Cheers Sexy People!
Hello, Loving Without Boundaries (LWB) community! My heart goes out to you during these challenging times. I hope you are doing your best to keep safe. Sharing inspirational stories of hope, inclusion, and healthy lifestyles are more important than ever. If you are looking for ways to connect with loved ones you are separated from, check out this blog post that I shared recently. On to another inspiring story…
I am delighted to share my latest podcast interview that I released recently with Stella Harris, who is a sex coach, consultant as well as a sex educator. We had an amazing and incredibly interesting conversation about her new book, “The Ultimate Guide to Threesomes”, which I have enjoyed reading. I am impressed with her breadth of knowledge, her empathy, her insights, and her deep devotion to honoring and supporting our broad and diverse community of those seeking to color outside of the lines of hetero-normative monogamy, from a sex positive and inclusive lens. It feels fantastic to stand alongside her doing absolutely everything we can to help great folks like you enjoy sustainable, joyful, fun, sexy, thriving and authentic relationships that work for you! Stella, thank you so much for taking time out of your busy schedule to drop knowledge with our listeners, and for all that you do! I appreciate you!
Here is her bio:
Stella Harris is a Certified Intimacy Educator and Sex Coach who uses a variety of tools to guide and empower her clients and she teaches everything from pleasure anatomy, to communication skills, to kink and BDSM. Stella is the author of two books, “Tongue Tied: Untangling Communication in Sex, Kink”, and “The Ultimate Guide to Threesomes”.
Some topics we discuss in this fun, informative, and entertaining interview:
- The challenges she faced in being introduced to the kink, polyamory, and queer communities at 17 years old.
- Why she values the mistakes she made earlier in her life.
- What she wouldn’t do again with respect to her marriage.
- How she identifies herself today and why.
- Why she wrote “The Ultimate Guide to Threesomes”.
- What is the “Myth of Organic Threesomes” and why it can be damaging.
- The importance of recognizing couples’ privilege in the context of threesomes.
- How to screen potential couples as a single person looking for a threesome.
- Tune in to listen to this fantastic podcast episode!
Thank you Stella, for being so awesomely generous with your time and for sharing your threesome advice with us via the podcast interview! It was enlightening, interesting, and so fun! Learn more about Stella on her website, Twitter, Instagram and check out her books: “Tongue Tied: Untangling Communication in Sex, Kink”, and “The Ultimate Guide to Threesomes”.
To hear the podcast, go to the Podcast link here and subscribe to the Loving Without Boundaries podcast, then check out Episode 187 with Stella Harris. Also, please help spread awareness of alternative lifestyles and create more tolerance for consensual non-monogamy in the world at large by Rating and Reviewing the LWB podcast in iTunes. It only takes a few minutes.
If you would like to be interviewed either in written form or via audio on the podcast, please feel free to contact me and we will set something up. Thank you!
ANNOUNCEMENT — GUEST PODCAST APPEARANCES
I recently have had the honor of being featured on these awesome podcasts:
Normalizing Non-Monogamy Podcast, Episode 179 as I share my story with them.
Indie Author Weekly Podcast, Episode 112 in which I talk about writing my book, “The Jealousy Survival Guide.”
The Open Nesters Podcast, Episode 14 and hear me chat with them on jealousy, compersion, and how to handle a deep relationship.
EXCLUSIVE CONTENT OFFER – We have exclusive content for you via the LWB podcast and my Patreon page. Want to hear more from our amazing interviewees? You got it! Right on, let’s do it! Want monthly “Hangouts” with yours truly and other patrons? Cool! Let’s do it! It’s all there! Come join us, and enjoy exclusive content made just for you, our patrons of this work!
JOIN OUR COMMUNITY ONLINE
Free LWB Facebook Group for Healthy, Sex Positive, Open Relationships — Ready to explore healthy, connected (and virtually jealousy-free) open relationships? It’s all possible – especially when surrounded by a community of people already doing it. There’s an abundance of rock star information posted in the group daily by our amazing members. We create a safe place to engage that’s fun and thrilling! Click here and request to join our free group!
UPCOMING POLY-FRIENDLY EVENTS
Southwest Love Fest, Tucson, Arizona, April 15–17 (Live Con) — (from their website) Our annual flagship conference, Southwest Love Fest (SWLF), is a weekend conference on non-monogamy held in Tucson, AZ with opportunities to learn, share and connect with other like-minded people.
The conference is split into an in-person weekend (live con) and a virtual weekend (virtual con) this year to make it more accessible to folks.
Live Con also includes a variety show, vendor marketplace, social events, discussion groups, food trucks + more! As always, we maintain our mission to create greater opportunities to find community and learn from others’ diverse relationship experiences. Registrations are open!
See you on the flip side, lovely community! Keep being brave, compassionately vulnerable, and uniquely and authentically you!
Wishing you peace, love and happiness
(and thrilling, fun sex too!)
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