No, nothing is wrong with you. Choosing polyamory was never a promise that jealousy would stop showing up — that’s not how this works, for anyone, no matter how long they’ve been doing it or how “healed” they are. Jealousy isn’t proof you’re broken, or bad at this, or that you picked the wrong relationship…
Trust and jealousy are not opposites — you can trust your partner completely and still feel your stomach drop the moment they walk out the door for a date. That spiral isn’t proof the trust is fake, and it isn’t proof something is wrong with you. It’s your nervous system reacting to an old fear…
Cheers, beautiful people. I want to tell you about John. John is 70 years old. He has been married for 28 years to a woman he loves deeply. They built something real together — a life of genuine respect, shared purpose, and the kind of partnership that most people spend their whole lives searching for.…
Why I said yes to the Non-Monogamy Hub, and why I think it matters for our community right now. Beautiful People! I want to tell you about something that genuinely excited me when it landed in my Instagram inbox — because it’s exactly the kind of thing I wish had existed when I was first…
A free screening, a live conversation, and the reason I said yes to being on camera when every instinct told me not to. Cheers, Beautiful People! Let me be honest with you about something. When the team behind “More Than Monogamy” first asked me to be part of their documentary, my immediate, visceral, gut reaction…
Happy Pride Month, beautiful people. 🌈 💜! I want to talk to you today — not as a coach, not as someone with letters after their name, but as a person who has spent over two decades loving outside the lines and building a life around helping others do the same. Because this month is…
Years later, she’s still using everything she learned — and what happened next will surprise you. Hello Loving Without Boundaries Community! I want to tell you about Mel. Not because her story ended the way she planned. But because of what it became instead. And because I think it might be the most important kind…
Hello Loving Without Boundaries Community! Over the past several weeks I shared three stories with you. Diana — who came to me thinking she needed to save her relationship. What she was really there to do was learn herself. Calvin — who was so terrified of losing the man he loved that he couldn’t sleep…
Hello Loving Without Boundaries Community! On raves, Rachel Reid, and why this show is more than just a love story. I want to tell you something a little embarrassing. Last night, at some hour that was firmly past when a responsible adult should be awake, I turned the final page of Rachel Reid’s Heated Rivalry.…
Hello Loving Without Boundaries Community! I want to tell you about Gina. Not because her story is dramatic in the way some stories are — no midnight crisis, no divorce papers on the table, no relationship teetering on the edge of collapse. Gina’s story is quieter than that. And in some ways, because of that,…