Hello Loving Without Boundaries Community! “Never cut what can be untied.” — Jaclyn Smith Life has a fascinating way of teaching us its most profound lessons through transitions. I recently was at a wellness retreat in the Azores, and I learned a word that only exists in Portuguese: Saudade = Beautiful Sadness; deep nostalgic longing…
Cheers Sexy People! Hello, Loving Without Boundaries (LWB) community! My heart goes out to you during these challenging times. I hope you are doing your best to keep safe. Sharing inspirational stories of hope, inclusion, and healthy lifestyles are more important than ever. If you are looking for ways to connect with loved ones you…
Now I’ve seen it all. Our client Carol was struggling. Big time. She was going through a breakup with her monogamous nesting partner. It was a truly emotional and painfully transformative time in her life. And she was grasping for help and resources. She came to me after finding my website and my podcast (thankfully!).…
Cheers Sexy People! I’m psyched to share with you our latest podcast episode here at Loving Without Boundaries! This interview is with Ferrett Steinmetz who was the keynote speaker as well as one of the presenters at the Beyond The Love 2015 conference in Columbus, Ohio that I attended a month ago. I enjoyed seeing his keynote speech…
Cheers Sexy People, It has been about six weeks since the big breakup. And surprisingly, even to myself, I am doing quite well. Don’t get me wrong – any big loss still hurts big-time. And losing an almost five-year relationship and someone that lived in and shared your home is a big shift in anyone’s reality. But…
Cheers Sexy People! In response to my last post about my upsetting breakup that I am healing from, I had a great conversation with one of our frequent commenters here at Loving Without Boundaries, Clarathegreat. It turns out that she works in the mental health profession. I am passionate about mental health for many reasons, including trying to…
Cheers Sexy People! I am writing you on the other side of a devastating, horrific breakup of both one of my relationships and my poly family as I had come to know it. Just weeks shy of celebrating our fifth anniversary, my boyfriend and I have broken up and he has moved out of our…
Cheers Sexy People! Recently, a dear friend of mine whom I met through this blog, asked me if my partners have partners themselves. I have written about my partners’ partners (otherwise known as “metamours” in the poly community) in many posts over the last two years. However, since an avid reader of my blog was…
Cheers Sexy People! Ahhh relationship breakups… they can be truly horrible, sad and even debilitating at times – yes even when we are involved in having multiple relationships at once as us polyamorous folk are wont to do. Last week marks a year since my former metamour broke up with my boyfriend. The moment I…