sex after kids

How Do You Get the “Sexy” Back After Childbirth? Let’s Talk Communication Techniques, Sexy People!

Cheers Sexy People! I often get questions from our polyamorous community surrounding children. I do not have any children of my own (my husband and I are infertile), but I still want to offer value to those in our community who do have kids or strive to have kids. On a related topic, I am…

The Four Agreements

Polyamory, Toltec Wisdom, and “The Four Agreements: A Practical Guide for Personal Freedom”

Cheers Sexy People! Hello amazing and brave community! It is fantastic to be writing to you here today! I cherish this wonderful creative and therapeutic outlet of this blog which also serves as a way to support and send love and hope to this courageous community. It is not an easy choice to live an alternative…

the life-changing magic of tyding up

Tidying Up our Emotional Baggage and our Relationships = AWESOME Personal Growth!

Cheers Sexy People! I have been having a fascinating experience over the last year that I would love to share with this amazing, courageous, and awesome community. In my experience, reading is cathartic and healing, so whenever I need a jolt of inspiration or motivation, I quite often turn to books. So I recently turned…

JoEllen Notte

Podcast Interview: JoEllen Notte – Educator and Mental Health Advocate Specializing in Sex and Depression

Cheers Sexy People! I am absolutely delighted to share my latest podcast interview with you, Part One and Part Two, that I recently recorded with JoEllen Notte, creator of the award winning website, The Redhead Bedhead, that explores modern relationships as it intersects with our mental health, and our sexuality. I was lucky enough to attend three…

CAPTIVATE the science of succeding with people

Podcast Interview: Vanessa Van Edwards – Author of “Captivate”, Human Behavior Researcher

Cheers Sexy People! OK OK this is one of the coolest podcast interviews yet with one of my all-time favorite HEROES, human behavior researcher and all-around awesome person, Vanessa Van Edwards! I first became aware of Vanessa’s work when she spoke briefly on the main stage of the World Domination Summit (WDS) in 2016 discussing…

A Poly Miracle X3 – A Home Visit, A Wine Sippy Cup, and a Surprise Cat Sitter

Cheers Sexy People! Hello friends. First I want to thank you all for the outpouring of love and support that came in from my last post where I described my feelings of getting shoved aside while my boyfriend’s family is visiting him for over a month. I had referenced Franklin Veaux’s Secondary Bill of Rights as…

Poly Interview: Non-monogamy from a 60 yo male educator / author in Maryland

This is fifteenth in a series of interviews with everyday people who are living a poly lifestyle (either polyamorous or polysexual) from their individual perspectives. They were each given a series of questions and asked to pick several questions that they would like to answer from their personal experience. This fifteenth interview is with man in his…

BOUNDARIES: Don’t Excuse Bad Behavior, No Matter What the “Label”

Cheers Sexy People! In response to my last post about my upsetting breakup that I am healing from, I had a great conversation with one of our frequent commenters here at Loving Without Boundaries, Clarathegreat. It turns out that she works in the mental health profession. I am passionate about mental health for many reasons, including trying to…