Cheers Sexy People!
Hello, Loving Without Boundaries (LWB) community! As always, I am sending good energy and vibes of hope and love to our amazing community. I believe that sharing inspirational stories of hope, inclusion, and healthy lifestyles are more important than ever. If you are looking for ways to connect with loved ones you may be separated from, check out this blog post for resources and ideas. On to another inspiring story…
I am so excited to share my latest podcast interview with Cindy Gallop, who is the CEO of the ambitious MakeLoveNotPorn mission and website. When I say this woman is a powerhouse, even that is an understatement. Her confidence, charisma, fortitude, and intellect are truly a force to be reckoned with. I was deeply impressed and also fascinated by our conversation that I trust you will also enjoy listening to. In a sex negative world that demonizes content such as porn, the concept of creating the first user-generated, human-curated social sex video-sharing platform is truly revolutionary and – in my humble opinion – a magnificent endeavor. This courageous work totally aligns with our mission here at Loving Without Boundaries to help normalize conversations around our sexuality, the act of sex itself, and sharing stories of those who color outside of the lines of hetero-normative monogamy (who often feel alone and stigmatized).
Cindy, I am so incredibly grateful that you reached out to share your important message and mission with our listeners, and for the incredibly powerful and transformative work that you are doing with MakeLoveNotPorn. I’m a huge fan! Your brief, brave, and at times hilarious initial TedTalk from 2009 is profound and revolutionary (with a truly needed message)! I invite our listeners and readers to also check out her TedXOxford talk in 2013 as well.
Here is her Bio:
Cindy Gallop is the founder and CEO of MakeLoveNotPorn, launched at TED 2009 – “Pro-sex. Pro-porn. Pro-knowing the difference”. In 2013, she turned MakeLoveNotPorn into the world’s first user-generated, human-curated social sex video-sharing platform, socializing and normalizing sex in order to make it easier to talk about, to promote consent, communication, good sexual values and good sexual behavior.
MakeLoveNotPorn’s mission is to end rape culture by spearheading the Social Sex Revolution (the revolutionary part isn’t the sex, but the social). Cindy speaks at conferences globally and consults, describing her approach as “I like to blow shit up. I am the Michael Bay of business”.
Some topics we discuss in this highly interesting, informative, and entertaining interview:
- Fluid Relationships
- Her exclusive matchmaking events and workshops with dating and sexuality gurus.
- The importance of sex education, accessibility, and the need for age-appropriate materials.
- Her plans to build an academy that will serve as a hub for sex education content.
- Tune in to listen to this fantastic podcast episode!
Thank you, Cindy, for being so wonderfully generous with your time, and for sharing your work and life with us via the podcast interview! It was enlightening, interesting, and so fun! You can learn more about Cindy via email, her website, or social media (Twitter, Instagram, LinkedIn, and Facebook).
To hear the podcast, go to the Podcast link here and subscribe to the Loving Without Boundaries podcast, then check out Episode 233 with Cindy. Also, please help spread awareness of alternative lifestyles and create more tolerance for consensual non-monogamy in the world at large by Rating and Reviewing the LWB podcast in iTunes. It only takes a few minutes.
If you would like to be interviewed either in written form or via audio on the podcast, please feel free to contact me and we will set something up. Thank you!
I recently have had the honor of being featured on these awesome podcasts:
40+ Gay Men Gay Talk Podcast by Rick Clemons, Episode 193 where I talk about throuples and polyamory.
Normalizing Non-Monogamy Podcast, Episode 179 as I share my story with them.
Indie Author Weekly Podcast, Episode 112 in which I talk about writing my book, “The Jealousy Survival Guide.”
The Open Nesters Podcast, Episode 14 and hear me chat with them on jealousy, compersion, and how to handle a deep relationship.
EXCLUSIVE CONTENT OFFER – We have exclusive content for you via the LWB podcast and my Patreon page.
Want to hear more from our amazing interviewees? You got it! Right on, let’s do it! Want quarterly “Hangouts” with yours truly and other patrons? Cool! Let’s do it! It’s all there! Come join us, and enjoy exclusive content made just for you, our patrons of this work!
Free LWB Facebook Group for Healthy, Sex Positive, Open Relationships — Ready to explore healthy, connected (and virtually jealousy-free) open relationships? It’s all possible – especially when surrounded by a community of people already doing it. There’s an abundance of rock star information posted in the group daily by our amazing members. We create a safe place to engage that’s fun and thrilling! Click here and request to join our free group!

December Masterclass
Where are you on your non-traditional relationship journey? Are you just starting out, feeling alone and confused? Unsure how to navigate this new world?
On Wednesday, December 20th at 10:30am ET, I am hosting a FREE Live Masterclass called: “The 5-Step Formula My Clients Use to Create Healthy, Loving, Open Relationships (even if nothing has worked before)” in our Private LWB Facebook group.
This Masterclass will show you how to live your most authentic life free from shame & guilt with tools to liberate you from challenging emotions like jealousy once and for all. And, please know that it is USUAL for participants to VERY quickly experience relief and BIG shifts during these events… So Join the Facebook group and then reserve your seat for this life-changing event!
>>> Looking for more events around the globe? Check out Alan’s Polyamory List of Events to stay informed and connected.
See you on the flip side, lovely community! Keep being brave, compassionately vulnerable, and uniquely and authentically you!
Wishing you peace, love and happiness
(and thrilling, fun sex too!)
Kitty Chambliss, Master Coach, CPC
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