behavior and thought processes: once it becomes a habit, it feels comfortable, safe, and easy. Even though it’s destructive, it’s the easy way to go. You don’t have to do any work. You just scratch that itch, and it feels good and you just roll with it.

When you start to make these really intentional choices and changes in the way that you think, which then dictates how you behave, it’s fucking hard and it feels like, oh gosh, is it always going to be this hard? But what does Kitty always say? You are building that muscle, the more you flex that muscle – such as sharing with friends what I’ve learned  – that helps me even more.

The feelings will go away, but eventually you learn how to handle the feelings in a productive. Eventually the triggers are not so trigger-y anymore. Eventually it gets better! That’s the work you have to do.

It works for me, and I like who I am becoming because of it. It’s making me a more mindful parent; it’s making me a different kind of employee; it’s bleeding over into all sorts of aspects of my life. It’s not just my relationship, this is about me.” — Sarah in Louisiana, USA

“The LWB program helped me to become happier and more confident with myself! I am single and started to identify as ethically non-monogamous within the past couple of years. I’ve had some great relationships in my past, but many of them were ending in heartbreak and frustration since my partners identify as monogamous. This was causing me to feel shame and to think something was wrong with me, which only lead to more negative internal thoughts and a lack of confidence.

The LWB program brought me the following benefits:
— Community: Mixture of non-monogamy and monogamous people who have the communication skills and shared experiences to help each other.
— Tools: A variety of exercises to help me more clearly sort out my own thoughts and beliefs, along with a chance to practice how I communicate who I am and what I seek.
— Wealth of Resources: There are so many videos, books, podcasts, websites, online community groups, etc that help to share other people’s journeys on what relationship style they seek and effective ways to live that life!
— Confidence: Kitty and the LWB program helped me find my MOJO again! I am excited and confident about sharing who I am, what I have to offer and the type of relationships that I seek, with other like-minded ethically non-monogamous people.

Even though I’m finished with the program, I am still using many of the techniques I learned to communicate more clearly with people from all circles of my life while also having fun connecting with other non-monogamous friends and partners!” — Jay in Virginia, USA

“I want to thank you for the Blessing of being able to take the JSG Program. It is a great program. As I was going through the modules, I kept picking up new communication strategies and learning how to open up and be vulnerable. I have better ideas of how to communicate with my partners in a positive way, so that we can have real conversations and move forward in a loving, positive, uplifting way. This program and course gives me Hope that I will have more loving relationships. Kitty, I am glad to have you in my corner and believe in me. You are a great Coach and guide. I would recommend this program and course to anyone who wants to improve their relationships with themselves, their partners and other people in their lives.” — Fletcher W. in North Carolina, USA

“I am super grateful for the program and the support I got. I would have never being able to deal with these demons if wasn’t for the program. Now I feel that I have tools and support.” — M.H. in California, USA

“I can’t believe we are the old folks in town now – 6-8 weeks ago we were the little babies. Then I suddenly realized, ‘Kitty gets us, we are going to be saved!’ We definitely had a week when our relationship died in its own way. I compare it to the melting down of the chain. The chains were old, they were broken, they needed to be melted down, and then they came back out nice and shiny, looking fresh, and stronger than ever. Where we are at right now, we have really been thriving in our relationship and it has just been amazing!” — Luke in Oregon, USA

“I feel this has been transformational! Finally getting the tools and applying them in the right way was very perspective-changing. The group Q&A calls were so amazing. I think I have gained lots of knowledge with the modules. I feel like it is a beautiful journey. We are beings that are born to love, and I think that finally finding the right ways to stream it and to receive it is a beautiful gift. Thank you so much!” — Adel in Oregon, USA

“My time in the program was incredibly helpful. I can only imagine where I would be if I hadn’t decided to go ALL IN on my needs for this work, and the calling I felt to make it happen. My ability to calmly express my needs grows every day with practice. The tools and strategies that I have discovered as part of the work inside this program is changing me and my relationship to my partners. I am feeling more independently resourced as well as comfortable letting others be who they are and to enjoy them as they are. It’s a gift that I have the opportunity to give those I love. And while it isn’t always easy, and I look forward to learn from my next mistakes… I know that I will never be alone in this work again. I am so proud of myself, and I am so grateful for the community of people that have my back through this revolution in my relationships.” — Jennifer H. in Washington state, USA

“I would like to take a moment to celebrate all the skills that you have taught me!!! It has been life changing for myself, my husband, my kids, and my friends! Not everyday is perfect, but I am 10x the person I was before your program. Here is to celebrating you Kitty Chambliss and the NEW me!” — Angela H. in Oregon, USA

“When I first started the program, I was in a very bad place emotionally and didn’t even know it. After completing the program, I was a completely different person, and am so very happy I found this version of me – not just for me but for my loved ones. I loved the program and it has truly changed my life and way of thinking!” — Crestan C. in Oregon, USA

“For folks dealing with feelings of jealousy, inadequacy or otherwise unsure how to navigate the emotions of a poly relationship/lifestyle, JSG is for you.  I came into the program mentally flailing and unable to control my emotions during critical interactions with the ones I love dearly (and sometime with ones who love THEM dearly).  With honesty and accountability, Q/A, 1/1, FB Group, online learning and the support of the community itself, the tools Kitty and team have provided are effective and will lead to better relationships in my life…romantic, professional, or otherwise.

