Whether you want to transition to an open-relationship or you’re already in a poly relationship, involved with someone who is, or “poly-curious” and wondering if non-monogamy might be right for you, I work with people struggling with every aspect of multiple intimate relationships.
Do you feel LOST on how to navigate non-monogamous relationships?
Wishing to Feel Deeply Connected, Supported and Fulfilled without ongoing Jealousy, Insecurity, Shame or Guilt.
Do you feel LOST on how to navigate non-monogamous relationships?
Wishing to Feel Deeply Connected, Supported and Fulfilled without ongoing Jealousy, Insecurity, Shame or Guilt.
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You Are Not Alone...
Monogamy is right for many, but have you ever even given yourself the option of choice?
For some, loving more than one person is natural and can be healthy, ethical and honest for everyone involved. You’re just looking for some guidance.
But no one’s ever taught you how to love in that way…
I Can Help
My name is Kitty Chambliss and In the past 12 years I have helped 231 open, polyamorous couples and individuals, like you, sustain healthy, simultaneous, loving relationships that feel rewarding, satisfying and feed your soul…without giving up who you are and your autonomy.
You Are Not Alone...
Monogamy is right for many, but have you ever even given yourself the option of choice?
For some, loving more than one person is natural and can be healthy, ethical and honest for everyone involved. You’re just looking for some guidance.
But no one’s ever taught you how to love in that way…
I Can Help
My name is Kitty Chambliss and In the past 12 years I have helped 231 open, polyamorous couples and individuals, like you, sustain healthy, simultaneous, loving relationships that feel rewarding, satisfying and feed your soul…without giving up who you are and your autonomy.
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Does this sound like you?
- You experience intense emotions of jealousy, attachment or possessiveness. You truly believe that’s the BIGGEST barrier to you practising polyamory or opening up your relationship.
- You carry shame around wanting to have intimate relationships with multiple partners. You desperately need guidance to go deeper and explore your limiting beliefs around open relationships.
- You lose hours of sleep worrying about how to handle these feelings, if your partner(s) are being honest with you, and if you are drifting further apart. The anxiety you feel sometimes can be crippling.
- You see other people rocking their multiple, loving relationships, and wonder HOW they DO it and don’t seem to feel jealousy/fear/shame/guilt?
- Your feelings of insecurity, fear of abandonment and self-doubt make you lash out in damaging and reactive ways, chipping away your confidence, and the trust you have in your partner(s), bit by bit…
- You have polyamorous friends that seem to love radically and celebrate their partners unique path to self-fulfilment! They are happy to see the joy and contentment in their partners’ face, even if it is a result of other lovers, but you have no idea on how to emotionally get there yourself.
- You or your partner have struggled with monogamy. You might have already experienced the heartbreak of infidelity. Feeling betrayed, lied to, ashamed about your actions or response. You want to forgive and move on, confidently opening up your relationship, but don’t have the right guidance and communication tools.
- You have tried to do the work yourselves; you have even explored traditional couples therapy with no long lasting results. You feel exhausted and defeated trying to figure this out on your own.
- You are secretly terrified that you might end up losing your marriage or relationship…
- You experience intense emotions of jealousy, attachment or possessiveness. You truly believe that’s the BIGGEST barrier to you practising polyamory or opening up your relationship.
- You carry shame around wanting to have intimate relationships with multiple partners. You desperately need guidance to go deeper and explore your limiting beliefs around open relationships.
- You lose hours of sleep worrying about how to handle these feelings, if your partner(s) are being honest with you, and if you are drifting further apart. The anxiety you feel sometimes can be crippling.
- You see other people rocking their multiple, loving relationships, and wonder HOW they DO it and don’t seem to feel jealousy/fear/shame/guilt?
- Your feelings of insecurity, fear of abandonment and self-doubt make you lash out in damaging and reactive ways, chipping away your confidence, and the trust you have in your partner(s), bit by bit…
- You have polyamorous friends that seem to love radically and celebrate their partners unique path to self-fulfilment! They are happy to see the joy and contentment in their partners’ face, even if it is a result of other lovers, but you have no idea on how to emotionally get there yourself.
