Breakup Recovery and How to Spot an Emotional Grown-up

Cheers Sexy People, It has been about six weeks since the big breakup. And surprisingly, even to myself, I am doing quite well. Don’t get me wrong – any big loss still hurts big-time. And losing an almost five-year relationship and someone that lived in and shared your home is a big shift in anyone’s reality. But…

Podcast Interview: Saul of Hearts + New and Noteworthy Announcement!

Cheers Sexy People! The latest podcast interview is here with a new friend of mine, Saul from the website and blog, Saul of Hearts. When I started my polyamorous journey, I did quite a bit of research and tried to find other like-minded people. It was during this time that I found Saul’s website which spoke…

The A, B, C’s of Addiction – Is Someone in your Polycule Affected?

Cheers Sexy People! It is with great excitement that I am introducing the first guest blog post from my very good friend. I have interviewed her here before for our humble little blog – an interview that has been on my top ten list of favorite posts of all time since its inception. You go, girl!…

Podcast Interview: Rick Clemons Interview – Coming Out Coach

Cheers Sexy People! The latest podcast interview is here! And it’s an awesome one! I had the pleasure of meeting Rick Clemons at a conference I recently attended in Portland, OR. Rick’s speciality is as a Coming Out Coach for polyamorous, homosexual, bisexual, transgender, queer folk – you name it! We immediately struck up the most…

“The Game Changer” Book Review Is Here!

Cheers Sexy People! I am so happy to share with you my review of Franklin Veaux’s book: The Game Changer: A Memoir of Disruptive Love, distributed through Thorntree Press where Franklin is a co-founder. I had absolutely no expectations before reading this book. I didn’t know anything about Franklin’s personal life or history. I knew…

Poly Interview: Ethical non-monogamy from a married female blogger

This is eleventh in a series of interviews with everyday people who are living a poly lifestyle (either polyamorous or polysexual), from their individual perspectives. They were each given a series of questions, and asked to pick several questions that they would like to answer from their personal experience. This eleventh interview is with a female friend,…

It’s My Party and She’ll Cry If She Wants To (“Coming Out Story”)

Cheers Sexy People! Last week, I regaled you with stories of my worst coming out ever. Upon being “out”d” at a party that I was throwing for my husband, my newer friend felt very out of sorts and proceeded to get rather upset and fled the party! It was a bit of a clusterfuck. I…

Worst “Coming Out” and a Book Review (Lessons in Love and Life…)

Cheers Sexy People! I have missed you and am happy to be sharing with you again here. Unfortunately, what I have to share starts with telling you that I just had the worst “coming out” experience of my life. It is frustrating that even with all of my research, pondering, preparation and work that I do to try…

007 Double Agent – Back in the Poly Closet

Cheers Sexy People! I am happily writing you from London where the hubs and I are traveling, having a 1.5 week leisurely trip (OK, some business too, but not much) visiting friends and family. We are having a splendidly AWESOME time. We just landed here last night from Edinburgh, Scotland where we spent five days.…