Cheers Sexy People!
Hello, Loving Without Boundaries (LWB) community! As always, I am sending good energy and vibes of hope and love to our amazing community. I believe that sharing inspirational stories of hope, inclusion, and healthy lifestyles are more important than ever. If you are looking for ways to connect with loved ones you may be separated from, check out this blog post for resources and ideas. On to another inspiring story…
I am so excited to share my latest podcast interview with Tatiana Carrera, author of “Oralicious, The Truth About Oral Sex, Intimacy and Passion”, a self-help guide created with love and passion. I was honored to meet this amazing and vibrant human being before the pandemic, at the New York Sex Expo that I attended. I had an absolutely marvelous time that day meeting sex educators, sex positive trailblazers, and authors of all things sexy, as well as exploring intriguing sensual products of all kinds. I was fascinated by Tatiana and her Oral Sex Bill of Rights, offered as both a podcast episode and a PDF linked here. Talk about a trailblazer! This woman’s energy is off the charts, partly because she is on a big mission.
Tatiana, thank you for the beautiful and important work that you do! We absolutely need as many sex positive educators, coaches, and authors out there as we can. I’m rooting for your success!
Here is her Bio:
Tatiana Carrera, published author of a self-help guide, “Oralicious, The Truth About Oral Sex, Intimacy and Passion”, Screenwriter of “5 Senses: A Tale of Sex”. She’s a podcaster of “Oralicious – A Tale of Sex”, now in it’s 5th Season, a relationship and sexuality coach, and host of one the hottest rooms on Clubhouse, “The Pleasure Journey”, daily at 1:05 pm (EST), with 5K followers and growing. Also in discussions, to License her USPTO Trademark ORALICIOUS, a lipstick & Cocktail brands.
Tatiana states, “We live in a fast paced, instant gratification, and sexually charged culture that moves from point “A” right to “Z” when defining how orgasms are and should be obtained, often ignoring points “B” through “Y.” Getting Back to Basic is an attempt to shift our focus from the now instant sexual gratification of achieving an orgasm to all the sensual points that fall in between. Taking a moment to learn how to enjoy the sexual Pleasure Journey by kissing, incorporating our 5 Sex Senses when we are in the act of SEXplay, and finding our Erogenous Zones, so that we all can achieve an explosive orgasm.”
Tatiana currently resides in the Big Apple and sees herself as a pure optimist. Always be hopeful, positive, and accountable for your actions; it does make life less stressful. “Always embrace and be true to thy SELF. Self Love, Self Care, Self Awareness, and Self Exploration is your BIRTHRIGHT.”
Some topics we discuss in this highly interesting, informative, and entertaining interview:
- Monogamy, dating apps, orgasms, sex positivity, and the importance of sexual pleasure.
- The importance of incorporating all five senses in sex.
- How self-pleasure and exploration are a birthright, with a focus on dispelling shame or negative notions surrounding it.
- The significance of communication in polyamorous relationships, emphasizing that everyone involved should be aware and consenting.
- Lack of sexual fulfillment and infidelity due to unmet needs.
- The significance of vulnerability, self-awareness, and pleasure in sexual experiences.
- Tune in to listen to this fantastic podcast episode!
Thank you, Tatiana, for being so wonderfully generous with your time, and for sharing your work and life with us via the podcast interview! It was enlightening, interesting, and so fun! You can learn more about Tatiana via email, her website, her podcast, or social media (Instagram, Facebook and Twitter).
To hear the podcast, go to the Podcast link here and subscribe to the Loving Without Boundaries podcast, then check out Episode 232 with Tatiana. Also, please help spread awareness of alternative lifestyles and create more tolerance for consensual non-monogamy in the world at large by Rating and Reviewing the LWB podcast in iTunes. It only takes a few minutes.
If you would like to be interviewed either in written form or via audio on the podcast, please feel free to contact me and we will set something up. Thank you!
I recently have had the honor of being featured on these awesome podcasts:
40+ Gay Men Gay Talk Podcast by Rick Clemons, Episode 193 where I talk about throuples and polyamory.
Normalizing Non-Monogamy Podcast, Episode 179 as I share my story with them.
Indie Author Weekly Podcast, Episode 112 in which I talk about writing my book, “The Jealousy Survival Guide.”
The Open Nesters Podcast, Episode 14 and hear me chat with them on jealousy, compersion, and how to handle a deep relationship.
EXCLUSIVE CONTENT OFFER – We have exclusive content for you via the LWB podcast and my Patreon page.
Want to hear more from our amazing interviewees? You got it! Right on, let’s do it! Want quarterly “Hangouts” with yours truly and other patrons? Cool! Let’s do it! It’s all there! Come join us, and enjoy exclusive content made just for you, our patrons of this work!
Free LWB Facebook Group for Healthy, Sex Positive, Open Relationships — Ready to explore healthy, connected (and virtually jealousy-free) open relationships? It’s all possible – especially when surrounded by a community of people already doing it. There’s an abundance of rock star information posted in the group daily by our amazing members. We create a safe place to engage that’s fun and thrilling! Click here and request to join our free group!
Where are you on your non-traditional relationship journey? Are you just starting out, feeling alone and confused? Unsure how to navigate this new world?
On Wednesday November 29th at 10:30am ET, I am hosting a FREE Live Masterclass called: “The 5-Step Formula My Clients Use to Create Healthy, Loving, Open Relationships (even if nothing has worked before)” in our Private LWB Facebook group.
This Masterclass will show you how to live your most authentic life free from shame & guilt with tools to liberate you from challenging emotions like jealousy once and for all. And, please know that it is USUAL for participants to VERY quickly experience relief and BIG shifts during these events… So Join the Facebook group and then reserve your seat for this life-changing event!
>>> Looking for more events around the globe? Check out Alan’s Polyamory List of Events to stay informed and connected.
See you on the flip side, lovely community! Keep being brave, compassionately vulnerable, and uniquely and authentically you!
Wishing you peace, love and happiness
(and thrilling, fun sex too!)
Kitty Chambliss, Master Coach, CPC
Need more specific help aligning your relationships with who you are?
** Discover Your Core Values & Create More Meaning in Your Love Life **
Are you feeling a little lost, challenged, or uninspired in your relationships and would love some guidance on your journey?
Our Free Breakthrough Session Call is a great place to start your path of discovery, so you can have more loving and intimate relationships that inspire you! Whether you’re already non-monogamous, involved with someone who is, or “poly-curious” and wondering if non-monogamy might be right for you, I work with people struggling with every aspect of multiple intimate relationships.