This week is a particularly difficult week for me. I lost my father to cancer over six years ago. Not only was Sunday Father’s Day, but his birthday is this week too. “They” say time heals all wounds. I say that’s bull shit. Time may heal SOME wounds, including physical ones of course, but the…
Cheers Sexy People! So… Monogamous or Non-monogamous? That is the question. I eventually answered that question (once I realized I had a safe ethical choice) as quite firmly: non-monogamous, as did my husband and we came to that decision together at the same time (OK, maybe I nudged first after reading Ethical Slut and feeling…
Cheers Sexy People! This past Saturday nite, I went to the Out Of The Darkness Walk (sponsored by the American Foundation for Suicide Prevention) in support of several of my friends who were walking in memory of those that they had lost through suicide. I was deeply moved by the experience. There were over 2,000…
Hello Sexy People! Today I am recovering from a 5-day mini vacation / destination wedding in the heart of the U.S. in Nashville, TN. I may have over-celebrated a little bit. 🙂 Being that it is Tuesday after Memorial Day Weekend, I’m betting many of you are also recovering from hopefully fun-filled weekends. So I…
Cheers Sexy People! Well, as with anything in life, living a polyamorous lifestyle has its ups and downs. The past week has had its share of that for me. Maybe one of the things that I enjoy about being polyamorous is my dread of boredom, and my enjoyment of living life to the fullest. Sometimes…
Cheers Sexy People! I’ve been thinking a lot recently about the fluidity of relationships, and particularly polyamorous ones. As we evolve and change and grow, so do our relationships. Sometimes relationships can withstand the change, sometimes out of our love for one another, we have to let each other go — to pursue other dreams,…