Cheers Sexy People! I’m thrilled to share my latest podcast interview with you that I recorded with a colleague of mine, Brenda Wiebe. I met Brenda at this year’s first polyamory conference in Boise, Idaho called RelateCon that I detailed in this blog post. Brenda and I were both presenters at this awesome and highly…
Cheers Sexy People! OK OK this is one of the coolest podcast interviews yet with one of my all-time favorite HEROES, human behavior researcher and all-around awesome person, Vanessa Van Edwards! I first became aware of Vanessa’s work when she spoke briefly on the main stage of the World Domination Summit (WDS) in 2016 discussing…
Cheers Sexy People! In my last post, I mentioned that within my own polycule, we had a trial run week of my boyfriend living with my husband and I full-time as practice for the potential real thing. A member of the Loving Without Boundaries community was kind enough to reach out and ask if I would elaborate…
Cheers Sexy People! Welcome to Friday! We made it another week! I hope yours was fantastic. Mine was… well… pretty epic in my poly life. I haven’t even completely processed it all yet. As many of us veteran poly-practicing peeps know, the act of “processing” and sifting through emotions and thoughts as we traverse this unusual journey…
Cheers Sexy People! Last week, I wrote about how I was devastated and deeply saddened by losing a dear friend, colleague and mentor in a tragic accident while he was about to reach the summit of the tallest mountain in Africa – an achievement he always wanted. It just completely broke my heart to see this incredible…
Cheers Sexy People! I wanted to first thank everyone in this awesome community for not only the lively conversation that sprung up over the last blog post, but the helpful words that you offered to the troubled questioner – and indeed to ANYONE dealing with the type of doubts or confusion that we all feel from time…
I am honored that last week’s blog post, Negotiations and Finding Your Core Values was recently highlighted again as a featured article on the informative and interesting blog Threesomes and Variations. This article initiated more great conversations and shared insights on the subject of navigating boundaries and negotiations in polyamorous relationships (or any relationship for…
Cheers Sexy People! Even though I write this blog doling out any insights I find, and do oodles of research on polyamory / ethical non-monogamy, communication, relationships, etc, sometimes I fuck up anyway. I view trying to live an ethically non-monogamous life, juggling more than one relationship, and doing my best to live a purposeful,…
This week is a particularly difficult week for me. I lost my father to cancer over six years ago. Not only was Sunday Father’s Day, but his birthday is this week too. “They” say time heals all wounds. I say that’s bull shit. Time may heal SOME wounds, including physical ones of course, but the…
Cheers Sexy People! So… Monogamous or Non-monogamous? That is the question. I eventually answered that question (once I realized I had a safe ethical choice) as quite firmly: non-monogamous, as did my husband and we came to that decision together at the same time (OK, maybe I nudged first after reading Ethical Slut and feeling…