Hello, Loving Without Boundaries (LWB) community!
I am very excited to share my latest podcast interview with Bart Golub, a relationship expert and psychotherapist that specializes in polyamory and ethical non-monogamy (ENM). I found this interview fascinating, enlightening, and such a breathe of fresh air to know that someone like Bart exists – a caring and competent therapist who specializes in polyamory and ENM with a passion that could light a fire! I love how Bart’s work centers around his Relational Capacity Therapy (RCT), and the five capacities of: Vulnerability, Emotional Intelligence, Compersion, Relational Confidence, and Agreements. Makes total sense to me, and very much aligns with my own empowering work with my coaching clients. I love when synchronicities happen. Bart, thank you so much for reaching out to share your beautiful mission, and your passion to support our wider collective community. You are just a delight, and a gift to the world. Keep going – I’m rooting for your success!
Here is his Bio:
Bart Golub is an interpersonal psychotherapist in San Francisco. After nearly 20 years in corporate America, he earned his MSW from Columbia School of Social Work and specializes in polyamory and ENM.
Some topics we discuss in this highly interesting, informative, and thought-provoking interview:
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How clear communication and collaborative agreements are crucial for healthy relationships.
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Importance of ongoing consent and continuous dialogue.
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Self-reflection and honest communication are key for sustaining long-term relationships and individual happiness.
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Alfred Adler’s philosophy that all human struggles are essentially relationship problems.
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Emphasizes polyamory as an evolution of relationship security and honesty.
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Rejecting hierarchical labels like “primary partner,” preferring descriptive terms such as “nesting partner”.
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The importance of communication and collaborative agreements over authoritarian rules.
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Tune in to listen to this fantastic podcast episode!
Thank you, Bart, for being so wonderfully generous with your time, and for sharing your work and life with us via the podcast interview! It was enlightening, interesting, and so fun! You can learn more about Bart Golub on his Website.
To hear the podcast, go to the Podcast link here and subscribe to the Loving Without Boundaries podcast, then check out Episode 286 with Bart Golub. Also, please help spread awareness of alternative lifestyles and create more tolerance for consensual non-monogamy in the world at large by Rating and Reviewing the LWB podcast in iTunes. It only takes a few minutes.
If you would like to be interviewed either in written form or via audio on the podcast, please feel free to contact me and we will set something up. Thank you!
ANNOUNCEMENT — GUEST PODCAST APPEARANCES
I recently have had the honor of being featured on these awesome podcasts:
Open Window Institute Podcast with Jesse Dean, released February 10, 2025, where we discuss struggling with debilitating stress and anxiety on my journey to emotional freedom fulfilling my mission.
The Sensitivity Doctor Podcast by Dr. Amelia Kelley, Episode 109 where we discuss healing codependency.
Indie Author Weekly Podcast, Episode 112 in which I talk about writing my book, “Jealousy Survival Guide.”
Normalizing Non-Monogamy Podcast, Episode 179 as I share my story with them.
Poly Weekly Podcast, Episode 540 in which I talk about my insights on jealousy and my book, “Jealousy Survival Guide.”
Multiamory Podcast by Dedeker Winston, Episode 140 where I talk about the lessons I’ve learned as a polyamorous person who struggles with jealousy.
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LWB Local Washington DC Metro Area Meetup
– If you’re local or happen to be visiting the DC metro area, come join us for a fun and engaging social gathering at 6:45 pm ET on Wednesday, May 13, 2026, at Bus Boys & Poets Arlington (4251 Campbell Avenue, Arlington, VA 22206). NOTE LOCATION CHANGE! (and with that: Location subject to change.)
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>> Looking for more events around the globe? Check out Alan’s Polyamory List of Events to stay informed and connected.
See you on the flip side, lovely community! Keep being brave, compassionately vulnerable, and uniquely and authentically you!
Wishing you peace, love and happiness
(and thrilling, fun sex too!)
Kitty Chambliss, Master Certified Coach (MCC), CPC, TIC
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