Hello, Loving Without Boundaries (LWB) community!
I am thrilled to share my latest podcast interview with Helena Goto, entrepreneur, conflict resolution specialist, and author of “A Modern Family: Keeping the Family Intact when the Marriage is Over”. What a breath of fresh air I found Helena to be: smart, innovative, radiant, as well as engaging. I was so delighted to speak to someone who is truly thinking outside the box about marriage (when it works, and when it doesn’t), and how to keep the family together in a completely creative way! Let’s face it: We ALL know one or more couples who are staying together “for the children”, even though they realize that their marriage doesn’t work anymore. They may be miserable, uninspired, and often at each other’s throats arguing intensely. How does THAT affect your children? What a novel idea to find a creative and truly inspiring way to still share resources, stay in close proximity so the kids still have two engaged parents around, while also opening the door for each parent to find love, romance, and fulfilling relationships today and beyond. It’s ok – and even courageous – to notice that we evolve and sometimes grow apart. Helena — I am behind you and your innovative thinking 1000%. Thank you for sharing your conflict resolution skills with the world by writing your important book. Keep shining your light, being an amazing mom, and inspiring us all!
Here is her Bio:
Helena Goto founded Goto Solutions in 2013 and works with companies to support their people in navigating conflict in the workplace. With Master’s degrees in both Business Administration and Conflict Resolution, Helena’s background gives her the combined benefit of understanding how a successful business functions, as well as the human dynamics that motivate people to work well together
Recently Helena has applied her dispute resolution skillset at home as her marriage was coming to an end. As a result, throughout the process, she has been able to successfully navigate keeping her family intact. Her book, “A Modern Family: Keeping the Family Intact when the Marriage is Over” was published in early 2024, and it shares her personal journey and is essentially a workbook to support others going through the process.
Helena lives in Los Angeles with her three sons, ex-husband, and two rescue dogs.
Some topics we discuss in this highly interesting, informative, and entertaining interview:
- The decision to dissolve the marriage but keeping the family in tact.
- Carefully controlling information flow to children.
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Prioritizing the parent’s well-being for the children’s sake.
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Setting clear boundaries after a confrontational incident.
- Applying conflict resolution skills to family situations.
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Importance of listening, patience, and honesty.
- Tune in to listen to this fantastic podcast episode!
Thank you, Helena, for being so wonderfully generous with your time, and for sharing your work and life with us via the podcast interview! It was enlightening, interesting, and so fun! You can learn more about Helena Goto on Instagram.
To hear the podcast, go to the Podcast link here and subscribe to the Loving Without Boundaries podcast, then check out Episode 258 with Helena Goto. Also, please help spread awareness of alternative lifestyles and create more tolerance for consensual non-monogamy in the world at large by Rating and Reviewing the LWB podcast in iTunes. It only takes a few minutes.
If you would like to be interviewed either in written form or via audio on the podcast, please feel free to contact me and we will set something up. Thank you!
ANNOUNCEMENT — GUEST PODCAST APPEARANCES
I recently have had the honor of being featured on these awesome podcasts:
40+ Gay Men Gay Talk Podcast by Rick Clemons, Episode 193 where I talk about throuples and polyamory.
Normalizing Non-Monogamy Podcast, Episode 179 as I share my story with them.
Indie Author Weekly Podcast, Episode 112 in which I talk about writing my book, “The Jealousy Survival Guide.”
The Open Nesters Podcast, Episode 14 and hear me chat with them on jealousy, compersion, and how to handle a deep relationship.
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See you on the flip side, lovely community! Keep being brave, compassionately vulnerable, and uniquely and authentically you!
Wishing you peace, love and happiness
(and thrilling, fun sex too!)
Kitty Chambliss, Master Certified Coach (MCC), CPC, TIC
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