In the same situation doing it over, I would absolutely make the time and financial investment, and personal commitment.  Be ready to meet some of coolest, most loving, and authentic people, looking to get past the feelings of jealousy and anger, and improve relationship and love skills.

This program/system offers a way to understand and live in a way where more love is possible.  Things have changed for me since I began the work, and I plan to continue in the pursuit of living my best and most authentic life, while allowing and encouraging those the same!”

— WB, Bay Area in California, USA

“I’ve had the pleasure and honor meeting Kitty 6+ years ago. At first, I was thrown back by the passion she had for helping others along their journey. It really changed the way I thought what a single human being is capable of. That being said, a lot of people can be enthusiastic about their craft for a small window of time. It’s not that hard. We’ve all gone through that puppy love stage whether it’s a new career, or relationship. Yet somehow, to this day, her passion grows deeper for the work she does and the people she’s serving. To be honest, I don’t know how she does it. But for someone to show up in the world for over 6 years, constantly growing and improving for her community, blows my mind. She’s so good at what she does, she could simply rest on what she’s learned/accomplished, but she doesn’t. Kitty is continually trying to find ways to be the best for her clients. And that, is rare form. Anyone looking to work with her, it’s an absolute no brainer.” — Michael Garofalo in Utah, USA

“I cannot thank you enough for everything we are getting from your program and from you. We have only gotten to week three, and I am truly astounded at the two of us.  I knew we were strong, but I don’t know if I realized how unbreakably strong we could be. I am so happy to share the amazing impact you’re having on our lives!”

— Mel, near Seattle, Washington, USA

“My boyfriend and I have been in an open relationship for a year now. He is bisexual, and this brought me brand new experiences. I was confused at first, but started enjoying the whole dynamic. However, I couldn’t get rid of the jealousy feeling when he dates women.

My best friend is totally monogamous, and told me that I am dating the wrong person. I was not sure if that was the right answer for me, so I met a few non-monogamous people, but I couldn’t find an answer on how to deal with jealousy.

So I decided to take Kitty’s program, and I was blown away. Not only did I find ways to deal with my jealousy feeling, but also this journey made me a mentally stronger person. It’s like finding a brand new self who I always wanted to become. I am so glad I found Kitty, and highly recommend this program to anyone.” — Y.Y. in California, USA

“When I came in to the program, I had been to counseling, hypnotherapy, meditation classes, and really began working out, physically. These were all helping, but were not resolving my core emotional issues. Enrolling in this program, I found the tools to break down, and find the root of what was happening within. Kitty has put together this program in such a way that I was able to figure out my values, my boundaries, learn how to overcome my emotional issues enough that I wasn’t just stuffing them, but learning how to live with your emotions, and to better control the outcome. I feel so much more confident now, having gone through the program. Honestly, I feel night and day different! If I have something come up, that is overwhelming, I have now the tools to stop, back away, and figure it out before it becomes an explosive issue. So worth the time, effort, energy and money!”

— Gordon G. in Oregon, USA

“I was super skeptical about doing this coaching series. I balked at the price, thought it sounded a bit like a sales pitch, and didn’t think it was for us because we’re not Poly. Hubs paid for it and said let’s do it, so I begrudgingly went along with it. I could not have been more wrong. I came to see just how much time and effort has been put into this, and continues to be. I’m wondering if at the tail end of this, if Kitty is making more than minimum wage for all the obvious hours she puts in! This isn’t a coaching course about just living outside the boundaries of heteronormative relationships. This is about how to live YOUR best life. The skills we’ve learned, I use in every relationship I have, not just with my husband. I am so grateful for all we have achieved in this course. Each module, each call, each time we practice what we’ve learned, is SO VALUABLE! I’m still only about halfway through the modules. Even with only being halfway through, the growth we’ve both made during this has allowed us to start having fun and meaningful encounters with like-minded people. The most beautiful part of it is that now, each time we have an encounter with someone in the non-monogamy setting (even when it’s over-the-top awesome), we realize how much we are grateful and just DELIGHTED to be enjoying life with each other. We really are the yin to each other’s yang. Take the chance. Do the work. You won’t regret it.” — Jenn. G. in Oregon, USA

“Thirteen years into my monogamous marriage, my husband and I loved each other and were best friends. Best friends who lived in separate bedrooms. We had been through so much and supported each other through everything, but we had allowed life to take away our spark. When circumstances charged through our marriage, threatening to upend everything, we realized we needed help. We were desperate to find a way to stay together and to rekindle what we had lost, while at the same time finding a way to meet both of our needs.

