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Can We Put a Band-Aid on Grief with Love?

Change, Compassion, Emotional Support, Family, Grief, Grieving, InspiringBy sexyadventurer69 June 18, 2013 Leave a comment

This week is a particularly difficult week for me. I lost my father to cancer over six years ago. Not only was Sunday Father’s Day, but his birthday is this week too. “They” say time heals all wounds. I say that’s bull shit. Time may heal SOME wounds, including physical ones of course, but the…

Couples In Transition: Monogamy and Non-monogamy

Alternative Lifestyle, Communication, Difficult Conversation, Healthy Relationship, Non-monogamy, Open Marriages, Personal Growth, Poly, Polyamory, RelationshipsBy sexyadventurer69 June 11, 2013 5 Comments

Cheers Sexy People! So… Monogamous or Non-monogamous? That is the question. I eventually answered that question (once I realized I had a safe ethical choice) as quite firmly: non-monogamous, as did my husband and we came to that decision together at the same time (OK, maybe I nudged first after reading Ethical Slut and feeling…

Walking Out Of The Darkness

Acceptance, Alternative Lifestyle, Approval, Attachment, Awareness, Bisexuality, Closed Poly Family, Closed Triad, Commitment, Communicate, Communication, Compassion, Dating, Difficult Conversation, Ethical, Expectations, Falling Down, Family, Fluidity, Growing Up, Healthy Relationship, Honesty, Impermanence, Improvement, Inspiring, Journey, Kink-Friendly, Love, Negotiate, Non-monogamy, Open Marriages, Personal Growth, Poly, Poly Family, Poly Fidelitous, Polyamory, Polysexual, Quest, Relationships, Respect, Responsible, Self Esteem, Sex, Sexual Confidence, Sexual Health, Threesomes, Triad, ZenBy sexyadventurer69 June 5, 2013 4 Comments

Cheers Sexy People! This past Saturday nite, I went to the Out Of The Darkness Walk (sponsored by the American Foundation for Suicide Prevention) in support of several of my friends who were walking in memory of those that they had lost through suicide. I was deeply moved by the experience. There were over 2,000…

Open Awareness vs. Open Approval (and Fun With Poly Terms)

Approval, Awareness, Commitment, Communicate, Non-monogamy, PolyBy sexyadventurer69 April 30, 2013 6 Comments

Cheers Sexy People! I have found that as I go through this amazing journey of life full of interesting twists and turns, including those that go with being polyamorous, that sometimes having terminology to describe complex ideas is quite helpful! So I thought this blog post could shed some light on what I found to…

Letting Go Of Attachment

Acceptance, Alternative Lifestyle, Commitment, Communication, Non-monogamy, PolyBy sexyadventurer69 April 25, 2013 6 Comments

Cheers Sexy People! I’ve been thinking a lot recently about the fluidity of relationships, and particularly polyamorous ones. As we evolve and change and grow, so do our relationships. Sometimes relationships can withstand the change, sometimes out of our love for one another, we have to let each other go — to pursue other dreams,…