Nothing speaks more authentically than the experiences of the people I’ve had the privilege to work with. I’ve been honored to support people navigating polyamory, ethical non-monogamy, and the joys and challenges of building healthy, authentic relationships. Whether you’re new to polyamory or ethical non-monogamy, or looking to deepen existing relationships, my goal is always to provide compassionate, practical support. I’m grateful to everyone who has shared their experiences, and I hope their words give you a sense of what you can expect when working with me and Loving Without Boundaries.
LWB Kitty Chambliss Reviews
4.8 Stars Rating on
Kitty Chambliss
Ethical Non-Monogamy
& Polyamory Coach & Educator
Forever Changed
Kitty and the Loving Without Boundaries crew are absolutely amazing. My husband and I have been together for 10 years, and recently navigating a consensual non-monogamous relationship wouldn’t have been possible without them. This experience has been life altering in the best ways for both my husband and me. We have reconnected, found acceptance, and are in a much better place now than we would have been without their guidance.
I am eternally grateful to Kitty and the LWB crew for helping us learn more about ourselves and how to live our most authentic lives full of love and acceptance for ourselves as well as each other.
Changed my life!
When I had entered this course, I was in such a space of blame with my partner, everything happening to me was his fault. We were close to completing our relationship. The first week taking this course was so eye-opening. Everything that was talked about validated what I had been experiencing and I quickly realized that I was also contributing to the challenges we were experiencing. Following several weeks of new awareness and resources, I was able to manage all the big emotions I was experiencing. Everything I learned was easy to apply and really worked. Now my partner and I catch our projections much quicker and have excellent communication skills when there are breakdowns. It saved our partnership! I am so glad I made this decision to take this course, it changed my life!!
I was super skeptical about this…
I was super skeptical about doing this coaching series. I balked at the price, thought it sounded a bit like a sales pitch, and didn’t think it was for us because we’re not Poly. Hubs paid for it and said let’s do it, so I begrudgingly went along with it. I could not have been more wrong. I came to see just how much time and effort has been put into this, and continues to be. I’m wondering if at the tail end of this, if Kitty is making more than minimum wage for all the obvious hours she puts in!
This isn’t a coaching course about just living outside the boundaries of heteronormative relationships. This is about how to live YOUR best life. The skills we’ve learned I use in every relationship I have, not just with my husband. I am so grateful for all we have achieved in this course. Each module, each call, each time we practice what we’ve learned, is SO VALUABLE!
I’m still only about halfway thought the modules. Even with only being halfway through, the growth we’ve both made during this has allowed us to start having fun and meaningful encounters with like-minded people. The most beautiful part of it is that now, each time we have an encounter with someone in the non-monogamy setting (even when it’s over-the-top awesome), we realize how much we are grateful and just DELIGHTED to be enjoying life with each other. We really are the yin to each other’s yang. Take the chance. Do the work. You won’t regret it.
If you have doubts, please read this. This program gave me my life back.
I convinced my wife to sign up for the program. We’d been separated for a few months and had been in couples therapy for years and couldn’t make headway. I did the program and it was truly transformative, my wife didn’t show up at all, save a couple of calls. The bare minimum to be in a marriage or any relationship is, you have to show up. She didn’t and that relationship had to end but the communication and conflict resolution tools I learned are priceless, the mindset shifts tremendous and powerful (thanks Bea!), the mindfulness and meditation awakening (Eric!), and to have a dynamic and loving coach who could see right to my core to guide me (Kitty!!) just made the experience of leaving the marriage I was trying to save a huge growth opportunity and I am much happier for it. The program also has a wonderful community of current students and graduates to lean on.
I feel as though I am awake, aware, have a positive mindset and goals set to achieve, and have an adventure ahead of me despite not achieving the goal of reconciliation. Letting go of outcomes and becoming the best version of myself, full of kindness, respect, love and empathy puts me in the driver’s seat for my life and my happiness. All those years of therapy and what I really needed was coaching to look inward to be able to see forward. I implore anyone struggling in their relationship(s) to sign up, buy in completely, and do the work. You won’t regret it. Coach Kitty and her team can get you there
Thanks to Kitty, we survived!
Thanks, Kitty. I appreciate everything you’ve done to get us this far! When I first reached out to you, I said “our relationship is in jeopardy” and I was fearful we would not make it another month. I’m forever grateful I have tools to use to continue to improve myself and our relationship. We are in a very different place than we were when I first reached out to you only a few short months ago.
Once deciding to enroll in the program, it forces a couple to Stop, Observe, Strategize about their relationship and think deeply about what really is important and what you want life to look like, both individually and as a couple. Although Ben and I are still at different spots on the monogamous vs. polyamorous scale, I believe we respect where the other person is at, and are working together to move those spots closer on the scale, and be in a more unified space while also being true to who we are as individuals. I’m so happy I reached out to you, and am no longer living in daily fear. I was scared of this beautiful relationship ending, because we weren’t smart enough to communicate like adults, and were too stubborn to stop and listen respectfully to the other person! We communicate in a much different way than we did in April, and I’ll be forever grateful for your coaching that got us to this spot!
