Endless Poly Summer, An Evening with Dr. Sheff, and BTL 2016 = Trifecto of AWESOME!

Cheers Sexy People! We all hear that healthy polyamory involves communication, communication, communication. I am also VERY often asked: Where can I meet other poly folk in the community? Well today, I’m going tell you about three amazing events where you can connect deeply with other polk folk building relationships that may last lifetime, and you can…

A Poly Miracle X3 – A Home Visit, A Wine Sippy Cup, and a Surprise Cat Sitter

Cheers Sexy People! Hello friends. First I want to thank you all for the outpouring of love and support that came in from my last post where I described my feelings of getting shoved aside while my boyfriend’s family is visiting him for over a month. I had referenced Franklin Veaux’s Secondary Bill of Rights as…

Introverts, Introspection and Something Beautiful :)

Hello Sexy Peeps! As I’m gearing up to attend my first Beyond The Love conference and am busily preparing, packing and getting pumped up to be in the company of throngs of people, I have been getting quite introspective lately. As I have been dipping my toe back into dating life, I have been having a massive…

I Forgave Him – But Now What? (Damage Control After Infidelity)

Cheers Sexy People! I felt a massive weight had been lifted off of my shoulders after I recently truly forgave my boyfriend for his indiscretions that I talked about in this post. We had a really powerful conversation – not only about forgiveness, but ways in which I wanted to take ownership of being a great, attentive…

Can Love Truly Conquer All? (Forgive, But Don’t Forget)

Cheers Sexy People! This past weekend, I attended what for me was a transformational event. I attended my first Landmark Forum. I don’t know how many of our awesome peeps in our community have checked this “dive into the deep end of the pool” seminar out (and I’d love to hear from you to get your…

Broken Trust – Can You Survive An Affair?

Cheers Sexy People! Soooo I’m ready to talk about something here on my ethical non-monogamy blog. As you may have guessed from recent posts… I got cheated on. Yes, that’s right – after I’ve been writing this blog for over two years now, digging deeper into my commitment to polyamory, trust, integrity, honesty, transparency, blah,…

Why Do We Cheat?

Cheers Sexy People! I have been hard at work preparing my presentation for The 4th International Conference on the Future of Monogamy and Nonmonogamy. Ironically, I am the first speaker Saturday morning, February 14th. Yup, that’s right! Valentine’s Day! How hilarious is that?! I’m going to go up there and speak publicly about my polycule and…

Mastering The 5 Love Languages

Cheers Sexy People, Have you ever been speaking to a loved one and just felt like you weren’t on the same page? Does it frustrate you? Did it not used to be like that? Do you sometimes feel super connected with someone sometimes, but other times not at all? Is that confusing to you? After…