Cheers Sexy People!
Hello, Loving Without Boundaries (LWB) community! My heart goes out to you during these challenging times. I hope you are doing your best to keep safe. Sharing inspirational stories of hope, inclusion, and healthy lifestyles are more important than ever. If you are looking for ways to connect with loved ones you are separated from, check out this blog post that I shared recently. On to another inspiring story…
I am so absolutely delighted to share my latest podcast interview that I released recently with Bomber (of Bomber and Belle from the Black N Kinky Lifestyle podcast), which was a year in the making. Wow! Time flies. I first met this lovely married couple back in February 2021 when we were fellow guests at a lifestyles podcaster event on a yacht in Miami. It was such a pleasure to meet them during that highly interesting and at times hilarious weekend, as we smoked cigars, shared Ubers, and enjoyed breakfast in a hot tub. We were all excited to get out of the house and party after a year of living through the pandemic! It was an even greater pleasure to interview Bomber on the podcast and learn more about him, Belle and their journey. I find Bomber easy to connect with, and our senses of humor seem to just dance together seamlessly. What fun! Bomber! Thank you so much for keeping in touch over these months, finally making this podcast episode happen, and for the fine work you and Belle are doing with your sex positive podcast! It is an honor to share your voice on our platform to help normalize living your most authentic, consensually non-monogamous sexy life on your terms. So much yes! Hope to see you again soon, my friend.
Here is their bio:
Bomber and Belle are a Black, married, professional couple that has embraced the sexy swinger lifestyle and are the host of the Black N Kinky Lifestyle Podcast. They use their podcast to help other Black couples who are thinking about exploring non-monogamy or have already dared to traverse the swinger lifestyle and just want to listen to the steamy details of their sexy adventures.
They created this podcast because they felt that the voice of People of Color in general and Black couples in particular has been absent from the conversation about swinging. Although people are people, being Black represents a different experience in a community that is almost predominantly older and White. This podcast may help give a voice to other people of color and White individuals who wish to gain a perspective from a group different from their own.
Some topics we discuss in this fun, informative, and entertaining interview:
- The origin of their pseudonyms.
- Why they were inspired to launch their podcast and how they feel they have accomplished that mission.
- How Bomber’s reaction to a sexual story that Belle shared early on was a game changer for him and their relationship.
- How they ended up entering the lifestyle several years into their marriage and some of their early experiences.
- The impact on their communication skills as a result of getting into the lifestyle.
- How and when they have dealt with issues of jealousy and insecurity.
- The significant shift in mindfulness that has taken place for them more recently.
- Tune in to listen to this fantastic podcast episode!
Thank you Bomber for being so wonderfully generous with your time, and for sharing your story and insights with us via the podcast interview! It was enlightening, interesting, and so fun! You can learn more about Bomber and Belle on their podcast page and on social media: Facebook, Instagram, and Twitter.
To hear the podcast, go to the Podcast link here and subscribe to the Loving Without Boundaries podcast, then check out Episode 190 with Bomber and Belle. Also, please help spread awareness of alternative lifestyles and create more tolerance for consensual non-monogamy in the world at large by Rating and Reviewing the LWB podcast in iTunes. It only takes a few minutes.
If you would like to be interviewed either in written form or via audio on the podcast, please feel free to contact me and we will set something up. Thank you!
ANNOUNCEMENT — GUEST PODCAST APPEARANCES
I recently have had the honor of being featured on these awesome podcasts:
Normalizing Non-Monogamy Podcast, Episode 179 as I share my story with them.
Indie Author Weekly Podcast, Episode 112 in which I talk about writing my book, “The Jealousy Survival Guide.”
The Open Nesters Podcast, Episode 14 and hear me chat with them on jealousy, compersion, and how to handle a deep relationship.
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UPCOMING POLY-FRIENDLY EVENTS
RelateFest: September 15-18, 2022 | Miami, FL
Produced by the Esther Perel Discussion Group, Leveled Up Love and WeDeepen, RelateFest is for people who love exploring relationships, questioning relationship norms, learning new skills, and connecting with others. Open to singles and couples, RelateFest brings the principles of curiosity and conscious relating to a safe space for learning, connection, and play. The event features relationship experts holding interactive workshops, small group discussions, and immersive experiences. All relationship structures, orientations, and gender identities are welcome.
See you on the flip side, lovely community! Keep being brave, compassionately vulnerable, and uniquely and authentically you!
Wishing you peace, love and happiness
(and thrilling, fun sex too!)
Kitty
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