We thought about couple’s counseling, but my past experience with counseling was shady and unproductive. So we kept trying, thinking, talking it to death — getting nowhere. We were going in circles.

He found Kitty Chambliss and her program online and asked what I thought. I was skeptical, so skeptical. How could some random woman on the internet help us? Surely we could figure it out for ourselves; we are bright and progressive people. But I was willing to try anything. So I booked the consultation call.

Kitty showed up, ready to work.  Even though it was a free call, she jumpstarted our journey with wisdom and insight. She asked questions that made me think, and she seemed to care about our responses. And it was evident that we were not automatically going to be offered coaching, just because we booked a consultation. She was looking for people who really needed and wanted her help. I am forever grateful that she offered to work with us.

I worried about the investment, but we tightened our belts and made it work. She was so ready and willing to work with our budget, to make sure we could get the help we needed. It was worth every penny and more.

At first, I was still a little worried that we were going to get a cookie-cutter program with auto-responses. But when I received the feedback on my first assignment, I was blown away. Every single assignment, question, and comment that I have submitted to Kitty, and to her lovely coaching partner, Bea, has been answered with loving care and insight. Every email from Kitty has been full of encouragement, explanation, and assistance. Bea’s thoughtful questions and challenges have been priceless. It is evident that the Loving Without Boundaries team loves what they do and cares about each individual that comes through the program. The email support alone would have made this program worth the money, but the content of the program is unparalleled. Each module builds on the previous, and each week taught me something empowering and beautiful. Some weeks were difficult, but the results were astounding. On top of all this, the group calls every week provided us with a support system of people who are going through similar journeys, people who understand. I have made closer friends in the past 9 weeks than I did at any other period of time in my life.

I won’t sugar coat it. I thought, going into this, that it would be an easy A. After all, I had been in open relationships in the past, so surely I would have an extra edge, right? HAHA! No way. This program required me to look at myself and the person I truly wanted to be. I cried, and I swore, and I procrastinated. But I did it. I did it all. Every single week, I would see the successes. Halfway through the program, I realized that my husband and I were closer than we had EVER been. That’s right. My husband has become the love of my life again, not just my best friend. We had never stopped loving each other, but now we understand the difference between loving someone and being in love with someone.

I would recommend this program to anyone… to EVERYONE. Whether you are polyamorous, monogamous, single, whatever your relationships look like. I have fallen in love with myself, and I have fallen in love with my husband all over again.

I no longer worry about what may come, because I know that we will be ok, no matter what.”

— “Jedi Master” Mel, near Seattle, Washington, USA

“I learned to love myself! Working with Kitty helped me find the strength and courage to improve relationships with my partner, with my family and most importantly, with myself. I was so unhappy in my romantic relationship and I just didn’t know why. Looking back, I now understand that it was mostly because I didn’t have the tools I needed to deal with emotions that were unfamiliar to me. A year after becoming a graduate of Kitty’s program, I still refer back to much of the course material that is invaluable to me. I’m a different person today; one whom I love dearly and I’m forever grateful for Kitty’s guidance in all things.”

— Laurel in New York, USA

“Thanks to Kitty, we survived!

Thanks, Kitty. I appreciate everything you’ve done to get us this far! When I first reached out to you, I said “our relationship is in jeopardy” and I was fearful we would not make it another month. I’m forever grateful I have tools to use to continue to improve myself and our relationship. We are in a very different place than we were when I first reached out to you only a few short months ago.

Once deciding to enroll in the program, it forces a couple to stop, observe, strategize about their relationship and think deeply about what really is important and what you want life to look like, both individually and as a couple. Although Ben and I are still at different spots on the monogamous vs. polyamorous scale, I believe we respect where the other person is at, and are working together to move those spots closer on the scale, and be in a more unified space while also being true to who we are as individuals. I’m so happy I reached out to you, and am no longer living in daily fear. I was scared of this beautiful relationship ending, because we weren’t smart enough to communicate like adults, and were too stubborn to stop and listen respectfully to the other person! We communicate in a much different way than we did in April, and I’ll be forever grateful for your coaching that got us to this spot!

