Do My Partners Have Partners? + BONUS: Myths and Facts

Cheers Sexy People! Recently, a dear friend of mine whom I met through this blog, asked me if my partners have partners themselves. I have written about my partners’ partners (otherwise known as “metamours” in the poly community) in many posts over the last two years. However, since an avid reader of my blog was…

“I Can Relate To That” Radio Show 007 Debriefing

Cheers Sexy People! Well, THAT was an adventure! I am writing you the day after being a guest speaker on my very first Internet radio show. Wow! Such a wonderful experience! I really enjoyed having the opportunity to be heard, share my story, offer a different point of view and be a contributor on a…

Why Do We Cheat?

Cheers Sexy People! I have been hard at work preparing my presentation for The 4th International Conference on the Future of Monogamy and Nonmonogamy. Ironically, I am the first speaker Saturday morning, February 14th. Yup, that’s right! Valentine’s Day! How hilarious is that?! I’m going to go up there and speak publicly about my polycule and…

Husband vs. Boyfriend vs. Poly Relationships

Cheers Sexy People! Hello all! Recently, the below comment came in from my last blog post: I have been following you for quite a while and while your posts are inspirational, many times I am left utterly confused. You speak of your ups and downs with your BF more you do with your husband. Does…

Poly Interview: Ethical non-monogamy from a female polyamorous blogger and author

This is tenth in a series of interviews with everyday people who are living a poly lifestyle (either polyamorous or polysexual), from their individual perspectives. They were each given a series of questions, and asked to pick several questions that they would like to answer from their personal experience. This tenth interview is with a female blogger…

Great Poly Relationships: Staying Cool When Tensions Are High

Cheers Sexy People! It’s great to connect with you again here. I have had a busy, exciting and fun-filled few weeks! As usual, I have had my share of ups and downs recently. My boyfriend and I were gearing up for our annual Rocky Horror Picture Show inspired rock gig that we do every year with…

How I Became Polyamorous and Other Adventures

Cheers Sexy People! I am elated and honored that I was recently asked to write a guest blog post for my new, dear friend, Louisa Leontides who writes the inspiring, informative, and gutsy Postmodern Woman blog. If this is not on your blog reading list yet, consider adding it to your queue. Louisa has proven…