Cheers Sexy People!
Hello, Loving Without Boundaries (LWB) community! As always, I am sending good energy and vibes of hope and love to our amazing community. I believe that sharing inspirational stories of hope, inclusion, and healthy lifestyles are more important than ever. If you are looking for ways to connect with loved ones you may be separated from, check out this blog post for resources and ideas. On to another inspiring story…
I am delighted to share my latest podcast interview with Steph Zapata, who is a NuyoRican (which refers to a Puerto Rican individual living in the U.S., especially in New York City) sexuality educator. The suggestion to reach out to Steph so that I can share their important work on our podcast came to me via Yael Rosenstock Gonzalez, whom I had the honor of meeting at last year’s Southwest Love Fest annual conference. I am making a very conscious effort to have our guests be as highly diverse as possible, and I very much appreciate the introductions to a rainbow of amazing, highly intelligent, and forward-thinking individuals, such as Steph. We had a truly engaging conversation that I am honored to be able to share with you via our award-winning Loving Without Boundaries podcast. Steph, I am filled with much gratitude for you taking time out of your busy schedule to drop some wisdom and insights with our community and listeners. I appreciate you and all of the hard and diligent work you are doing to create more positive change in the world, in the sexuality education space and beyond with your unique expertise.
Here is their Bio:
Steph Zapata is a well-seasoned, nationally recognized, award-winning, NuyoRican sexuality educator and space creator.
They have become a long-term catalyst for change within sexuality education through their radically intentional approaches that call out systems of oppression, and calls-in individuals and community to disrupt and re-imagine what can be.
Their work focuses on collective liberation tactics through innovative and honest sex ed that creates space for the whole self, and the whole truth.
Steph is a self-titled “Unprofessional Professional” who offers no apology for the disruption of white supremacy through the joy of de-colonial sexuality education.
Some topics we discuss in this highly interesting, informative, and entertaining interview:
- Collective liberation tactics through innovative sexual education.
- Creating space for authentic experiences in relationships.
- Challenges and joys of ethical non-monogamy and polyamory.
- The importance of meditation, prayer, journaling, and therapy in self-understanding.
- Tune in to listen to this fantastic podcast episode!
Thank you, Steph, for being so wonderfully generous with your time, and for sharing your work and life with us via the podcast interview! It was enlightening, interesting, and so fun! You can learn more about Steph and their consulting/training services + The S.L.A.M. Conference at http://stephaniespeakshere.com/ or social media (Instagram).
To hear the podcast, go to the Podcast link here and subscribe to the Loving Without Boundaries podcast, then check out Episode 245 with Steph Zapata. Also, please help spread awareness of alternative lifestyles and create more tolerance for consensual non-monogamy in the world at large by Rating and Reviewing the LWB podcast in iTunes. It only takes a few minutes.
If you would like to be interviewed either in written form or via audio on the podcast, please feel free to contact me and we will set something up. Thank you!
I recently have had the honor of being featured on these awesome podcasts:
40+ Gay Men Gay Talk Podcast by Rick Clemons, Episode 193 where I talk about throuples and polyamory.
Normalizing Non-Monogamy Podcast, Episode 179 as I share my story with them.
Indie Author Weekly Podcast, Episode 112 in which I talk about writing my book, “The Jealousy Survival Guide.”
The Open Nesters Podcast, Episode 14 and hear me chat with them on jealousy, compersion, and how to handle a deep relationship.
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See you on the flip side, lovely community! Keep being brave, compassionately vulnerable, and uniquely and authentically you!
Wishing you peace, love and happiness
(and thrilling, fun sex too!)
Kitty Chambliss, Master Coach, CPC
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