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Do You Have the INTEGRITY to Live an Honest Life, Dear Reader?

Do You Have the Integrity… …to defiantly live an honest life on your terms, with multiple partners, openly…with the consent of all involved – regardless of what society is doing around you? Think before you answer. Do you truly have what it takes to be deeply honest with yourself and others? To fight through fear?…

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How A Couple Successfully Opened Up Their Relationship and Thrived – Even After Cheating!

Wow … wait until you hear this! My clients Tim and Cheryl came to me out of desperation. Their relationship was on the verge of a breakup due to both of them having debilitating baggage. Tim had always struggled with being monogamous. Four failed marriages later, he was caught in a vicious cycle of being…

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Do You Want To Have The Exact Relationships You Want?

Did you know that right now, it’s possible for you to have the exact relationships you want, with people who appreciate you, virtually any time that you desire – even if you’ve struggled for years? I’ll explain how in just a second. But first, let’s talk about why so many people think this is impossible.…

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A Polyamory-Inspired Film Short Called “Triangle” from Writer/Director, Michael Conroy – Enjoy!

Cheers Sexy People! I am honored and delighted to share a short film that came to my attention by the writer/director himself, Michael Conroy. I just finished watching it for the first time, and I gotta say, I was in tears by the end of it. Why? Because this is partly my life, including the…

Polyamorous Community

The Polyamory Guide to Community Building (originally featured on “Multiamory”)

Cheers, Sexy People! Looking for other like-minded polyamorous peeps in your area but can’t seem to find any? Feeling alone on your unconventional life journey? That’s how I was feeling at the beginning of my consensually non-monogamous life over a decade ago. Thank goodness I eventually discovered the amazing power of community to help embrace…

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Jealousy is a NATURAL, NORMAL Human Emotion – Learn to MANAGE it – THRIVE, Don’t Just Survive!

Cheers Sexy People! Jealousy is a NATURAL, NORMAL human emotion that many of us feel from time to time, no matter what our chosen relationship structure is (poly, mono, or otherwise). Sound crazy? If so, you may have bought into the myth that people in open / polyamorous relationships should not and do not feel…

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“Consider This: A Day of Challenging the Status Quo in Sex and Relationship” with Effy Blue & Friends in NY

Cheers Sexy People! Wow wow WOW! What an incredible day I was fortunate enough to share with a spectacular array of humans, both in the audience and on the stage. “Relationship By Design” relationship coach, Effy Blue and her faithful and hard-working assistant Sara Dahan put together a spectacular event last weekend 9.16.17 in Brooklyn,…