Why NOT “Come Out”? and An Announcement!

Cheers Sexy People! Last week, I wrote a post where I mentioned that I went to my first gay wedding for a close friend of mine, yet I have not “come out” to him yet as polyamorous. I also expressed some sadness that polyamory is not more accepted in today’s society. Thus I feel that…

Can Mono / Poly Relationships Work Without Pain?

Cheers Sexy Peeps! A comment just came in from a recent popular blog post of mine Why Do Polyamorous People Get Married? The comment is filled with pain and the commenter is seeking answers. I was about to write a reply in the comment section, but realized that the best way to serve this hurting individual…

Poly Interview: Ethical non-monogamy from a pole dancing grandmother in her 50s

This is ninth in a series of interviews with everyday people who are living a poly lifestyle (either polyamorous or polysexual), from their individual perspectives. They were each given a series of questions, and asked to pick several questions that they would like to answer from their personal experience. This ninth interview is with a close female friend…

Why Do Polyamorous People Get Married?

Cheers Sexy People! I am a proud, polyamorous woman, but I have several times been asked: Why be married if you are in several relationships, possible acting as a free agent anyway? What’s the point of the marriage? Why bother? The first time I was asked this, I admit I bristled and wanted to get…

Emotion Management and Love, Sweet Love!

Cheers Sexy People! Well, it’s been a helluva week! Lots of ups and downs and revelations. I’ve been thinking alot lately about emotion management and release, being authentic, and how love truly makes the world go round. Have you ever had moments where you feel like you are being replaced? It brings up feelings of…

Confession: Sometimes I Suck at Compersion

Cheers Sexy People! I have a confession to make. Sometimes I suck at compersion… even though I write this polyamorous blog. Well, hey I partly write this blog to work out my angst or occasional problems with an audience for both feedback, but also in an effort to hopefully help others at the same time…

Poly Married With Children and The Church of Monogamy

Cheers Sexy People, I have had quite the busy work, personal and poly life lately, my dear friends. There is much upheaval, excitement, momentum and sweet moments. For a peek into my poly as well as extended life, here are some highlights: My live-in boyfriend and I threw my husband a birthday party at our…

Poly Interview: Ethical non-monogamy from a woman in Asia

This is eighth in a series of interviews of everyday people who are living a poly lifestyle (either polyamorous or polysexual), from their individual perspectives. They were each given a series of questions, and asked to pick several questions that they would like to answer from their personal experience. This eighth interview is of a…