Mirror, Mirror on the Wall: The Importance of Self-Reflection in Polyamory 🪞

Do you ever feel like you’re losing touch with your own needs, desires, and boundaries amidst the beautiful chaos of consensually non-monogamous or polyamorous relationships? If so, you’re not alone. In the whirlwind of navigating multiple partnerships, it’s easy to get swept up in the needs and expectations of others, leaving you feeling disconnected from…

Healing Trauma: The Key to Thriving in Consensual Non-Monogamous and Polyamorous Relationships

Are you struggling to navigate the complexities of consensual non-monogamy or polyamory while carrying the weight of unresolved trauma? Do you find yourself caught in patterns of fear, anxiety, or self-sabotage that keep you from experiencing the depth of connection and joy you desire in your relationships?   You’re not alone. Many individuals exploring non-traditional relationship…

Unlock the Power of Self-Awareness and Emotional Mastery

Do you ever feel like your emotions are running the show, leaving you feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or disconnected from your authentic self and your relationships, especially in the context of consensual non-monogamy or polyamory? If so, you’re not alone. In today’s fast-paced, stress-filled world, it’s easy to get caught up in the whirlwind of our feelings…

Is jealousy blocking your path to happiness? Let’s talk.

Jealousy is a normal human emotion that the majority of people experience from time to time, regardless of their relationship structure. In polyamorous or open dynamics, though, you may have been told feelings of envy should never arise – that experiencing jealousy means you’re “doing it wrong.”   I’m here to bust that pervasive myth today. Jealousy is…

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Relationship Crumbling? This is for you…

Can you feel the relationship you’ve built crumbling?Do you watch helplessly as the one you love slips further away?Then you need to hear about Lynn and Dave.After 10 years of monogamy, they longed to explore ethical non-monogamy. But new freedom unearthed old wounds.While Dave craved self-expression, Lynn spiraled into insecurity and debilitating jealousy.Her emotions were…

Wall Street Journal Illustration, January 2024

As Featured in “The Wall Street Journal”, January 22 and 24: “Polyamory: Lots of Sex, Even More Scheduling”

Hello Loving Without Boundaries Community! Wow! What a ride! It is with great jubilation that I am delighted to share that I was recently interviewed by a reporter for “The Wall Street Journal”, Elizabeth Bernstein. The piece she wrote, entitled “Polyamory: Lots of Sex, Even More Scheduling (Open relationships are having a moment. Who has…

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You have to hear this…

Christophe and Angeline came to me at their absolute lowest point.After YEARS of struggle, conflict, and pain.Christophe was drowning in shame from chronic betrayal and lack of self-awareness.He caused endless turmoil with his inability to understand Angeline’s needs.Angeline endured nearly a decade married to a serial cheater, which led to some serious self-love issues.She was…