sex after kids

How Do You Get the “Sexy” Back After Childbirth? Let’s Talk Communication Techniques, Sexy People!

Cheers Sexy People! I often get questions from our polyamorous community surrounding children. I do not have any children of my own (my husband and I are infertile), but I still want to offer value to those in our community who do have kids or strive to have kids. On a related topic, I am…

Mind over medicine

Why Your TOTAL Health Matters, Polycule Hospital Visits, Authenticity, and “Mind Over Medicine” by Lissa Rankin

Cheers Sexy People! Wow what a ride (and I’m still on it I’m afraid!) I am writing you from the other side of an alarming medical scare that rocked my world, my polycule, and my “best-laid-plans“ schedule! In our polyamorous community, we often talk about the “what-if’s”, such as “what if you are in the…

daddyshome Performer at Saturday night’s burlesque show

Woodhull Sexual Freedom Summit 2017: We are ALL Sexual Freedom Fighters!

Cheers Sexy People! Another year, another Woodhull Sexual Freedom Summit (SFS)! And another confirmation that I love this conference! Wow! Last year was my first year at this incredible, information-filled, jam-packed-full-of-fun conference that happens to be only 10 minutes away from me in Alexandria or Arlington, Virginia. How could I miss this epic-ly cool event…

UNF pride club

Successful Sex Week at UNF Sharing a New Workshop: Polyamory In Practice

Cheers Sexy People! Wow wow wow! What an absolute honor it was to be one of the presenters representing the Relationship Equality Foundation (REF) at the University of North Florida’s (UNF) first ever Sex Week! I was so humbled and excited to have the opportunity to create a special workshop with the UNF Pride Club students…

Podcast Interview: A Wry Perspective on Fluid Bonding

Cheers Sexy People! I am stoked to share with you our latest podcast episode here at Loving Without Boundaries! This is the third podcast interview with my good friend, nonmonogamy consultant and partner in crime, Wry from A Wry Perspective. Having gained experience in multiple forms of non-monogamous relationship over the past 13 years, Wry advocates awareness…

Walking Out Of The Darkness

Cheers Sexy People! This past Saturday nite, I went to the Out Of The Darkness Walk (sponsored by the American Foundation for Suicide Prevention) in support of several of my friends who were walking in memory of those that they had lost through suicide. I was deeply moved by the experience. There were over 2,000…

3 Communication Pitfalls To Avoid

Hello Sexy People! Today I am recovering from a 5-day mini vacation / destination wedding in the heart of the U.S. in Nashville, TN. I may have over-celebrated a little bit.  🙂  Being that it is Tuesday after Memorial Day Weekend, I’m betting many of you are also recovering from hopefully fun-filled weekends. So I…

Poly Interview: Ethical non-monogamy from a young man in LA (Part Two)

This is the third in a series of interviews of everyday people who are living a poly lifestyle (either polyamorous or polysexual), from their individual perspectives. They were each given a series of questions, and asked to pick several questions that they would like to answer from their personal experience. This third interview is of…