Hello Beautiful People! I’ve been doing this a long time, and I’ve noticed that there is quite a bit of confusion about the two. Folks may also do searches seeking a “polyamory-friendly” coach or therapist. This means a professional who may NOT be practicing polyamory or consensual non-monogamy themselves, but they are potentially well-versed, trained,…
Hello Loving Without Boundaries Community! I’m thrilled to share that Loving Without Boundaries was recently featured in Cosmopolitan magazine! A special THANK YOU to Kathy Labriola for bringing this wonderful news to our attention. The article, “What Is Ethical Non-Monogamy? Experts Explain What You Need to Know,” written by Ali Wunderman and Rachel Varina, was published…
Hello Loving Without Boundaries Community! J said, “What used to trigger intense jealousy barely affects me now.”G said, “Through this process, we’ve grown closer and stronger than we ever imagined possible.”T said, “The conversations that used to terrify me now flow naturally.”S said, “We’re creating our own unique path, and it feels absolutely right.”Story after…
Hello Loving Without Boundaries Community! Kitty Chambliss here, and today I want to dive into a topic that I know is weighing heavily on your hearts: setting and maintaining healthy boundaries in your open relationships. I know you might be feeling overwhelmed, unsure, and maybe even a little scared about navigating this crucial aspect of…
Hello Loving Without Boundaries Community! Are you and your partner constantly fighting, feeling utterly exhausted, and growing more distant in your ethical non-monogamous relationship? Maybe you’re even teetering on the brink of a breakup or divorce. I get it – these struggles can be overwhelming, heartbreaking, and leave you feeling lost and alone.Many couples I’ve…
Hello Loving Without Boundaries Community! Okay, I know this might sound a bit dark, but hear me out. As someone who’s watched way too many episodes of Forensic Files, I’ve noticed a disturbing trend: when infidelity strikes, some people feel so desperate that they’d rather take drastic measures than face the truth and find a…
Hello Loving Without Boundaries Community! Do you ever feel like your open relationships are a bit like a wild west, with no clear rules or guidelines to keep everyone on the same page? If so, you’re not alone! Many of us struggle with the art of creating relationship agreements that truly serve everyone involved.Relationship agreements…
Hello Loving Without Boundaries Community! Are you tired of feeling like insecurity is constantly crashing your polyamory party? Well, I totally get it, and I want you to know that you’re not alone in this struggle.Insecurity is like the uninvited guest at the polyamory/ENM party – it shows up unannounced, makes a mess of everything,…
Hello Loving Without Boundaries Community! Kitty Chambliss here, and today I want to tackle a misconception that’s been driving me absolutely bonkers: the idea that if someone identifies as polyamorous, they’ll automatically start hitting on your monogamous partner in your monogamous relationship (eg. meaning assuming your polyamorous female friend will hit on your husband who is…
Hello Loving Without Boundaries Community! Kitty Chambliss here, and I want to talk about something that I know is on your mind: navigating the complex web of emotions that comes with loving multiple people in polyamorous relationships. I know you’re probably feeling overwhelmed, anxious, and maybe even a little lost at times. Trust me, I’ve…