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Are the Odds Against You Building Jealousy-Free Open Relationships?

Have you noticed that feelings of jealousy, insecurity, self-doubt, or shame are starting to cause you to lose sleep at night? Are you frantically trying to figure out on your own how to handle your emotions and up-level your communication skills with your partners? Have you started to worry that your relationship(s) may be in…

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Do You Have the INTEGRITY to Live an Honest Life, Dear Reader?

Do You Have the Integrity… …to defiantly live an honest life on your terms, with multiple partners, openly…with the consent of all involved – regardless of what society is doing around you? Think before you answer. Do you truly have what it takes to be deeply honest with yourself and others? To fight through fear?…

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Do You Want To Have The Exact Relationships You Want?

Did you know that right now, it’s possible for you to have the exact relationships you want, with people who appreciate you, virtually any time that you desire – even if you’ve struggled for years? I’ll explain how in just a second. But first, let’s talk about why so many people think this is impossible.…

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The Polyamory Guide to Community Building (originally featured on “Multiamory”)

Cheers, Sexy People! Looking for other like-minded polyamorous peeps in your area but can’t seem to find any? Feeling alone on your unconventional life journey? That’s how I was feeling at the beginning of my consensually non-monogamous life over a decade ago. Thank goodness I eventually discovered the amazing power of community to help embrace…

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Polyamory, Toltec Wisdom, and “The Four Agreements: A Practical Guide for Personal Freedom”

Cheers Sexy People! Hello amazing and brave community! It is fantastic to be writing to you here today! I cherish this wonderful creative and therapeutic outlet of this blog which also serves as a way to support and send love and hope to this courageous community. It is not an easy choice to live an alternative…

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5 Ways to Meet Other Like-Minded Lifestyle / Polyamorous Folk

Cheers Sexy People! In my line of work being a sex-positive, polyamorous activist and author, I very often get asked: “How can I meet other like-minded peeps in the lifestyle / in the polyamorous community? Well I’m happy to say that this post aims to answer that very question! I have identified as being in…

Podcast Interview: Deborah Roth, Life Transition and Relationship Coach, and Interfaith Minister

Cheers Sexy People! I am thrilled to announce our latest podcast interview! This interview with an excellent and seasoned relationship coach Deborah Roth came about thanks to an introduction from one of our frequent commenters here, “ClaraTheGreat”. What an awesome community we have here! Connecting great humans that may be able to create magic together is a beautiful gift.…

A Poly Miracle X3 – A Home Visit, A Wine Sippy Cup, and a Surprise Cat Sitter

Cheers Sexy People! Hello friends. First I want to thank you all for the outpouring of love and support that came in from my last post where I described my feelings of getting shoved aside while my boyfriend’s family is visiting him for over a month. I had referenced Franklin Veaux’s Secondary Bill of Rights as…