I’m not sure what our relationship looks like in 3 months, 8 months, 3 years, 8 years…and that’s ok. Today I’m grateful that we are best friends and life partners who adventure together through life by choice, not obligation, pursuing what is best for ourselves and each other while squeezing every drop out of our short life here on earth.

I’m am so incredibly grateful for the program and you. My anxiety levels are lower than they have been in the past few years as we have attempted to navigate this space alone. In the past when Ben was with someone else, I would panic and fear the worst. But after your coaching and the tools you have provided, I feel at ease when he’s away, and have learned how to control my negative emotions.

You not only gave us tools to get our relationship back on track, you gave me peace of mind and relief from the overwhelming emotions I had dealt with for three years. You’re right Kitty, I can stand it. I get to go through life with this wonderful human. I’ve been given the opportunity to color outside the lines with him, and if it doesn’t work, I can still stand it.

Forever grateful,
— Michele in Tennessee, USA

“Before I started the Create Healthy, Happy Open Relationship coaching program, I was feeling jealous and insecure, and I didn’t have a clue how it might be possible for me to move beyond those feelings and create positive relationships with more than one person. With the support of Kitty and Bea, I am feeling positive, self confident and I have knowledge and a set of tools, which I am putting into practice in all relationships in my life. A short 9 weeks later, I am embodying the superhero traits of the person I want to be in the world, and I know that it is possible for me to live an authentic, fulfilling polyamorous life.”

Cris in Canberra, Australia

ethical non monogamy counsellingWhen we first began the JSG Program, we were in over our heads. Without the guidance and eye-opening wisdom from this coaching program, we would have continued to navigate our marriage and relationships in an arbitrary, chaotic, and sometimes even a destructive manner. Good intentions don’t always do the trick. Sometimes you need to reach out for help, and I am so glad we did.

Entering into this program, we wanted to learn how to navigate open relationships healthily. What I didn’t realize is that we hadn’t even learned how to navigate our own marriage healthily. Our relationship was stuck on autopilot. We had spent so many years relying on our natural connection, yet we were lost for how to go deeper, how to solve our oldest conflicts and resentment, how to learn more about each other, and most importantly, how to learn about ourselves. I have to give myself some credit, I had all the pieces. Many of them, I had analyzed and named. But that was it, I was just holding them: I was carrying it all around with me, not quite sure what to do with them. Kitty takes all of her knowledge and impresses it upon you in a way that you can make sense of all of your pieces. The JSG program takes you through a complete process of awakening, of stepping back to objectively reflect on and fit all the pieces together, and it gives you a proforma for how to do the most important thing: move forward, or in other words, GROW UP!

While I’ll continue to add to and adjust the pieces to my puzzle along the way, I have a solid foundation now. We have solid knowledge, and a deeper desire for continued growth: a yearning for meaning, for experience, and love. Through this process, we’ve fallen in love all over again, we’ve deepened our connection with each other, with our children, with others in our lives, but most importantly, with ourSELVES. We’ve gained an appreciation for the good, the bad, and ugly; all the things that color our world and give us the opportunity to choose, to grow. We feel ALIVE AGAIN! All I can truly say is that this program completely transformed our lives and our relationships. I would recommend this program for anyone! If you are human, this program will add value to your life beyond any dollar cost you could ever consider.” — Tonya Roberts in South Carolina, USA

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Kitty has opened my eyes that love isn’t a fairy tale that just falls into your lap. She has taught me that love is a skill. I have learned how to communicate, be vulnerable, and to love myself even more than before. I am so living my personal manifesto and growing everyday with the tools Loving Without Boundaries has shown me. Kitty served me above and beyond anything I have experienced before. Kitty has helped me understand why I am here today.”
Shannon Van Walt in New Zealand

ethical non monogamy counsellingMy wife, Tonya and I were losing our connection for many years before deciding to open our marriage, and boy did I fall down the rabbithole. I was an anxious, jealous wreck trying to manuever this emotional territory after so many years of being an emotional zombie in my marriage. I suddenly felt like I wasn’t enough for my wife, that she must not be happy with me, and so many other limiting beliefs that swirled around in my head. So I started looking for some support and found Kitty through her Facebook group, Loving Without Boundaries.

I can’t even begin to express how grateful and appreciative I am for Kitty’s work and the tools I have learned through this coaching program. The work we have done throughout this program and course has built a stronger connection between my wife and I than I have ever seen before. We learned so much about each other and fell in love all over again! There are so many useful tools that allow me to see the limiting beliefs and the shitty stories in my head for what they are, and get myself back to living my life in gratitude and abundance, living within my values, and respecting my boundaries. Life will never be the same after attaining the knowledge I did from this program. Thank you Kitty, we love you!” — Zachary Roberts in South Carolina, USA


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