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From the Dear Kitty Archives: Infidelity, Polyamory in One’s 60s, Love During a Pandemic

Hello Sexy People! I am delighted to share one of my “Dear Kitty” columns that was previously published in “Ethical Non-Monogamy Magazine” (ENM), which, unfortunately, is no longer being published. We are honored to have permission from ENM to keep the love going by sharing from our archives. With all my heart, I absolutely love…

Will It Work for You

From Traumatized “We’re Doomed” to Googly-Eyed In-Love Open Relationship in 8 Weeks?!

Wow! Wait until you hear this inspiring transformation story! Our clients Keithan and Deanna came to us out of desperation, hopelessness, and sadness. On our first call, Deanna felt their marriage “was doomed” due to broken trust after infidelity that left her feeling insecure, and spiraling down into a manic depressive state. She had difficulty…

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Podcast Interview: Bryce + Mango + Kitty Unconventional Trio Interview, Inspiration, and World Domination!

Cheers Sexy People! I have such a treat for you guys! I am beside myself excited to share my latest podcast interview, Part One and Part Two, that I recorded in Utah on location with my great friends Bryce and Mango. Wow listening to this episode today, I am overjoyed, humbled, and full of pride at this intriguing, excellent, and…

Poly Interview: Polyamory from a 50 yo man, dividing time between two homes

This is seventeenth in a series of interviews with everyday people who are living a poly lifestyle (either polyamorous or polysexual) from their individual perspectives. They were each given a series of questions and asked to pick several questions that they would like to answer from their personal experience. This seventeenth interview is with a polyamorous man…

Rethinking Infidelity: a talk for anyone who has ever loved

Cheers Sexy People! Recently a member of our awesome Loving Without Boundaries community shared with me this incredible TedTalk by Esther Perel – a relationship therapist – that answers very eloquently the question “Why do happy people cheat?” Wow. It is incredible. Totally worth the 21 minutes that it requires to watch it in full. I will…

I Forgave Him – But Now What? (Damage Control After Infidelity)

Cheers Sexy People! I felt a massive weight had been lifted off of my shoulders after I recently truly forgave my boyfriend for his indiscretions that I talked about in this post. We had a really powerful conversation – not only about forgiveness, but ways in which I wanted to take ownership of being a great, attentive…