I’m not sure what our relationship looks like in 3 months, 8 months, 3 years, 8 years…and that’s ok. Today I’m grateful that we are best friends and life partners who adventure together through life by choice, not obligation, pursuing what is best for ourselves and each other while squeezing every drop out of our short life here on earth.
I’m am so incredibly grateful for the program and you. My anxiety levels are lower than they have been in the past few years as we have attempted to navigate this space alone. In the past when Ben was with someone else I would panic and fear the worst but after your coaching and the tools you have provided I feel at ease when he’s away and have learned how to control my negative emotions.
You not only gave us tools to get our relationship back on track, you gave me peace of mind and relief from the overwhelming emotions I had dealt with for three years. You’re right Kitty, I can stand it. I get to go through life with this wonderful human. I’ve been given the opportunity to color outside the lines with him, and if it doesn’t work, I can still stand it.
Forever grateful.
Life changing experience…
I sought out Kitty Chambliss and the Loving Without Boundaries program after coming to a crossroads in a relationship and trying
to decide whether to let it go or fight for it. I thought I was arriving to save my relationship, but what I was really there to do was learn myself.
While the program is often associated with non-traditional relationship structures, what I found was something far more universal. The tools I learned fundamentally changed how I relate to myself during emotionally hard times. I learned how to interrupt unhelpful mental spirals, check the accuracy of my internal narratives, regulate my nervous system, communicate more clearly, and seek support in healthier ways.
The coaching is structured, practical, and grounded, and Kitty facilitates the work in a way that makes complex emotional concepts accessible and immediately usable in real life. These skills now show up for me not just in relationships, but in my professional life, decision making, and everyday moments when things feel challenging.
What stands out most is that this program doesn’t push a single model for how people “should” love or live. Instead, it builds self-trust, emotional responsibility, and resilience – skills that apply regardless of relationship style, life stage, or circumstances.
This work has forever changed me, and as a bonus, my relationship with both myself and my partner are flourishing. If you’re looking for coaching that creates lasting, practical change, not just insight in the moment, this program delivers
No regrets
I was really good at monogamy for the first 27 years of my marriage. When I inadvertently wandered off the ranch, I struggled with if/how to tell my wife. After some research and many sleepless nights, I took the unconventional approach of proposing ethical non-monogamy. That didn’t land too well, and couples therapy didn’t help us make any progress. So, I was super-excited when I discovered Kitty and her LWB program. My wife and I went through the 8-week program along with dozens of other couples and individuals online. It was just what we needed…a forum to learn more about ourselves and the possibilities in front of us, to openly discuss and normalize the situation, and to prepare us both to make whichever decision would be best for each of us. Kitty and her team were so supportive, encouraging and loving throughout the process and ongoing. In the end, my wife and I chose to transition to a loving coparenting marriage with each having the latitude to pursue our best lives. This has been a far better path forward than the traditional storyline of divorce, anger and regret. Let Kitty and the communal LWB experience work its magic on your relationship, too. You won’t regret it!
Life Changing
Kitty, Bea, and the entire community have been life changing. The course work, content, and online events with the community are curated in a way that builds and advances your emotional maturity, communication skills, and ability to overcome your ego. Although Kitty specializes for alternative/poly lifestyles, these skills are applicable for all. This initial course was so life changing for me that I have continued my journey with Kitty and her team through her other offerings.
I can’t thank them enough for guiding, building, and helping me become the person I am today. I also can’t thank the support you receive from others who participate in the course and really become lifelong friends who show nothing but compassion and support for everyone.
If you’re on the fence – do it! This isn’t just a course about your relationship/s, but focuses on you.
Just what we needed
My husband and I had opened things up in our marriage and things went badly. I realized I am polyamorous and he isn’t. We were in fear and out of trust. We needed a safe and effective place to go to address our issues without being judged. Kitty and her program were our answered prayers! I learned so much valuable information that I can apply to every relationship in my life, especially to my relationship with myself. Our marriage is more solid, our communication is healthier, and our connection is stronger. I am feeling more confident in myself and look forward to living our best lives together!
My husband and I found Kitty in our…
My husband and I found Kitty in our hardest, crisis moment, being skeptical at the start I dove in into her magical guided course. And what valuable tools we’ve found! She is like a wiz taking on a magical journey of self exploration, observation of your boundaries. Being comfortable with new dimensions of myself I gained confidence in voicing my needs and to myself and my partner. This is another gem that she can gift you, are keys to healthy communication. Overall very satisfied with how easy and user friendly her whole course went, and weekly calls were so beneficial to feel the spirit of transformation, of course there wr some stagnant moment in my experience, but I was always felt open to share it during the group or private and get wholesome help and support. Go Kitty, your mission is great, and Im wishing you only to thrive and flourish.
Want to experience Healthy Multiple Loving Relationships?
Whether you want to transition to an open-relationship or open-marriage or you’re already in a polyamorous relationship, involved with someone who is, or “poly-curious” and wondering if non-monogamy might be right for you, Kitty Chambliss works with people struggling with every aspect of multiple intimate relationships.