Hello, Loving Without Boundaries (LWB) community!
I am absolutely delighted and thrilled to share my latest podcast interview with Ellecia Paine, open relationship coach and host of the “Nope! We’re Not Monogamous” podcast. We had a lively and lovely conversation about all things consensual non-monogamy, identifying as such, and then how we both decided to make serving this under-served community our life’s mission. I found Ellecia’s high-vibe energy to be infectious, engaging, and fun! Her huge smile just invites you in to her fabulous positive energy, and I deeply resonated with all she shared about her own journey, as well as how she pays it forward with her own coaching work with her clients. Ellecia – Thank you so much for reaching out, connecting with me helping raise more awareness that there are MANY ways to be in healthy relationships, and for the beautiful work that you do with your own clients, sharing your passion and expertise with this beautiful community.
Here is her Bio:
Ellecia Paine helps people break free from monogamous conditioning, guiding them through the exciting world of ethical non-monogamy, polyamory, and swinging. She turns challenges like jealousy and insecurity into trust and open communication. As the host of the “Nope! We’re Not Monogamous” podcast, Ellecia champions authentic connections. With a decade of living and coaching non-monogamy, she shares insights that resonate deeply, making her clients feel understood and empowered.
Some topics we discuss in this highly interesting, informative, and thought-provoking interview:
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Non-monogamy as a spectrum, influenced by individual inclinations, experiences, culture, and available resources, rather than a strict choice.
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Self-worth and healing past wounds to foster confidence beyond partner validation.
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Jealousy management advice.
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Benefits of working with a coach or therapist rather than navigating alone.
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“Same page” syndrome identified as major obstacle.
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Importance of finding non-monogamous community for support beyond hookups, plus clarity development through experience and experimentation.
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The Five Pillar coaching framework: Clarity, Connection, Communication, Confidence, and Collaboration.
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Tune in to listen to this fantastic podcast episode!
Thank you, Ellecia, for being so wonderfully generous with your time, and for sharing your work and life with us via the podcast interview! It was enlightening, interesting, and so fun! You can learn more about Ellecia on her website, Facebook and Instagram.
To hear the podcast, go to the Podcast link here and subscribe to the Loving Without Boundaries podcast, then check out Episode 275 with Ellecia Paine. Also, please help spread awareness of alternative lifestyles and create more tolerance for consensual non-monogamy in the world at large by Rating and Reviewing the LWB podcast in iTunes. It only takes a few minutes.
If you would like to be interviewed either in written form or via audio on the podcast, please feel free to contact me and we will set something up. Thank you!
ANNOUNCEMENT — GUEST PODCAST APPEARANCES
I recently have had the honor of being featured on these awesome podcasts:
Open Window Institute Podcast with Jesse Dean, released February 10, 2025, where we discuss struggling with debilitating stress and anxiety on my journey to emotional freedom fulfilling my mission.
The Sensitivity Doctor Podcast by Dr. Amelia Kelley, Episode 109 where we discuss healing codependency.
Indie Author Weekly Podcast, Episode 112 in which I talk about writing my book, “Jealousy Survival Guide.”
Normalizing Non-Monogamy Podcast, Episode 179 as I share my story with them.
Poly Weekly Podcast, Episode 540 in which I talk about my insights on jealousy and my book, “Jealousy Survival Guide.”
Multiamory Podcast by Dedeker Winston, Episode 140 where I talk about the lessons I’ve learned as a polyamorous person who struggles with jealousy.
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Free LWB Facebook Group for Healthy, Sex Positive, Open Relationships — Ready to explore healthy, connected (and virtually jealousy-free) open relationships? It’s all possible – especially when surrounded by a community of people already doing it. There’s an abundance of rock star information posted in the group daily by our amazing members. We create a safe place to engage that’s fun and thrilling! Click here and request to join our free group!
Where are you on your non-traditional relationship journey? Are you just starting out, feeling alone and confused? Unsure how to navigate this new world?
On Wednesday, September 24th at 10:30am ET, I am hosting a FREE Live Masterclass called: “The 5-Step Formula My Clients Use to Create Healthy, Loving, Open Relationships (even if nothing has worked before)” in our Private LWB Facebook group.
This Masterclass will show you how to live your most authentic life free from shame & guilt with tools to liberate you from challenging emotions like jealousy once and for all. And, please know that it is USUAL for participants to VERY quickly experience relief and BIG shifts during these events… So Join the Facebook group and then reserve your seat for this life-changing event!
LWB Local Washington DC Metro Area Meetup
– If you’re local or happen to be visiting the DC metro area, come join us for a fun and engaging social gathering at 7:15 pm ET on Wednesday, September 10, 2025, at Murphy’s Grand Irish Pub (713 King Street, Alexandria, VA 22314).
Join our Meetup Group to RSVP for the event!
>> Looking for more events around the globe? Check out Alan’s Polyamory List of Events to stay informed and connected.
See you on the flip side, lovely community! Keep being brave, compassionately vulnerable, and uniquely and authentically you!
Wishing you peace, love and happiness
(and thrilling, fun sex too!)
Kitty Chambliss, Master Certified Coach (MCC), CPC, TIC
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