Will It Work for You

Why lack of commitment is the real reason few achieve deeply fulfilling open relationships

I’m going to be brutally honest for a second. Right now, there are millions of people trying to achieve fulfilling and joyful open relationships that feel happy, safe, and secure with MORE than ONE person – without drama, tension, fear, insecurity, and fights. — They’re reading tons of articles and a few books typically without…

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Exciting News! American Psychological Association (APA) Division 44 is now a Committee instead of a Task Force

Hello! I am super excited to share some big news with you, my treasured community!As previously shared, I have been proud to be a part of American Psychological Association (APA) Division 44 Task Force, which promotes awareness and inclusivity about consensual non-monogamy (CNM). And, now I am even prouder! We are now the American Psychological Association (APA) Division 44 Committee on…

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Podcast Interview: Bryce + Mango + Kitty Unconventional Trio Interview, Inspiration, and World Domination!

Cheers Sexy People! I have such a treat for you guys! I am beside myself excited to share my latest podcast interview, Part One and Part Two, that I recorded in Utah on location with my great friends Bryce and Mango. Wow listening to this episode today, I am overjoyed, humbled, and full of pride at this intriguing, excellent, and…

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The Countdown is ON like Donkey Kong: FREE Book Offer: “Jealousy Survival Guide: How to feel safe, happy, and secure in an open relationship”

Cheers Sexy People! The countdown is on! The Kindle version of my first book: “Jealousy Survival Guide: How to feel safe, happy, and secure in an open relationship” is available now for only 99 cents for a limited time only. I wrote this book to help YOU as much as possible, based on my own research,…

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All of the AWESOME at RelateCon 2017 – Hugely Successful (and First) Poly Conference in Boise, Idaho

Cheers Sexy People! I am writing you from beautiful Boise, Idaho where I am enjoying the awesomeness of my host house with the lovely, cuddly Heather (you rock, Heather – LOVE YOU)! I am thankfully still reveling in the “post-con high” from this past weekend’s first ever RelateCon polyamory conference. Let me tell you there is…

Emotional Strength and Polyamory Go Together Like…

Cheers Sexy People! Even though I write this blog doling out any insights I find, and do oodles of research on polyamory / ethical non-monogamy, communication, relationships, etc, sometimes I fuck up anyway. I view trying to live an ethically non-monogamous life, juggling more than one relationship, and doing my best to live a purposeful,…

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Couples In Transition: Monogamy and Non-monogamy

Cheers Sexy People! So… Monogamous or Non-monogamous? That is the question. I eventually answered that question (once I realized I had a safe ethical choice) as quite firmly: non-monogamous, as did my husband and we came to that decision together at the same time (OK, maybe I nudged first after reading Ethical Slut and feeling…