Cheers Sexy People!
Hello, Loving Without Boundaries (LWB) community! My team and I are sending good energy and vibes of hope and love to our amazing community as the world continues to slowly open up cautiously post-pandemic. I hope you are doing your best to keep safe and healthy. Sharing inspirational stories of hope, inclusion, and healthy lifestyles are more important than ever. If you are looking for ways to connect with loved ones you may be separated from, check out this blog post that I shared recently. On to another inspiring story…
Oh my goodness! I am super excited to share my latest podcast interview that I released with Cooper S. Beckett. Cooper is co-author alongside Lyndzi Miller of the new “The Pegging Book”. I was able to interview each author separately, giving me the opportunity to really get to know them as individuals. It was a pleasure to finally connect with Cooper and hear all about his background with his podcast and writing as well as his view on so many sexual topics. Wow, this awesome dude is hilarious, as well as highly informative! We each vulnerably share – and highly interesting – stories that we have never told on air before. Curious? Got to play to win! Tune in to find out what deliciousness we share. Cooper! Wowzers, you are just a super cool dude? (May I call you “dude”? 🙂 ) I have a sneaky suspicion that we would get along famously if and when we get to hang out live. I hope you and Lyndzi bring your book tour over to the Northeast coast, as I would love to share a cup O Joe with you! Keep up the fascinating, fun, and sexy work that you all are doing. I’m rooting for you every step of the way!
Here is his bio:
Queer non-monogamous writer, Cooper S. Beckett began his writing career as a podcaster as host of Life on the Swingset: The Podcast and speaker in the sexuality education community, he wrote “My Life on the Swingset”, a memoir of his first five years in non-monogamy. Then followed that up with two novels: “A Life Less Monogamous”, and “Approaching the Swingularity”. He lives in Chicago with Elle, his wife, constant, and binary star; Egon, their ghost terrier; and black cat Willow.
Some topics we discuss in this fun, informative, and entertaining interview:
- How and why he got started in the swinging lifestyle.
- How swinging and polyamory has fundamentally changed his life.
- The development of his sexual identity, and why he identifies as queer.
- The need for swingers and polyamorists (and others) to stand together rather than engage in in-fighting.
- His introduction to anal play and prostate orgasms.
- The shame surrounding “butt stuff” and homosexuality.
- Why he and Lyndzi decided to write “The Pegging Book” together and to publish it at this time.
- The potential sexual pleasure for both partners during the act of pegging.
- Whether or not there are health benefits associated with pegging or anal play.
- Tune in to listen to this fantastic podcast episode!
Thank you Cooper for being so wonderfully generous with your time, and for sharing more of your life with us via the podcast interview! It was enlightening, interesting, and so fun! You can connect with him via Twitter, Instagram, his website, his Podcast and the Book.
To hear the podcast, go to the Podcast link here and subscribe to the Loving Without Boundaries podcast, then check out Episode 203 with Cooper S. Beckett. Also, please help spread awareness of alternative lifestyles and create more tolerance for consensual non-monogamy in the world at large by Rating and Reviewing the LWB podcast in iTunes. It only takes a few minutes.
If you would like to be interviewed either in written form or via audio on the podcast, please feel free to contact me and we will set something up. Thank you!
I recently have had the honor of being featured on these awesome podcasts:
40+ Gay Men Gay Talk Podcast by Rick Clemons, Episode 193 where I talk about thruples and polyamory.
Normalizing Non-Monogamy Podcast, Episode 179 as I share my story with them.
Indie Author Weekly Podcast, Episode 112 in which I talk about writing my book, “The Jealousy Survival Guide.”
The Open Nesters Podcast, Episode 14 and hear me chat with them on jealousy, compersion, and how to handle a deep relationship.
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See you on the flip side, lovely community! Keep being brave, compassionately vulnerable, and uniquely and authentically you!
Wishing you peace, love and happiness
(and thrilling, fun sex too!)
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