jealousy in relationships polyamory, open marriage, non-monogamy

Are the Odds Against You Building Jealousy-Free Open Relationships?

Have you noticed that feelings of jealousy, insecurity, self-doubt, or shame are starting to cause you to lose sleep at night? Are you frantically trying to figure out on your own how to handle your emotions and up-level your communication skills with your partners? Have you started to worry that your relationship(s) may be in…

Polyamory cinema, Triangle short film

A Polyamory-Inspired Film Short Called “Triangle” from Writer/Director, Michael Conroy – Enjoy!

Cheers Sexy People! I am honored and delighted to share a short film that came to my attention by the writer/director himself, Michael Conroy. I just finished watching it for the first time, and I gotta say, I was in tears by the end of it. Why? Because this is partly my life, including the…

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“Consider This: A Day of Challenging the Status Quo in Sex and Relationship” with Effy Blue & Friends in NY

Cheers Sexy People! Wow wow WOW! What an incredible day I was fortunate enough to share with a spectacular array of humans, both in the audience and on the stage. “Relationship By Design” relationship coach, Effy Blue and her faithful and hard-working assistant Sara Dahan put together a spectacular event last weekend 9.16.17 in Brooklyn,…

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5 Ways Polyamory Has Made Me A Happier Person (via SwingTowns)

Cheers Sexy People! Recently I have had the honor of being asked to be a contributing writer (along with many other fabulous writers) for a website called SwingTowns. This network serves the entire non-monogamy community such as people in open relationships, the polyamorous and polysexual, the swinger community, as well as the fetish-related community (think…

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5 Ways to Meet Other Like-Minded Lifestyle / Polyamorous Folk

Cheers Sexy People! In my line of work being a sex-positive, polyamorous activist and author, I very often get asked: “How can I meet other like-minded peeps in the lifestyle / in the polyamorous community? Well I’m happy to say that this post aims to answer that very question! I have identified as being in…

Big News! My Boyfriend Is Officially Moving In! (“V” Configuration)

Cheers Sexy People! It has been a very busy time indeed in my life – both personally and professionally. Some members of our community know that I have been doing quite a bit of traveling over the last two months. I’ve been fortunate enough to enjoy adventures first with my boyfriend and friends in Nashville, Tennessee…

Podcast Interview: Michael Rios, Epic Polyamorous Educator, Part One

Cheers Sexy People! I recently had the honor of interviewing a new friend of mine for my latest podcast here at Loving Without Boundaries! I had the good fortune of meeting Michael Rios at the amazing Beyond The Love conference in November 2015 in Columbus, Ohio. I participated in his “Polyamory as a Spiritual Path” workshop first thing Saturday morning. I…

Let’s Talk About Love, Vulnerability and “Being Seen”

Cheers Sexy People! Phew! I’ve had a whirlwind of a bunch of months lately! If you’ve been reading my last few posts, you know that I am heavily into some serious NRE (New Relationship Energy) right now with my new boyfriend. It has been remarkably beautiful to see how deeply you can dive in with someone in…