Podcast Interview: Jessica Fern – Author of “PolySecure,” Psychotherapist, and Relationship Expert

Cheers Sexy People!

Hello, Loving Without Boundaries (LWB) community! My heart goes out to you during these challenging times. I hope you are doing your best to keep safe. Sharing inspirational stories of hope, inclusion, and healthy lifestyles are more important than ever. If you are looking for ways to connect loved ones you are separated from, check out this blog post that I shared recently. On to another inspiring story…

 

I am so happy to share my latest podcast interview that I released recently with great friend and esteemed colleague, Jessica Fern. I have been delighted to know Jessica now for about two years. She first came to my Sex Positivity workshop at the Beyond The Love Conference back in 2018 where I gave my first keynote address to about 300 attendees. We became fast friends on the dance floor that Saturday night, and have continued to enjoy our friendship ever since. We both have presented at such conferences as Southwest Love Fest 2019 and Poly Living 2020. I have come to know, love, and deeply admire Jessica’s work on attachment styles, transforming monogamous relationships to polyamorous relationships and what that entails, and so much more. Jessica is truly a master at what she does, and deeply cares about the community and courageous humans she serves. I am delighted to share that Jessica has finally wrote a much awaited book that releases October 23 called: “PolySecure: Attachment, Trauma and Consensual Nonmonogamy” that is EXCELLENT! I offer a testimonial for this amazing piece of work below. Jessica, it is such an honor and privilege to walk alongside you for this amazing adventure we both find ourselves on. I love you to the moon and back, my dear friend, and I applaud your amazing work in the world! xoxo

 

Here is Jessica Fern’s bio:

Jessica Fern is a psychotherapist, public speaker, and trauma and relationship expert. In her international private practice, Jessica works with individuals, couples and people in multiple-partner relationships who no longer want to be limited by their reactive patterns, cultural conditioning, insecure attachment styles, and past traumas, helping them to embody new possibilities in life and love.

Here is my testimonial for Jessica’s amazing book “PolySecure”:

“I have had the privilege of getting to know Jessica Fern and her work over recent years, including her highly practical and fascinating perspectives on attachment theory as it relates to consensual non-monogamy. I am happy to share that attending her “Cultivating Secure Attachments in Polyamorous Relationships” workshop inspired me to a have a powerful breakthrough in my own self-actualization journey! As a polyamorous married woman who lives with two partners who in turn have their own partners – all of us with our own trauma pasts, I find Jessica’s work not only highly useful but absolutely essential to building healthy, secure open relationships. What a gift this intelligent, inspired piece of literature is to the broader non-monogamous community as well as those about to embark on this brave frontier of multiple loves! I whole-heartedly recommend this book to anyone interested in self-acceptance, self-mastery, as well as their own emotional well-being as they build loving, sustainable, healthy multiple relationships.”

Thank you, Jessica, for being so awesomely generous with your time, for much awaited book on attachment styles and trauma, and for sharing your wisdom and insights with us via the podcast interview! It was enlightening, entertaining, and so fun! Follow Jessica’s work at her website jessicafern.com. You can also purchase her amazing book, “PolySecure” on Amazon – it releases October 23rd!

The Loving Without Boundaries podcast is sponsored by AltPlayground.net.

 

ANNOUNCEMENT — GUEST PODCAST APPEARANCES

I recently have had the honor of being featured on this awesome podcast:

Shameless Sex Podcast with Amy and April – Episode 191, September 29, 2020

Check it out! We talk about all things jealousy, consensual non-monogamy, and living an alternative lifestyle while maintaining healthy relationships. Tune in to find out more!

 

 

EXCLUSIVE CONTENT OFFER – We  have exclusive content for you via the LWB podcast and my Patreon page. Want to hear more from our amazing interviewees? You got it! Right on, let’s do it! Want monthly “Hangouts” with yours truly and other patrons? Cool! Let’s do it! It’s all there! Come join us, and enjoy exclusive content made just for you, our patrons of this work!

 

 

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Free LWB Facebook Group for Healthy, Sex Positive, Open Relationships — Ready to explore healthy, connected (and virtually jealousy-free) open relationships? It’s all possible – especially when surrounded by a community of people already doing it. There’s an abundance of rock star information posted in the group daily by our amazing members. We create a safe place to engage that’s fun and thrilling! Click here and request to join our free group!

 

UPCOMING POLY-FRIENDLY EVENTS

 

PolyDallas Millennium 2020 — Virtual Conference, November 6–8, 2020. Come join me and other amazing folks at this year’s PolyDallas! I will be there signing copies of my book, recording podcast interviews, and generally supporting the amazing founder Ruby B. Johnson.

Wishing you peace, love and happiness
(and thrilling, fun sex too!)

Kitty

 

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