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Exciting News! American Psychological Association (APA) Division 44 is now a Committee instead of a Task Force

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Hello! I am super excited to share some big news with you, my treasured community!As previously shared, I have been proud to be a part of American Psychological Association (APA) Division 44 Task Force, which promotes awareness and inclusivity about consensual non-monogamy (CNM). And, now I am even prouder! We are now the American Psychological Association (APA) Division 44 Committee on…

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Podcast Interview: Jim Fleckenstein – Author of “Love That Works,” Relationship Coach & Educator

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Cheers Sexy People! Hello, Loving Without Boundaries (LWB) community! My heart goes out to you during these challenging times. I hope you are doing your best to keep safe. Sharing inspirational stories of hope, inclusion, and healthy lifestyles are more important than ever. If you are looking for ways to connect loved ones you are…

Mind over medicine

Why Your TOTAL Health Matters, Polycule Hospital Visits, Authenticity, and “Mind Over Medicine” by Lissa Rankin

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Cheers Sexy People! Wow what a ride (and I’m still on it I’m afraid!) I am writing you from the other side of an alarming medical scare that rocked my world, my polycule, and my “best-laid-plans“ schedule! In our polyamorous community, we often talk about the “what-if’s”, such as “what if you are in the…

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Tidying Up our Emotional Baggage and our Relationships = AWESOME Personal Growth!

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Cheers Sexy People! I have been having a fascinating experience over the last year that I would love to share with this amazing, courageous, and awesome community. In my experience, reading is cathartic and healing, so whenever I need a jolt of inspiration or motivation, I quite often turn to books. So I recently turned…

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Hold Onto Your Butt: The “Jealousy Survival Guide” Book Launch is TOMORROW! Happy Halloween!

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Cheers Sexy People! Happy Halloween! Wow, wow, WOW! Writing a book and figuring out how to do a book launch has been nail-biting yet very exciting! I was totally stoked yesterday to see that the amazingly talented and super cool Tikva Wolf – creator of KimchiCuddles – created a comic in support of getting the…

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“Consider This: A Day of Challenging the Status Quo in Sex and Relationship” with Effy Blue & Friends in NY

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Cheers Sexy People! Wow wow WOW! What an incredible day I was fortunate enough to share with a spectacular array of humans, both in the audience and on the stage. “Relationship By Design” relationship coach, Effy Blue and her faithful and hard-working assistant Sara Dahan put together a spectacular event last weekend 9.16.17 in Brooklyn,…

Live-In Trial Run Experiment Week Update – “V” Poly Configuration

Communication Issues, Difficult Conversation, Healthy Relationship, Poly Family, Poly Husband, Poly Lifestyle4 Comments

Cheers Sexy People! In my last post, I mentioned that within my own polycule, we had a trial run week of my boyfriend living with my husband and I full-time as practice for the potential real thing. A member of the Loving Without Boundaries community was kind enough to reach out and ask if I would elaborate…

Relationship Anarchy, Co-Dependency and Loving

Co-Dependency, Healthy Relationship, Poly Family, Poly Husband, Poly Lifestyle, Polyamory13 Comments

Cheers Sexy People! My last post about forgiveness and moving forward after infidelity got some lively conversations going, both here in the comments section and in Facebook forums as well. I received the following comment from a Facebook friend: You talk a lot about trust – the question is, trust that your partner will do what? Do what s/he wants…