Hello lovely humans, We are living in strange times right now, learning to adjust to a new reality. Many in our consensually non-monogamous community are separated from their partners as we deal with social distancing and restricted ability to travel. We also have challenges of not knowing how long this will last. It can make…
Hey beautiful community, I know that a lot of you are probably wondering what to make of this whole situation in the world today. It’s an unprecedented time. I know you may be cooped up with partners or a spouse, maybe some screaming kids, possibly by yourself, and it’s probably stressful. I know you may…
Cheers Sexy People! I often get questions from our polyamorous community surrounding children. I do not have any children of my own (my husband and I are infertile), but I still want to offer value to those in our community who do have kids or strive to have kids. On a related topic, I am…
Cheers Sexy People! Several months ago now I had the honor of being asked to be a contributing writer (along with many other fabulous writers) for a website called Multiamory. I am very proud of this second article that I wrote for Multiamory called Emotional Responsibility: Owning Your Side of the Fence. This topic is very near and dear…
Cheers Sexy People! Well, it’s been a helluva week! Lots of ups and downs and revelations. I’ve been thinking alot lately about emotion management and release, being authentic, and how love truly makes the world go round. Have you ever had moments where you feel like you are being replaced? It brings up feelings of…
Cheers Sexy People, Some thoughts for the day: Decide once and for all that your mood, your sense of balance and well-being are your responsibility. Decide that you are precious to yourself and that you are in charge of treating yourself well. BE YOUR OWN BEST FRIEND. Decide that you love and honor yourself and repeat this [decision] as…
Cheers Sexy People! Let’s face it: It’s impossible to talk about polyamory / ethical non-monogamy without the topic of jealousy coming up. It’s one of the first questions I got asked by my friends when I first “came out” to them. “But don’t you get jealous?” Why yes, yes I do. Some days it might…
This week is a particularly difficult week for me. I lost my father to cancer over six years ago. Not only was Sunday Father’s Day, but his birthday is this week too. “They” say time heals all wounds. I say that’s bull shit. Time may heal SOME wounds, including physical ones of course, but the…