The Four Agreements

Polyamory, Toltec Wisdom, and “The Four Agreements: A Practical Guide for Personal Freedom”

Cheers Sexy People! Hello amazing and brave community! It is fantastic to be writing to you here today! I cherish this wonderful creative and therapeutic outlet of this blog which also serves as a way to support and send love and hope to this courageous community. It is not an easy choice to live an alternative…

the life-changing magic of tyding up

Tidying Up our Emotional Baggage and our Relationships = AWESOME Personal Growth!

Cheers Sexy People! I have been having a fascinating experience over the last year that I would love to share with this amazing, courageous, and awesome community. In my experience, reading is cathartic and healing, so whenever I need a jolt of inspiration or motivation, I quite often turn to books. So I recently turned…

Can Polyamory Save A Relationship (and Other Conundrums)?

Cheers Sexy People! How do we stay true to ourselves while staying true to our loved ones? How HONEST about who we are do we want to be, even to ourselves? When do we start to build resentment for hiding our true nature, stuffing our feelings down or denying ourselves pleasure? How often do we…

non monogamy, polyamorous relationship

Couples In Transition: Monogamy and Non-monogamy

Cheers Sexy People! So… Monogamous or Non-monogamous? That is the question. I eventually answered that question (once I realized I had a safe ethical choice) as quite firmly: non-monogamous, as did my husband and we came to that decision together at the same time (OK, maybe I nudged first after reading Ethical Slut and feeling…