non monogamy, polyamorous relationship

Couples In Transition: Monogamy and Non-monogamy

Cheers Sexy People! So… Monogamous or Non-monogamous? That is the question. I eventually answered that question (once I realized I had a safe ethical choice) as quite firmly: non-monogamous, as did my husband and we came to that decision together at the same time (OK, maybe I nudged first after reading Ethical Slut and feeling…

Walking Out Of The Darkness

Cheers Sexy People! This past Saturday nite, I went to the Out Of The Darkness Walk (sponsored by the American Foundation for Suicide Prevention) in support of several of my friends who were walking in memory of those that they had lost through suicide. I was deeply moved by the experience. There were over 2,000…

Open Awareness vs. Open Approval (and Fun With Poly Terms)

Cheers Sexy People! I have found that as I go through this amazing journey of life full of interesting twists and turns, including those that go with being polyamorous, that sometimes having terminology to describe complex ideas is quite helpful! So I thought this blog post could shed some light on what I found to…

Letting Go Of Attachment

Cheers Sexy People! I’ve been thinking a lot recently about the fluidity of relationships, and particularly polyamorous ones. As we evolve and change and grow, so do our relationships. Sometimes relationships can withstand the change, sometimes out of our love for one another, we have to let each other go — to pursue other dreams,…