Cheers Sexy People!
Ah what a lovely evening it was! In my latest podcast episode, I am so proud to share with you our first ever Live Podcast Recording of LWB with an esteemed panel of various Woodhull Sexual Freedom Summit attendees: Kevin Patterson, author of “Love Is Not Color Blind” and co-author of “For Hire: Operator”; Ruby Johnson, founder of the PolyDallas Millennium conference; and Gloria Jackson-Nefertiti, creator of the Transcending Shame workshop. This recording took place at Kitty Chambliss’s home in Alexandria, Virginia on Thursday, August 15th, 2019 in front of a live audience of wonderful and enthusiastic folks, including my two nesting partners. The topic of discussion is the Intersection of Polyamory and various themes such as shame, divorce, infertility/family creation, and people of color. I hope you enjoy this show as much as I did creating it. I do hope that you will consider supporting the creation and continuation of this podcast by becoming a patron. Thank you so much for listening and being here as part of our community. We love you all!
LIVE PODCAST EPISODE THEME is Intersections + our Shared Humanity
— We can focus on our differences thinking of them as ways to DIVIDE us (adding to conflict) OR as ways to celebrate our DIVERSITY and UNIQUE experiences! The choice is yours! Speaking for myself, I find it so POWERFUL to focus on our SIMILARITIES (where we overlap) WHILE we also learn from each other (learn from mistakes, hardships, traumas we’ve survived, etc).
Some questions/topics we discuss in this educational, fun, and fascinating interview:
— Celebrate the intersectionality of our different communities (PDM, LWB, Poly Role Models, Seattle community – converging to attend Woodhull SFS19)
— Intersection of polyamory and shame
— Intersection of polyamory and divorce
— Intersection of polyamory and infertility
— Intersection of polyamory and POC
— To Kevin: What was the most rewarding and/or challenging part of writing Love Is Not Color Blind?
— Kitty Chambliss’ testimonial for “Love Is Not Color Blind”: This fabulous book was just an absolute pleasure to read! I loved every page! Mr. Patterson is a truly gifted writer, able to share eloquently about his own experiences, as well as others, in a beautiful, relatable fashion. I have to admit that I highlighted so many wonderful excerpts from this book for future reference so I do not forget this magic. I wish many folks would read it for the wisdom and insights shared here. All of the shares from others were equally empowering and enlightening. Loved it! Highly recommend!
— Asked to all panelists: If you could share one message with our listeners to leave them with, what would it be?
— Tune in to listen to this awesome podcast episode!
Thank you Kevin, Ruby, and Gloria, for being so awesomely generous with your time, for your collective and outstanding work in our broader CNM community, and for sharing your wisdom and insights with us via the podcast interview! It was enlightening, deeply informative, and so fascinating! Follow Kevin’s work at polyrolemodels.tumblr.com, and Facebook, Instagram, and Twitter @polyrolemodels. Follow Ruby’s work at blacksexgeek.net, on Facebook, Instagram, and Twitter @blacksexgeek, on Facebook, Instagram, and Twitter @polydallas, or email her at firstname.lastname@example.org. Follow Gloria’s work on Facebook and Instagram @gloriajacksonnefertiti, and on Twitter @gloriajn.
To hear the podcast, go to the Podcast link here and subscribe to the Loving Without Boundaries podcast, then check out Episode 121 with Kevin, Ruby, and Gloria. Also, please help spread awareness of alternative lifestyles and create more tolerance for consensual non-monogamy in the world at large by Rating and Reviewing the Loving Without Boundaries podcast in iTunes. It only takes a few minutes.
If you would like to be interviewed either in written form or via audio on the podcast, please feel free to contact me and we will set something up. Thank you!
We have some exciting goings on here at Loving Without Boundaries (LWB). We offer exclusive content for you via the LWB podcast and my Patreon page for those who choose to become a patron. I have updated our awesome offerings to give you even more value. I invite you to check out how you can come join the party over at Patreon! Want to hear more from our amazing interviewees? You got it! Want to dig deeper into the community and your fellow poly folk? Right on, let’s do it! Want free coaching sessions? It’s all there! Read on to find out more…
OUR BIG AUDACIOUS GOAL: To get to $250 a month to help cover the cost of broadcasting fees and our amazing sound engineer. Once we reach this milestone, I will be doing the happy dance! I’ll even video it for our new patrons! Yes that’s right! I’ll video me jumping up and down celebrating YOU and helping us get to this important milestone for the podcast. Go to this post to learn find out how you can win prizes by becoming a patron and supporting the continuation of this work.
2. GUEST PODCAST APPEARANCES
I recently have had the honor of being featured on three other podcasts:
Curios Fox Podcast – Episode 4 on Metamours (Your Lover’s Lover) – which was recorded live in Brooklyn, NY
Seek, Discover, Create with Lexi Sylver
Core Confidence Life with Dennis Sumlin
With PolyAnna, Episode 7 – which was recorded live at Southwest Love Fest 2019, which was attended by Marla!
Check them out! We talk about all things jealousy, consensual non-monogamy, and living an alternative lifestyle while maintaining healthy relationships. On “With PolyAnna”, I vulnerably share a story about why pole dancing changed my life! Tune in to find out more!
EXCLUSIVE CONTENT OFFER – We continue to have some exciting goings on here at Loving Without Boundaries (LWB). We now have exclusive content for you via the LWB podcast and my Patreon page for those who choose to become a patron. Please visit the link to check out how you can come join the party over at Patreon! Want to hear more from our amazing interviewees? You got it! Want to dig deeper into the community and your fellow poly folk? Right on, let’s do it! Want monthly “Hangouts” with yours truly and other patrons? Cool! Let’s do it! It’s all there! Come join us, and enjoy exclusive content made just for you, our patrons of this work!
NOTE: Monthly group “hangout” and coaching calls for all of our podcast patrons at any level are under way. If you are supporting the podcast, I am supporting you on your journey. Come join us and meet like-minded folks on the same journey you are!
UPCOMING POLYAMOROUS-FRIENDLY EVENTS
Free LWB Facebook Group for Healthy, Sex Positive, Open Relationships — Ready to explore healthy, deeply connected (and virtually jealousy-free) open relationships? It’s all possible – especially when surrounded by a community of people already doing it. Many in newly open relationships experience roller coaster emotions of jealousy, insecurity, and feel alone on their journey. That’s why I created this free Facebook group where people are coming together to share actionable tips for succeeding in multiple loving relationships, explore deeper love, and find mutual understanding and support. There’s an abundance of rock star information posted in the group daily by our amazing members. We create a safe place to engage that’s fun and thrilling! Click here and request to join our free group!
See you on the flip side, lovely community! Keep being brave, compassionately vulnerable, and uniquely and authentically you!
Wishing you peace, love and happiness
(and thrilling, fun sex too!)
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