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From the Dear Kitty Archives: Sexual Shutdown and Mismatched Libidos

Hello Sexy People! I am delighted to share one of my “Dear Kitty” columns that was previously published in “Ethical Non-Monogamy Magazine” (ENM), which unfortunately, is no longer being published. We are honored to have permission from ENM to keep the love going by sharing from our archives. With all my heart, I absolutely love…

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From the Dear Kitty Archives: Your Voice Matters (Speaking Out in a Sacred Sexual Space)

Hello Sexy People! I am delighted to share one of my “Dear Kitty” columns that was previously published in “Ethical Non-Monogamy Magazine” (ENM), which unfortunately, is no longer being published. We are honored to have permission from ENM to keep the love going by sharing from our archives. With all my heart, I absolutely love…

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How Do You Get the “Sexy” Back After Childbirth? Let’s Talk Communication Techniques, Sexy People!

Cheers Sexy People! I often get questions from our polyamorous community surrounding children. I do not have any children of my own (my husband and I are infertile), but I still want to offer value to those in our community who do have kids or strive to have kids. On a related topic, I am…

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Tidying Up our Emotional Baggage and our Relationships = AWESOME Personal Growth!

Cheers Sexy People! I have been having a fascinating experience over the last year that I would love to share with this amazing, courageous, and awesome community. In my experience, reading is cathartic and healing, so whenever I need a jolt of inspiration or motivation, I quite often turn to books. So I recently turned…

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Emotional Responsibility (via Multiamory) + Exclusive Content (via Patreon) + Upcoming Events

Cheers Sexy People! Several months ago now I had the honor of being asked to be a contributing writer (along with many other fabulous writers) for a website called Multiamory. I am very proud of this second article that I wrote for Multiamory called Emotional Responsibility: Owning Your Side of the Fence. This topic is very near and dear…

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Exclusive LWB Patreon Podcast Offerings + Nonviolent Communication Techniques from JSG

Cheers Sexy People! I hope your year is off to a running and spectacular start! In an effort to switch things up for fun while at the same time give you stellar content, I have just released a new educational burst podcast! In this new series, I will review various techniques that help ANY healthy…

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Acceptance for the REAL YOU and When To Tell If You’re In An Unhealthy Friendship

Cheers Sexy People! I don’t know about you but speaking for myself, I am super big on nurturing and improving my emotional, mental as well as physical well-being. My inner peace and emotional state are incredibly important to me, as well as my sanity! I work very hard at surrounding myself with uplifting, inspiring, awesome…

Holy Shit – I’m an EMPATH! … How Polyamory and Grief Can Play in the Same Sandbox

Cheers Sexy People! Last week, I wrote about how I was devastated and deeply saddened by losing a dear friend, colleague and mentor in a tragic accident while he was about to reach the summit of the tallest mountain in Africa – an achievement he always wanted. It just completely broke my heart to see this incredible…

Why Do We Cheat?

Cheers Sexy People! I have been hard at work preparing my presentation for The 4th International Conference on the Future of Monogamy and Nonmonogamy. Ironically, I am the first speaker Saturday morning, February 14th. Yup, that’s right! Valentine’s Day! How hilarious is that?! I’m going to go up there and speak publicly about my polycule and…