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Are the Odds Against You Building Jealousy-Free Open Relationships?

Have you noticed that feelings of jealousy, insecurity, self-doubt, or shame are starting to cause you to lose sleep at night? Are you frantically trying to figure out on your own how to handle your emotions and up-level your communication skills with your partners? Have you started to worry that your relationship(s) may be in…

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Do You Have the INTEGRITY to Live an Honest Life, Dear Reader?

Do You Have the Integrity… …to defiantly live an honest life on your terms, with multiple partners, openly…with the consent of all involved – regardless of what society is doing around you? Think before you answer. Do you truly have what it takes to be deeply honest with yourself and others? To fight through fear?…

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How A Couple Successfully Opened Up Their Relationship and Thrived – Even After Cheating!

Wow … wait until you hear this! My clients Tim and Cheryl came to me out of desperation. Their relationship was on the verge of a breakup due to both of them having debilitating baggage. Tim had always struggled with being monogamous. Four failed marriages later, he was caught in a vicious cycle of being…

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How Do You Get the “Sexy” Back After Childbirth? Let’s Talk Communication Techniques, Sexy People!

Cheers Sexy People! I often get questions from our polyamorous community surrounding children. I do not have any children of my own (my husband and I are infertile), but I still want to offer value to those in our community who do have kids or strive to have kids. On a related topic, I am…

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Podcast Interview: Dr. Elisabeth Sheff, Polyamory Expert, Researcher, and Speaker, Part One

Cheers Sexy People! I am so very excited to announce our latest podcast interview with an expert in sex and gender diversity! Dr. Elisabeth Sheff is an expert witness, keynote speaker, and writer who provides relationship and academic coaching. A wonderful colleague and newfound friend, Dr. Sheff and I met cyberly years ago when she was producing Stories From The Polycule –…