Will It Work for You

Why lack of commitment is the real reason few achieve deeply fulfilling open relationships

I’m going to be brutally honest for a second. Right now, there are millions of people trying to achieve fulfilling and joyful open relationships that feel happy, safe, and secure with MORE than ONE person – without drama, tension, fear, insecurity, and fights. — They’re reading tons of articles and a few books typically without…

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Exciting News! American Psychological Association (APA) Division 44 is now a Committee instead of a Task Force

Hello! I am super excited to share some big news with you, my treasured community!As previously shared, I have been proud to be a part of American Psychological Association (APA) Division 44 Task Force, which promotes awareness and inclusivity about consensual non-monogamy (CNM). And, now I am even prouder! We are now the American Psychological Association (APA) Division 44 Committee on…

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Podcast Interview: Bryce + Mango + Kitty Unconventional Trio Interview, Inspiration, and World Domination!

Cheers Sexy People! I have such a treat for you guys! I am beside myself excited to share my latest podcast interview, Part One and Part Two, that I recorded in Utah on location with my great friends Bryce and Mango. Wow listening to this episode today, I am overjoyed, humbled, and full of pride at this intriguing, excellent, and…

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The Countdown is ON like Donkey Kong: FREE Book Offer: “Jealousy Survival Guide: How to feel safe, happy, and secure in an open relationship”

Cheers Sexy People! The countdown is on! The Kindle version of my first book: “Jealousy Survival Guide: How to feel safe, happy, and secure in an open relationship” is available now for only 99 cents for a limited time only. I wrote this book to help YOU as much as possible, based on my own research,…

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All of the AWESOME at RelateCon 2017 – Hugely Successful (and First) Poly Conference in Boise, Idaho

Cheers Sexy People! I am writing you from beautiful Boise, Idaho where I am enjoying the awesomeness of my host house with the lovely, cuddly Heather (you rock, Heather – LOVE YOU)! I am thankfully still reveling in the “post-con high” from this past weekend’s first ever RelateCon polyamory conference. Let me tell you there is…

Emotional Strength and Polyamory Go Together Like…

Cheers Sexy People! Even though I write this blog doling out any insights I find, and do oodles of research on polyamory / ethical non-monogamy, communication, relationships, etc, sometimes I fuck up anyway. I view trying to live an ethically non-monogamous life, juggling more than one relationship, and doing my best to live a purposeful,…

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Couples In Transition: Monogamy and Non-monogamy

Cheers Sexy People! So… Monogamous or Non-monogamous? That is the question. I eventually answered that question (once I realized I had a safe ethical choice) as quite firmly: non-monogamous, as did my husband and we came to that decision together at the same time (OK, maybe I nudged first after reading Ethical Slut and feeling…

Walking Out Of The Darkness

Cheers Sexy People! This past Saturday nite, I went to the Out Of The Darkness Walk (sponsored by the American Foundation for Suicide Prevention) in support of several of my friends who were walking in memory of those that they had lost through suicide. I was deeply moved by the experience. There were over 2,000…