What Those in Healthy, Happy Open Relationships Know That You Don't
Cheers Sexy People! Recently, a dear friend of mine whom I met through this blog, asked me if my partners have partners themselves. I have written about my partners’ partners (otherwise known as “metamours” in the poly community) in many posts over the last two years. However, since an avid reader of my blog was…
Cheers Sexy People! I am writing you from the “other side” of giving my first presentation at my first polyamorous conference. What a ride that was! WOW! SOOO glad that I did it! There were moments full of fear where I thought, “What am I, crazy? Who gives me the right to speak publicly about…
Cheers Sexy People! I have been hard at work preparing my presentation for The 4th International Conference on the Future of Monogamy and Nonmonogamy. Ironically, I am the first speaker Saturday morning, February 14th. Yup, that’s right! Valentine’s Day! How hilarious is that?! I’m going to go up there and speak publicly about my polycule and…
Cheers Sexy People! I wanted to first thank everyone in this awesome community for not only the lively conversation that sprung up over the last blog post, but the helpful words that you offered to the troubled questioner – and indeed to ANYONE dealing with the type of doubts or confusion that we all feel from time…
Cheers Sexy People! Hello all! Recently, the below comment came in from my last blog post: I have been following you for quite a while and while your posts are inspirational, many times I am left utterly confused. You speak of your ups and downs with your BF more you do with your husband. Does…
Cheers Sexy People, I’m writing this post with a heavy heart. While I was having a “date night” with my boyfriend last night, frolicking all over our local area enjoying the holidays, and then we were getting ready to settle in for the evening for a fun, sexy night at home, I got confirmation that…
Cheers Sexy People, I have a couple of surprises for you this week! First, I have another “coming out” story for you. Recently, I wrote about a wedding that I went to back in September. One of the grooms came out to me as gay over a decade ago. But I had yet to come…
Cheers Sexy People, Have you ever been speaking to a loved one and just felt like you weren’t on the same page? Does it frustrate you? Did it not used to be like that? Do you sometimes feel super connected with someone sometimes, but other times not at all? Is that confusing to you? After…
Cheers Sexy People! Happy Thanksgiving Day, readers, whether you celebrate it or not! As I write this, my boyfriend is in the kitchen tending to the turkey that he got up at 7am to put in the oven, and my husband is off doing the things that he does in the house when he is…
Cheers Sexy People! Sometimes friendship, hope and camaraderie comes from the most unlikely and potentially faraway places. This past weekend was for me a wonderful celebration of such things. I had the opportunity to meet a close, online polyamorous-practicing friend of mine when our paths were able to cross in New York City. How divine!…