Hello Loving Without Boundaries Community! Over the past several weeks I shared three stories with you. Diana — who came to me thinking she needed to save her relationship. What she was really there to do was learn herself. Calvin — who was so terrified of losing the man he loved that he couldn’t sleep…
Hello Loving Without Boundaries Community! I want to tell you about Gina. Not because her story is dramatic in the way some stories are — no midnight crisis, no divorce papers on the table, no relationship teetering on the edge of collapse. Gina’s story is quieter than that. And in some ways, because of that,…
Hello Loving Without Boundaries Community! I want to tell you about Calvin. Because Calvin’s story is one I think about often. Not just because of where he started — though wow, where he started was a genuinely painful place. But because of where he is now. Engaged. To the man he was once so terrified…
Hello Loving Without Boundaries Community! I have to tell you about Diana. Because honestly? Her story might be one of my favorites. Not just because of how beautifully she transformed — though wow, she did. But because of WHO she is. Funny, warm, wicked smart, deeply self-aware, and the kind of human being who shows…
Hello Loving Without Boundaries Community! Can you remember the first time you realized your desires didn’t fit into the traditional relationship box? That moment when you discovered that your capacity for love might be bigger than society’s expectations? For many people exploring consensual non-monogamy, this realization comes with a mix of excitement and fear –…
Hello Loving Without Boundaries Community! Have you ever felt that disconnect – that moment when you’re trying to express something important to your partner, but the words just aren’t coming out right? Or worse, when you say exactly what you mean, but somehow it still leads to misunderstanding and hurt feelings? In consensual non-monogamy, where…
Hello Loving Without Boundaries Community! You catch a glimpse of your partner’s joy after their date, and instead of feeling connected, shame crashes over you like a wave. “What’s wrong with me?” “Why can’t I be enough?” These thoughts circle endlessly, even though intellectually you know better. The gap between your values and your emotional…
Hello, Loving Without Boundaries (LWB) community! I am absolutely delighted and thrilled to share my latest podcast interview with Lauren Elise Rogers, certified holistic sexuality educator and relationship coach. WOW – this was a fantastic and memorable conversation. All I can say is: What a badass! I love Lauren’s passion for her work, her authenticity,…
Hello, Loving Without Boundaries (LWB) community! I am absolutely delighted and thrilled to share my latest podcast interview with Susan Morgan Taylor, somatic sex therapist and podcast host. I can honestly say that this is perhaps one of my Top 10 favorite interviews of all time. Why? Well, I found Susan to be a powerhouse…
Hello, Loving Without Boundaries (LWB) community! I am excited to share my latest podcast interview with Zara Shah, queer sex worker and author. What a delightful, as well as insightful conversation we had! Zara’s sincerity and authenticity shined through our interview, as we discussed varied topics around sexuality, the time management demands of doing sex…