Do you feel LOST on how to navigate non-monogamous relationships?

Wishing to Feel Deeply Connected, Supported and Fulfilled without ongoing Jealousy, Insecurity, Shame or Guilt?

Do you feel LOST on how to navigate non-monogamous relationships?

Wishing to Feel Deeply Connected, Supported and Fulfilled without ongoing Jealousy, Insecurity, Shame or Guilt?

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Whether you want to transition to an open-relationship or open-marriage or you’re already in a polyamorous relationship, involved with someone who is, or “poly-curious” and wondering if non-monogamy might be right for you, I work with people struggling with every aspect of multiple intimate relationships.

Want to experience Healthy Multiple Loving Relationships?

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Let me help you navigate the complexities of open and polyamorous relationships, including communication challenges, managing jealousy, setting boundaries, and ensuring that all relationships are healthy and consensual. I can provide a safe space for individuals and couples to explore their feelings, desires, and relationship dynamics.

Polyamory Counseling & Coaching

Offering compassionate and insightful guidance for polyamorous and ethically non-monogamous partnerships – LGBTQ+ and Kink affirming.

My name is Kitty Chambliss and In the past 12 years I have helped nearly 300 open, non-monogamous or polyamorous couples and individuals, like you, sustain healthy, simultaneous, loving relationships that feel rewarding, satisfying and feed your soul…without giving up who you are and your autonomy.

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Let me help you navigate the complexities of open and polyamorous relationships, including communication challenges, managing jealousy, setting boundaries, and ensuring that all relationships are healthy and consensual. I can provide a safe space for individuals and couples to explore their feelings, desires, and relationship dynamics.

Polyamory Counseling & Coaching

Offering compassionate and insightful guidance for polyamorous and ethically non-monogamous partnerships – LGBTQ+ and Kink affirming.

My name is Kitty Chambliss and In the past 12 years I have helped nearly 300 open, polyamorous couples and individuals, like you, sustain healthy, simultaneous, loving relationships that feel rewarding, satisfying and feed your soul…without giving up who you are and your autonomy.

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Does this sound like you?

  • You experience intense emotions of jealousy, attachment, or possessiveness. You truly believe that’s the BIGGEST barrier to you practising polyamory or opening up your relationship.
  • You carry shame around wanting to have intimate relationships with multiple partners. You desperately need guidance to go deeper and explore your limiting beliefs around open relationships.
  • You lose hours of sleep worrying about how to handle these feelings, if your partner(s) are being honest with you, and if you are drifting further apart. The anxiety you feel sometimes can be crippling.
  • You see other people rocking their multiple, loving relationships, and wonder HOW they DO it and don’t seem to feel jealousy/fear/shame/guilt?
  • Your feelings of insecurity, fear of abandonment and self-doubt make you lash out in damaging and reactive ways, chipping away your confidence, and the trust you have in your partner(s), bit by bit…
  • You have polyamorous friends that seem to love radically and celebrate their partners unique path to self-fulfilment! They are happy to see the joy and contentment in their partners’ face, even if it is a result of other lovers, but you have no idea on how to emotionally get there yourself.
  • You or your partner have struggled with monogamy. You might have already experienced the heartbreak of infidelity. Feeling betrayed, lied to, ashamed about your actions or response. You want to forgive and move on, confidently opening up your relationship, but don’t have the right guidance and communication tools.
  • You have tried to do the work yourselves. You may have even explored traditional or even polyamorous couples therapy or couples counselling for months or years, with no long lasting results (or worse, feeling like there is something wrong with you). You feel exhausted and defeated trying to figure this out on your own.
  • You are secretly terrified that you might end up losing your marriage or relationship all together… or feeling like a failure if you can’t sort this out.
  • You experience intense emotions of jealousy, attachment, or possessiveness. You truly believe that’s the BIGGEST barrier to you practising polyamory or opening up your relationship.
  • You carry shame around wanting to have intimate relationships with multiple partners. You desperately need guidance to go deeper and explore your limiting beliefs around open relationships.
  • You lose hours of sleep worrying about how to handle these feelings, if your partner(s) are being honest with you, and if you are drifting further apart. The anxiety you feel sometimes can be crippling.
  • You see other people rocking their multiple, loving relationships, and wonder HOW they DO it and don’t seem to feel jealousy/fear/shame/guilt?
  • Your feelings of insecurity, fear of abandonment and self-doubt make you lash out in damaging and reactive ways, chipping away your confidence, and the trust you have in your partner(s), bit by bit…
  • You have polyamorous friends that seem to love radically and celebrate their partners unique path to self-fulfilment! They are happy to see the joy and contentment in their partners’ face, even if it is a result of other lovers, but you have no idea on how to emotionally get there yourself.
  • You or your partner have struggled with monogamy. You might have already experienced the heartbreak of infidelity. Feeling betrayed, lied to, ashamed about your actions or response. You want to forgive and move on, confidently opening up your relationship, but don’t have the right guidance and communication tools.
  • You have tried to do the work yourselves. You may have even explored traditional or even polyamorous couples therapy or couples counselling for months or years, with no long lasting results (or worse, feeling like there is something wrong with you). You feel exhausted and defeated trying to figure this out on your own..
  • You are secretly terrified that you might end up losing your marriage or relationship all together… or feeling like a failure if you can’t sort this out.

