007 Double Agent – Back in the Poly Closet

Cheers Sexy People! I am happily writing you from London where the hubs and I are traveling, having a 1.5 week leisurely trip (OK, some business too, but not much) visiting friends and family. We are having a splendidly AWESOME time. We just landed here last night from Edinburgh, Scotland where we spent five days.…

Relationship Anarchy, Co-Dependency and Loving

Cheers Sexy People! My last post about forgiveness and moving forward after infidelity got some lively conversations going, both here in the comments section and in Facebook forums as well. I received the following comment from a Facebook friend: You talk a lot about trust – the question is, trust that your partner will do what? Do what s/he wants…

Can Love Truly Conquer All? (Forgive, But Don’t Forget)

Cheers Sexy People! This past weekend, I attended what for me was a transformational event. I attended my first Landmark Forum. I don’t know how many of our awesome peeps in our community have checked this “dive into the deep end of the pool” seminar out (and I’d love to hear from you to get your…

Adventures At My First Poly Conference

Cheers Sexy People! I am writing you from the “other side” of giving my first presentation at my first polyamorous conference. What a ride that was! WOW! SOOO glad that I did it! There were moments full of fear where I thought, “What am I, crazy? Who gives me the right to speak publicly about…

Husband vs. Boyfriend vs. Poly Relationships

Cheers Sexy People! Hello all! Recently, the below comment came in from my last blog post: I have been following you for quite a while and while your posts are inspirational, many times I am left utterly confused. You speak of your ups and downs with your BF more you do with your husband. Does…

Deadly Possession and Shattering Innocence

Cheers Sexy People, I’m writing this post with a heavy heart. While I was having a “date night” with my boyfriend last night, frolicking all over our local area enjoying the holidays, and then we were getting ready to settle in for the evening for a fun, sexy night at home, I got confirmation that…

Poly Interview: Ethical non-monogamy from a female polyamorous blogger and author

This is tenth in a series of interviews with everyday people who are living a poly lifestyle (either polyamorous or polysexual), from their individual perspectives. They were each given a series of questions, and asked to pick several questions that they would like to answer from their personal experience. This tenth interview is with a female blogger…