Hello Loving Without Boundaries Community!
It’s like that warning sign you see on bridges sometimes, the one that says, “Don’t do it – think before you leap!” Well, consider this email your warning sign, my friends. If you’re considering any sort of extreme reaction to your partner’s infidelity, I’m here to tell you that there IS another option. And it doesn’t involve a crime scene or a courtroom.
Listen, I get it. Infidelity is a painful, messy thing. It can make you feel betrayed, angry, and downright hopeless. But as tempting as it might be to let those feelings drive you to do something you’ll regret, I promise you there’s a healthier, safer way to handle things. And it starts with some inner work, honesty (with yourself and others), non-violent communication, and a willingness to at least consider alternative relationship structures (or also peacefully consciously uncouple).
Now, I’m not saying non-monogamy is the answer for everyone. But I AM saying that it’s worth considering before you let your emotions lead you down a dangerous path. When done right, consensual non-monogamy can bring more love, connection, trust, and intimacy into your life. It’s a way to embrace your desires and needs without causing irreparable harm to yourself or others. And isn’t that what we all want, in the end?
So, if you’re at the end of your rope and feeling like you’re one mistake away from becoming a Forensic Files case yourself, I urge you to take a deep breath and reach out for help instead. As an open relationship and polyamory coach, I’ve helped countless individuals and couples navigate the tricky waters of infidelity, heal over time, and come out the other side stronger and more in love than ever. And I’d be honored to do the same for you.
Book a free 45-minute breakthrough call with me today, and let’s talk about your options. I promise I won’t judge you for those moments of darkness – we’ve all been there. But I WILL help you find a better way forward, one that doesn’t involve a police investigation or a prison sentence. LOL 😉
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Remember, my dear friends: you have options. You have the power to create a love life that feels good and right and true, no matter what society might tell you. And you have a whole community of people who are here to support you every step of the way. 💖
So put down the metaphorical murder weapon, back away slowly, and ask for help instead. I’m here for you, and I can’t wait to help you find a better way.
With all my love and a big, non-felonious hug,
Kitty Chambliss
P.S. Seriously though, if you’re struggling with thoughts of violence, please seek professional help immediately. Your life and your loved ones’ lives are precious. There’s always a better solution, and I’m here to help you find it. 💖
KITTY CHAMBLISS, Master Coach (ICF-Certified), CPC
Relationship Coach | Speaker | Educator | Trauma-Informed
Author of “Jealousy Survival Guide: How to feel safe, happy, and secure in an open relationship”
