Cheers, beautiful people. I want to tell you about John. John is 70 years old. He has been married for 28 years to a woman he loves deeply. They built something real together — a life of genuine respect, shared purpose, and the kind of partnership that most people spend their whole lives searching for.…
Years later, she’s still using everything she learned — and what happened next will surprise you. Hello Loving Without Boundaries Community! I want to tell you about Mel. Not because her story ended the way she planned. But because of what it became instead. And because I think it might be the most important kind…
Hello Loving Without Boundaries Community! Over the past several weeks I shared three stories with you. Diana — who came to me thinking she needed to save her relationship. What she was really there to do was learn herself. Calvin — who was so terrified of losing the man he loved that he couldn’t sleep…
Hello Loving Without Boundaries Community! I want to tell you about Gina. Not because her story is dramatic in the way some stories are — no midnight crisis, no divorce papers on the table, no relationship teetering on the edge of collapse. Gina’s story is quieter than that. And in some ways, because of that,…
Hello Loving Without Boundaries Community! I want to tell you about Calvin. Because Calvin’s story is one I think about often. Not just because of where he started — though wow, where he started was a genuinely painful place. But because of where he is now. Engaged. To the man he was once so terrified…
Hello Loving Without Boundaries Community! I have to tell you about Diana. Because honestly? Her story might be one of my favorites. Not just because of how beautifully she transformed — though wow, she did. But because of WHO she is. Funny, warm, wicked smart, deeply self-aware, and the kind of human being who shows…
🎬 Cheers, Beautiful People! OK so I have some BIG news and I am seriously buzzing with excitement about it…I was featured as an expert in a brand new documentary called More Than Monogamy — and wow wow WOW. This film is something special. The filmmaker, Dillon Birdsall (award-winning documentary filmmaker and all-around fantastic human),…
Hello Loving Without Boundaries Community! Can you remember the first time you realized your desires didn’t fit into the traditional relationship box? That moment when you discovered that your capacity for love might be bigger than society’s expectations? For many people exploring consensual non-monogamy, this realization comes with a mix of excitement and fear –…
Hello Loving Without Boundaries Community! Have you ever felt that disconnect – that moment when you’re trying to express something important to your partner, but the words just aren’t coming out right? Or worse, when you say exactly what you mean, but somehow it still leads to misunderstanding and hurt feelings? In consensual non-monogamy, where…
Hello Loving Without Boundaries Community! You catch a glimpse of your partner’s joy after their date, and instead of feeling connected, shame crashes over you like a wave. “What’s wrong with me?” “Why can’t I be enough?” These thoughts circle endlessly, even though intellectually you know better. The gap between your values and your emotional…