Working Through Challenges, “The Wait” and Franklin’s Secondary Bill of Rights

Cheers Sexy People! I hope that you are having a great week! I am experiencing a challenging week I’m not afraid to say. I find that when I’m vulnerable with my sharing and what’s going on with my polyamorous life, I connect better with my readers creating a win-win for all of us. It’s great to talk…

Can Mono / Poly Relationships Work Without Pain?

Cheers Sexy Peeps! A comment just came in from a recent popular blog post of mine Why Do Polyamorous People Get Married? The comment is filled with pain and the commenter is seeking answers. I was about to write a reply in the comment section, but realized that the best way to serve this hurting individual…

Breaking The Silence on Monogamy – A New Documentary Explores Whether We Are Wired for Fidelity

Cheers Sexy People! Why is the divorce rate so incredibly high? (roughly 50% of married couples in America end in divorce as per www.divorcerate.org) Is monogamy necessary for a healthy relationship in today’s society… or is honesty, to your partner and to yourself possibly just as healthy? Why does infidelity cause so much pain, heartache…

Poly Interview: Ethical non-monogamy from a male artist and educator in Chicago

This is the fifth in a series of interviews of everyday people who are living a poly lifestyle (either polyamorous or polysexual), from their individual perspectives. They were each given a series of questions, and asked to pick several questions that they would like to answer from their personal experience. This fifth interview is of…

Poly Interview: Ethical non-monogamy from a young female in LA

This is the fourth in a series of interviews of everyday people who are living a poly lifestyle (either polyamorous or polysexual), from their individual perspectives. They were each given a series of questions, and asked to pick several questions that they would like to answer from their personal experience. This fourth interview is of…

non monogamy, polyamorous relationship

Couples In Transition: Monogamy and Non-monogamy

Cheers Sexy People! So… Monogamous or Non-monogamous? That is the question. I eventually answered that question (once I realized I had a safe ethical choice) as quite firmly: non-monogamous, as did my husband and we came to that decision together at the same time (OK, maybe I nudged first after reading Ethical Slut and feeling…

Walking Out Of The Darkness

Cheers Sexy People! This past Saturday nite, I went to the Out Of The Darkness Walk (sponsored by the American Foundation for Suicide Prevention) in support of several of my friends who were walking in memory of those that they had lost through suicide. I was deeply moved by the experience. There were over 2,000…

3 Communication Pitfalls To Avoid

Hello Sexy People! Today I am recovering from a 5-day mini vacation / destination wedding in the heart of the U.S. in Nashville, TN. I may have over-celebrated a little bit.  🙂  Being that it is Tuesday after Memorial Day Weekend, I’m betting many of you are also recovering from hopefully fun-filled weekends. So I…