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From the Dear Kitty Archives: Opening Up to Explore One’s Sexuality as a Trans Man

Hello Sexy People! I am delighted to share one of my “Dear Kitty” columns that was previously published in “Ethical Non-Monogamy Magazine” (ENM), which unfortunately, is no longer being published. We are honored to have permission from ENM to keep the love going by sharing from our archives. With all my heart, I absolutely love…

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From the Dear Kitty Archives: Dating and Dealing with Body Image Issues

Hello Sexy People! I am delighted to share one of my “Dear Kitty” columns that was previously published in “Ethical Non-Monogamy Magazine” (ENM), which unfortunately, is no longer being published. We are honored to have permission from ENM to keep the love going by sharing from our archives. With all my heart, I absolutely love…

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From the Dear Kitty Archives: The Difference Among Rules, Boundaries and Agreements

Hello Sexy People! I am delighted to share one of my “Dear Kitty” columns that was previously published in “Ethical Non-Monogamy Magazine” (ENM), which unfortunately, is no longer being published. We are honored to have permission from ENM to keep the love going by sharing from our archives. With all my heart, I absolutely love…

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From the Dear Kitty Archives: The Opening Up, Closing Up, Polyamory TANGO (“Paradigm Shock” of Opening Up)

Hello Sexy People! I am delighted to share one of my “Dear Kitty” columns that was previously published in “Ethical Non-Monogamy Magazine” (ENM), which unfortunately, is no longer being published. We are honored to have permission from ENM to keep the love going by sharing from our archives. With all my heart, I absolutely love…

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Podcast Interview: Kait Scalisi, MPH – Pleasure-Based Sex Educator, Relationship Counselor, Unapologetic Feminist

Cheers Sexy People! Whoot! I’m thrilled to share my latest podcast interview  with a super pleasure-based sex educator and relationship counselor, Kait Scalisi of Passion By Kait. We had the pleasure of meeting at last year’s Woodhull Sexual Freedom Summit which I now go to every year. Kait has a Bachelor of Science in Neuroscience and a Master’s in…

Monogamy Under the Microscope: CNN, Time, and the Ashley Madison Hack

Hello Polyworld! I’m JJ, Kitty’s husband. I’m oft-mentioned but rarely seen in the wild, kind of like Big Foot, or the Incredible Hulk (though sadly without all the bulgy muscles. On the other hand, I don’t have the green complexion either, so let’s call it a wash.)   Up to now I’ve mostly hung out…