Here’s the honest answer, not the one that sells better: it doesn’t fully go away. Not at five years in, not at twenty. And I want you to hear that as relief, not a life sentence — because the goal was never to arrive at a place where you never feel jealous again. The goal…
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No. And I want to say that clearly, right up front, because I have heard some version of “maybe I’m just not built for this” on more intake calls than I can count. It is never true. Jealousy doesn’t mean you’re broken. It doesn’t mean you picked the wrong relationship structure. And the reflex to…
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If you’re staring at the ceiling at 2:45 in the morning, crying, and you can’t even explain why — nothing is wrong with you. This isn’t proof your relationship is broken. It isn’t proof you picked wrong, or that you’re bad at this, or that everyone else figured out something you never will. Sometimes the…
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No, nothing is wrong with you. Choosing polyamory was never a promise that jealousy would stop showing up — that’s not how this works, for anyone, no matter how long they’ve been doing it or how “healed” they are. Jealousy isn’t proof you’re broken, or bad at this, or that you picked the wrong relationship…
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Trust and jealousy are not opposites — you can trust your partner completely and still feel your stomach drop the moment they walk out the door for a date. That spiral isn’t proof the trust is fake, and it isn’t proof something is wrong with you. It’s your nervous system reacting to an old fear…
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Cheers, beautiful people. I want to tell you about John. John is 70 years old. He has been married for 28 years to a woman he loves deeply. They built something real together — a life of genuine respect, shared purpose, and the kind of partnership that most people spend their whole lives searching for.…
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Hello, Loving Without Boundaries (LWB) community! I am humbled, happy, and inspired to share my latest podcast interview with the team behind the new ethical non-monogamy documentary titled “More Than Monogamy”. I wrote a blog post that goes into more about my experience in the creation of, and excitement in the release of this first-ever…
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Why I said yes to the Non-Monogamy Hub, and why I think it matters for our community right now. Beautiful People! I want to tell you about something that genuinely excited me when it landed in my Instagram inbox — because it’s exactly the kind of thing I wish had existed when I was first…
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A free screening, a live conversation, and the reason I said yes to being on camera when every instinct told me not to. Cheers, Beautiful People! Let me be honest with you about something. When the team behind “More Than Monogamy” first asked me to be part of their documentary, my immediate, visceral, gut reaction…
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Hello, Loving Without Boundaries (LWB) community! I am happy and inspired to share my latest podcast interview with Gary Brick. Oooooh, how I have been waiting to capture a story such as his. I feel blessed and grateful that our paths crossed! Actually HOW our paths crossed is quite interesting. Having gotten out of an…
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