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You deserve fulfilling CNM relationships. Let’s make it happen together!

Hello Loving Without Boundaries Community!   Do you find yourself constantly attracted to unhealthy or codependent patterns in your consensual non-monogamous (CNM) relationships? If you’re sick and tired of the endless cycle of roller coaster emotions, the pain of unfulfilling connections, and the fear that you’ll never find true happiness or suitable partners also interested in…

Ready to transform your CNM connections from ‘meh’ to ‘amazing’? Let's do this!

Ready to transform your CNM connections from ‘meh’ to ‘amazing’? Let’s do this!

Hello Loving Without Boundaries Community!   Are you yearning for more satisfying, soul-nourishing consensual non-monogamous (CNM) relationships but feeling unsure about how to get there? If you’re ready to experience the full potential and joy of your CNM journey, but lack the right tools and support to make it happen, I completely understand.As someone who…

Feeling stuck in your CNM journey

Feeling stuck in your CNM journey? I’ve been there too – let’s talk

Hello Loving Without Boundaries Community!   Are you on a journey of self-discovery, exploring the depths of your authentic self through consensual non-monogamy (CNM)? Embracing this path can be both exhilarating and challenging, and I’m here to remind you that you don’t have to navigate it alone.As a trauma-informed coach with years of personal experience…

Polyamory and Parenting: Navigating CNM with Children in the Picture

Hello Loving Without Boundaries Community!   Raising children is one of life’s greatest joys and challenges, and when you add consensual non-monogamy (CNM) to the mix, things can get even more complex. You might be wondering how to balance your relationships with your parenting responsibilities, or how to create a stable and loving environment for…

Can I share some communication strategies that have made a big difference in my CNM life?

Hello Loving Without Boundaries Community!   Are you struggling to navigate the complex world of consensual non-monogamy (CNM)? Do you find yourself grappling with misunderstandings, unspoken expectations, or even conflicts with your partners? You’re not alone. Clear communication is the foundation of any successful CNM relationship, but it’s not always easy to achieve.It’s Kitty, your friendly neighborhood…

I’ve been through the CNM emotional rollercoaster too – here’s what helped me

Hello Loving Without Boundaries Community!   Are you navigating the joys and challenges of open, consensual, multiple relationships while struggling with intense emotions like jealousy, guilt, insecurity, or shame? I understand how isolating it can feel when it seems like you have nowhere to turn for support.How do I know how isolating this lifestyle can…

Navigating the Intersection of CNM and Mental Health: Strategies for Thriving

Hello Loving Without Boundaries Community!   Do you ever feel like you’re juggling the unique challenges of living a consensually non-monogamous (CNM) lifestyle while also trying to maintain your mental well-being? I know firsthand how overwhelming it can be to navigate this intersection, especially when it feels like the world doesn’t always understand or support…

Unlock the Secrets of Attachment Styles in CNM Relationships 🔓💕

Hello Loving Without Boundaries Community!   Do you ever find yourself struggling to navigate the complexities of your consensually non-monogamous (CNM) relationships? You’re not alone! Many of us in the polyamorous community face challenges when it comes to understanding our attachment styles and how they influence our connections with others.   With my many years…

Mastering Communication in CNM: Your Key to Thriving Relationships 🗣️💕

Do you ever feel like your words are getting lost in translation, leading to misunderstandings, hurt feelings, or even conflict in your consensually non-monogamous or polyamorous relationships? If so, you’re not alone. Navigating the complexities of multiple partnerships can be challenging, and effective communication is key to ensuring everyone’s needs are met and boundaries are…