If any of that sounds like you, then I have good news. None of those things are the real problem, those are just the SYMPTOMS!

Let me help you

  • reignite your passion
  • build unbreakable trust
  • feel safe & confident
  • fall back in love

with your spouse & partners.

If any of that sounds like you, then I have good news. None of those things are the real problem, those are just the SYMPTOMS!

Let me help you

  • reignite your passion
  • build unbreakable trust
  • feel safe & confident
  • fall back in love

with your spouse & partners.

Client Success Stories

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My “Jealousy Survival Guide – Creating Healthy, Happy Open Relationships” program has so far helped close to 300+ individuals (some couples and triads) save their relationship, feel deeply connected, supported, and fulfilled… without sacrificing their needs or independence.

As we work together through the program:

  • You will transcend jealousy, fear of abandonment, anger and other negative emotions that have held you back from your joy for YEARS.
  • You will be finally liberated from the feelings of shame and guilt for wanting to have toe-curling sex and passionate relationships with multiple partners.
  • You will have all the tools, and training, to have the HARD conversations, honestly and vulnerably, while building a solid foundation of unbreakable trust.
  • You will develop the skill of Compassionate Communication which will allow you to effectively communicate your needs fearlessly and authentically, setting up boundaries that honor you AND your partner(s).
  • You will feel SAFE to share your fears and insecurities without feeling judged or embarrassed.
  • You will experience a new-found confidence that will spill out to ALL areas of your life, not just your relationships. Developing a healthy self-esteem will allow you to permanently shed the “not-enough” and “not-lovable” beliefs about yourself.
  • You will lovingly smile looking at your partners get along and connect with each other, thinking how far you have come.
  • You will cultivate passionate and love-filled relationships that inspire you, feed your soul and bring more joy to your life!

I can provide you with an exact strategy my clients have used to transform their relationships and experience all of the above!

My “Jealousy Survival Guide – Creating Healthy, Happy Open Relationships” program has so far helped close to 300+ individuals (some couples and triads) save their relationship, feel deeply connected, supported, and fulfilled… without sacrificing their needs or independence.

As we work together through the program:

  • You will transcend jealousy, fear of abandonment, anger and other negative emotions that have held you back from your joy for YEARS.
  • You will be finally liberated from the feelings of shame and guilt for wanting to have toe-curling sex and passionate relationships with multiple partners.
  • You will have all the tools, and training, to have the HARD conversations, honestly and vulnerably, while building a solid foundation of unbreakable trust.
  • You will develop the skill of Compassionate Communication which will allow you to effectively communicate your needs fearlessly and authentically, setting up boundaries that honor you AND your partner(s).
  • You will feel SAFE to share your fears and insecurities without feeling judged or embarrassed.
  • You will experience a new-found confidence that will spill out to ALL areas of your life, not just your relationships. Developing a healthy self-esteem will allow you to permanently shed the “not-enough” and “not-lovable” beliefs about yourself.
  • You will lovingly smile looking at your partners get along and connect with each other, thinking how far you have come.
  • You will cultivate passionate and love-filled relationships that inspire you, feed your soul and bring more joy to your life!

I can provide you with an exact strategy my clients have used to transform their relationships and experience all of the above!

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Book a Free Breakthrough Call with me

And let us discover if this is the right process for you.

Decide to take action NOW. Decide that you will not settle for a relationship and life that restricts you to love openly and live authentically in an ethical, healthy and fulfilling way.

You have a choice to invest in yourself and your relationships, to stop feeling hopeless and confused, admitting you need help today. Let’s have an honest conversation and see if it’s a good fit for both of us. If not, that is fine too.

Either way, I plan on jam-packing this short session with SO much value, you’ll be excited to get right to work implementing!

Kitty Chambliss - Open Relationship Coach

COMMITTED TO YOUR SUCCESS

My name is Kitty Chambliss, I have been an ethical non-monogamy activist, advocate and community leader since 2012. I myself have been practicing non-monogamy for 20 years, have been in a fulfilling polyamorous relationship with my husband since 2008, and a nesting partner for the last 8 years.

