jealousy in relationships polyamory, open marriage, non-monogamy

Are the Odds Against You Building Jealousy-Free Open Relationships?

Have you noticed that feelings of jealousy, insecurity, self-doubt, or shame are starting to cause you to lose sleep at night? Are you frantically trying to figure out on your own how to handle your emotions and up-level your communication skills with your partners? Have you started to worry that your relationship(s) may be in…

Polyamory cinema, Triangle short film

A Polyamory-Inspired Film Short Called “Triangle” from Writer/Director, Michael Conroy – Enjoy!

Cheers Sexy People! I am honored and delighted to share a short film that came to my attention by the writer/director himself, Michael Conroy. I just finished watching it for the first time, and I gotta say, I was in tears by the end of it. Why? Because this is partly my life, including the…

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“Consider This: A Day of Challenging the Status Quo in Sex and Relationship” with Effy Blue & Friends in NY

Cheers Sexy People! Wow wow WOW! What an incredible day I was fortunate enough to share with a spectacular array of humans, both in the audience and on the stage. “Relationship By Design” relationship coach, Effy Blue and her faithful and hard-working assistant Sara Dahan put together a spectacular event last weekend 9.16.17 in Brooklyn,…

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5 Ways Polyamory Has Made Me A Happier Person (via SwingTowns)

Cheers Sexy People! Recently I have had the honor of being asked to be a contributing writer (along with many other fabulous writers) for a website called SwingTowns. This network serves the entire non-monogamy community such as people in open relationships, the polyamorous and polysexual, the swinger community, as well as the fetish-related community (think…

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5 Ways to Meet Other Like-Minded Lifestyle / Polyamorous Folk

Cheers Sexy People! In my line of work being a sex-positive, polyamorous activist and author, I very often get asked: “How can I meet other like-minded peeps in the lifestyle / in the polyamorous community? Well I’m happy to say that this post aims to answer that very question! I have identified as being in…

Big News! My Boyfriend Is Officially Moving In! (“V” Configuration)

Cheers Sexy People! It has been a very busy time indeed in my life – both personally and professionally. Some members of our community know that I have been doing quite a bit of traveling over the last two months. I’ve been fortunate enough to enjoy adventures first with my boyfriend and friends in Nashville, Tennessee…

Podcast Interview: Michael Rios, Epic Polyamorous Educator, Part One

Cheers Sexy People! I recently had the honor of interviewing a new friend of mine for my latest podcast here at Loving Without Boundaries! I had the good fortune of meeting Michael Rios at the amazing Beyond The Love conference in November 2015 in Columbus, Ohio. I participated in his “Polyamory as a Spiritual Path” workshop first thing Saturday morning. I…

Let’s Talk About Love, Vulnerability and “Being Seen”

Cheers Sexy People! Phew! I’ve had a whirlwind of a bunch of months lately! If you’ve been reading my last few posts, you know that I am heavily into some serious NRE (New Relationship Energy) right now with my new boyfriend. It has been remarkably beautiful to see how deeply you can dive in with someone in…

Podcast Interview: Heina Dadabhoy, Fellow Poly Blogger

Cheers Sexy People! I’m so excited to share with you our latest podcast episode here at Loving Without Boundaries! This interview is with Heina Dadabhoy whom I was introduced to via one of the presenters from the Beyond The Love 2015 conference, Neil Wehneman. Thanks, Neil for helping foster the connection between the two of us! I prepared…