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You deserve fulfilling CNM relationships. Let’s make it happen together!

Hello Loving Without Boundaries Community!   Do you find yourself constantly attracted to unhealthy or codependent patterns in your consensual non-monogamous (CNM) relationships? If you’re sick and tired of the endless cycle of roller coaster emotions, the pain of unfulfilling connections, and the fear that you’ll never find true happiness or suitable partners also interested in…

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Podcast Interview: Dr. Stephen Furlich, Author of “Nonverbal Epiphany: Steps to Improve Your Nonverbal Communication”

Hello, Loving Without Boundaries (LWB) community! I am delighted to share my latest podcast interview with Dr. Stephen Furlich, the author of “Nonverbal Epiphany: Steps to Improve Your Nonverbal Communication” and “Sex Talk: How Biological Sex Influences Gender Communication Differences Throughout Life’s Stages”. I have had the honor and pleasure of interviewing Dr. Furlich in…

Ready to transform your CNM connections from ‘meh’ to ‘amazing’? Let's do this!

Ready to transform your CNM connections from ‘meh’ to ‘amazing’? Let’s do this!

Hello Loving Without Boundaries Community!   Are you yearning for more satisfying, soul-nourishing consensual non-monogamous (CNM) relationships but feeling unsure about how to get there? If you’re ready to experience the full potential and joy of your CNM journey, but lack the right tools and support to make it happen, I completely understand.As someone who…

Feeling stuck in your CNM journey

Feeling stuck in your CNM journey? I’ve been there too – let’s talk

Hello Loving Without Boundaries Community!   Are you on a journey of self-discovery, exploring the depths of your authentic self through consensual non-monogamy (CNM)? Embracing this path can be both exhilarating and challenging, and I’m here to remind you that you don’t have to navigate it alone.As a trauma-informed coach with years of personal experience…

Steph Zapata

Podcast Interview: Steph Zapata, Award-Winning, NuyoRican Sexuality Educator

Cheers Sexy People!   Hello, Loving Without Boundaries (LWB) community! As always, I am sending good energy and vibes of hope and love to our amazing community. I believe that sharing inspirational stories of hope, inclusion, and healthy lifestyles are more important than ever. If you are looking for ways to connect with loved ones…

Polyamory and Parenting: Navigating CNM with Children in the Picture

Hello Loving Without Boundaries Community!   Raising children is one of life’s greatest joys and challenges, and when you add consensual non-monogamy (CNM) to the mix, things can get even more complex. You might be wondering how to balance your relationships with your parenting responsibilities, or how to create a stable and loving environment for…

Can I share some communication strategies that have made a big difference in my CNM life?

Hello Loving Without Boundaries Community!   Are you struggling to navigate the complex world of consensual non-monogamy (CNM)? Do you find yourself grappling with misunderstandings, unspoken expectations, or even conflicts with your partners? You’re not alone. Clear communication is the foundation of any successful CNM relationship, but it’s not always easy to achieve.It’s Kitty, your friendly neighborhood…

Heather Claus

Podcast Interview: Heather Claus, Author of “Take No Shit” about Healthy Boundary Setting (and many more)

Cheers Sexy People!   Hello, Loving Without Boundaries (LWB) community! As always, I am sending good energy and vibes of hope and love to our amazing community. I believe that sharing inspirational stories of hope, inclusion, and healthy lifestyles are more important than ever. If you are looking for ways to connect with loved ones…

I’ve been through the CNM emotional rollercoaster too – here’s what helped me

Hello Loving Without Boundaries Community!   Are you navigating the joys and challenges of open, consensual, multiple relationships while struggling with intense emotions like jealousy, guilt, insecurity, or shame? I understand how isolating it can feel when it seems like you have nowhere to turn for support.How do I know how isolating this lifestyle can…

Navigating the Intersection of CNM and Mental Health: Strategies for Thriving

Hello Loving Without Boundaries Community!   Do you ever feel like you’re juggling the unique challenges of living a consensually non-monogamous (CNM) lifestyle while also trying to maintain your mental well-being? I know firsthand how overwhelming it can be to navigate this intersection, especially when it feels like the world doesn’t always understand or support…