I know the exact struggles you’re going through. And I’ve worked through them all. I want to help you work through them too! I specialize in helping amazing people embrace open relationship structures all over the world.

I am a Master-Level Certified Coach with ICF (International Coaching Federation), one of 1,075 coaches worldwide! I have also earned the prestigious Trauma Informed Coaching credential from Coach Training World. I have over 6,000 hours of live coaching experience, been certified as a mediator, and I am a member and volunteer of the APA (American Psychological Association) Division 44 Committee for Consensual Non-Monogamy. My practise is trauma-informed and queer/kink/BDSM friendly. All genders and gender expressions are welcome.

I’m also a #1 Amazon Best-selling author of the book “Jealousy Survival Guide: How to feel safe, happy, and secure in an open relationship”. I’ve been a host and producer of an award-winning podcast: Loving without Boundaries, since 2015, with 225 episodes to date, and counting!

How is it possible to see results immediately?

You must be wondering about how you can start seeing results immediately, even though everything else you have tried has not worked before. When working with me, you’ll get massive support by email, message, an elite online community, plus weekly coaching sessions. The process is more efficient than conventional therapy because it is an immersive process where you can see immediately what works, applying what you are learning in real time. It will take hard work, commitment, and a financial investment into your relationships, well-being, and skillset. This is achieved with the right support from me, someone who has a proven system to help you, by providing tools and strategies and also guiding you into implementing them successfully.

This is an intensive 9 week program that has been developed to fast track progress that individual or couples counselling can take YEARS (or even decades) to bring to fruition. It is the result of over 20 years of learning about self-development and growth and 5 years of developing a sophisticated system that gently guides you, but also gives you the right tools to expedite positive changes in your well-being and untraditional, open or polyamorous relationships.

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How is it possible to see results immediately?

You must be wondering about how you can start seeing results immediately, even though everything else you have tried has not worked before. When working with me, you’ll get massive support by email, message, an elite online community, plus weekly coaching sessions. The process is more efficient than conventional therapy because it is an immersive process where you can see immediately what works, applying what you are learning in real time. It will take hard work, commitment, and a financial investment into your relationships, well-being, and skillset. This is achieved with the right support from me, someone who has a proven system to help you, by providing tools and strategies and also guiding you into implementing them successfully.

This is an intensive 9 week program that has been developed to fast track progress that individual or couples counselling can take YEARS (or even decades) to bring to fruition. It is the result of over 20 years of learning about self-development and growth and 5 years of developing a sophisticated system that gently guides you, but also gives you the right tools to expedite positive changes in your well-being and untraditional, open or polyamorous relationships.

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But first… let’s figure out if this program is for you.

This program is for YOU if:

  • You are NOT in a abusive relationship.
  • You are committed to solving this once and for all, while embracing and accepting consensual non-monogamy, for all genders, as a viable and healthy lifestyle and relationship choice. If you’re not open to this, there’s nothing I can do.
  • You are financially secure and committed to invest in the future of your marriage/relationship and personal happiness.
  • You are determined to everything you can to not to end up in statistics as another failed marriage (if you are married).
  • You understand that making a big investment now into the quality of your relationships will have positive monetary and well-being effects not only for you but for your children too (if you have any).
  • You are fed up with the blame, loneliness, disconnectedness and lack of intimacy and trust in your relationships, including the relationship with yourself.
  • This is a priority for you right now. You want to live your best life, and you’re ready to be decisive, resourceful, and coachable to sort this out now. Once and for all.

This program is for YOU if:

  •  You are NOT in a abusive relationship.
  • You are committed to solving this once and for all, while embracing and accepting consensual non-monogamy, for all genders, as a viable and healthy lifestyle and relationship choice. If you’re not open to this, there’s nothing I can do.
  • You are financially secure and committed to invest in the future of your marriage/relationship and personal happiness.
  • You are determined to everything you can to not to end up in statistics as another failed marriage (if you are married).
  • You understand that making a big investment now into the quality of your relationships will have positive monetary and well-being effects not only for you but for your children too (if you have any).
  • You are fed up with the blame, loneliness, disconnectedness and lack of intimacy and trust in your relationships, including the relationship with yourself.
  • This is a priority for you right now. You want to live your best life, and you’re ready to be decisive, resourceful, and coachable to sort this out now. Once and for all.
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Book a Free Breakthrough Call with me and let us discover if this is the right program for you.

Decide to take action NOW. Decide that you will not settle for life and relationships that are less than you hoped for.You have a choice to invest in yourself now, so you can finally start the next chapter in living your most authentic life to enjoy the freedom, intimacy, trust and connection that you dream of – even when coloring outside the lines of hetero-normative monogamy. It’s all possible for you.

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