Why I said yes to the Non-Monogamy Hub, and why I think it matters for our community right now.
Beautiful People!
I want to tell you about something that genuinely excited me when it landed in my Instagram inbox — because it’s exactly the kind of thing I wish had existed when I was first trying to figure out who I was and how I was wired to love, and be in relationships.
Loving Without Boundaries is now featured on the Nymph Non-Monogamy Hub — a free, curated resource at nymph.so/non-monogamy-hub — bringing together trusted educational content, coaches, guides, and community voices in one place, specifically for people exploring ethical non-monogamy, polyamory, and open relationships.
Here’s why that matters to me, and why I said yes without hesitation.
The Problem This Solves
When someone first starts questioning the relationship model they inherited — when they’re Googling things at midnight they’d never say out loud, or quietly wondering whether there’s another way — where do they go? What do they find?
The honest answer is: it depends. A lot. Sometimes they find something genuinely helpful. Sometimes they find something that reinforces the shame they were already carrying. Sometimes they find a corner of the internet that is technically about non-monogamy but doesn’t actually feel like a safe place to land.
The Nymph Non-Monogamy Hub is being built to solve that. It’s a curated space — meaning someone is actually vetting what goes in — where the people searching for real information about ENM, polyamory, and open relationships can find trusted voices without having to sort through everything the algorithm throws at them first.
Sixteen thousand people visit the hub every month. Sixteen thousand people who are actively looking for exactly what I’ve spent twenty-plus years building. That’s not a number I take lightly.
Why I Think Curation Matters Right Now
Here’s something I’ve been sitting with lately: the ENM coaching and education space has grown a LOT in the past few years. Which is mostly wonderful — more voices, more perspectives, more representation. But it also means the person who’s new to all of this has a harder time knowing who to trust, what’s grounded in real expertise, and what’s just well-marketed noise.
My credentials — Master Certified Coach, nearly 10,000 coaching hours, APA Committee on Consensual Non-Monogamy, twenty-plus years living this life myself — exist because I believe this community deserves people who take the work seriously. A curated hub that brings those kinds of voices together in one place? That’s the rising tide I want to be part of.
What You’ll Find Over There
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The Loving Without Boundaries blog and podcast are both live on the hub right now, fully attributed and linked back here — so if you find us through Nymph, welcome. You’re exactly who we’re here for.
And if you’re already in this community and you have a friend, a partner, a sibling, or a colleague who has been cautiously curious about non-monogamy and doesn’t quite know where to start — send them to nymph.so/non-monogamy-hub. It’s free. It’s curated. And it’s a genuinely good first landing spot for someone who needs to know they’re not alone before they’re ready to take the next step.
That’s what resources like this are for. And I’m very proud to be part of it.
With love and gratitude,
Coach Kitty 💜
Find LWB on the Non-Monogamy Hub at nymph.so/non-monogamy-hub
Coaching, books, podcast, and our community at lovingwithoutboundaries.com