- You or your partner have struggled with monogamy. You might have already experienced the heartbreak of infidelity. Feeling betrayed, lied to, ashamed about your actions or response. You want to forgive and move on, confidently opening up your relationship, but don’t have the right guidance and communication tools.
- You have tried to do the work yourselves; you have even explored traditional couples therapy with no long lasting results. You feel exhausted and defeated trying to figure this out on your own.
- You are secretly terrified that you might end up losing your marriage or relationship…
If any of that sounds like you, then I have good news. None of those things are the real problem, those are just the SYMPTOMS!
Let me help you
- reignite your passion
- build unbreakable trust
- feel safe & confident
- fall back in love
with your spouse & partners.
If any of that sounds like you, then I have good news. None of those things are the real problem, those are just the SYMPTOMS!
Let me help you
- reignite your passion
- build unbreakable trust
- feel safe & confident
- fall back in love
with your spouse & partners.
Client Success Stories
My “Jealousy Survival Guide – Creating Healthy, Happy Open Relationships” program has so far helped over 231 individuals and couples save their relationship, feel deeply connected, supported, and fulfilled… without sacrificing their needs or independence.
As we work together through the program:
- You will transcend jealousy, fear of abandonment, anger and other negative emotions that have held you back from your joy for YEARS.
- You will be finally liberated from the feelings of shame and guilt for wanting to have toe-curling sex and passionate relationships with multiple partners.
- You will have all the tools, and training, to have the HARD conversations, honestly and vulnerably, while building a solid foundation of unbreakable trust.
- You will develop the skill of Compassionate Communication which will allow you to effectively communicate your needs fearlessly and authentically, setting up boundaries that honor you AND your partner(s).
- You will feel SAFE to share your fears and insecurities without feeling judged or embarrassed.
- You will experience a new-found confidence that will spill out to ALL areas of your life, not just your relationships. Developing a healthy self-esteem will allow you to permanently shed the “not-enough” and “not-lovable” beliefs about yourself.
- You will lovingly smile looking at your partners get along and connect with each other, thinking how far you have come.
- You will cultivate passionate and love-filled relationships that inspire you, feed your soul and bring more joy to your life!
I can provide you with an exact strategy my clients have used to transform their relationships and experience all the above!
My “Jealousy Survival Guide – Creating Healthy, Happy Open Relationships” program has so far helped over 231 individuals and couples save their relationship, feel deeply connected, supported, and fulfilled… without sacrificing their needs or independence.
As we work together through the program:
- You will transcend jealousy, fear of abandonment, anger and other negative emotions that have held you back from your joy for YEARS.
- You will be finally liberated from the feelings of shame and guilt for wanting to have toe-curling sex and passionate relationships with multiple partners.
- You will have all the tools, and training, to have the HARD conversations, honestly and vulnerably, while building a solid foundation of unbreakable trust.
- You will develop the skill of Compassionate Communication which will allow you to effectively communicate your needs fearlessly and authentically, setting up boundaries that honor you AND your partner(s).
- You will feel SAFE to share your fears and insecurities without feeling judged or embarrassed.
- You will experience a new-found confidence that will spill out to ALL areas of your life, not just your relationships. Developing a healthy self-esteem will allow you to permanently shed the “not-enough” and “not-lovable” beliefs about yourself.
- You will lovingly smile looking at your partners get along and connect with each other, thinking how far you have come.
- You will cultivate passionate and love-filled relationships that inspire you, feed your soul and bring more joy to your life!
I can provide you with an exact strategy my clients have used to transform their relationships and experience all the above!
Book a Free Breakthrough Call with me
And let us discover if this is the right program for you.
Decide to take action NOW. Decide that you will not settle for a relationship and life that restricts you to love openly and live authentically in an ethical, healthy and fulfilling way.
You have a choice to invest in yourself and your relationships, to stop feeling hopeless and confused, admitting you need help today. Let’s have an honest conversation and see if it’s a good fit for both of us. If not, that is fine too.
Either way, I plan on jam-packing this short session with SO much value you’ll be excited to get right to work implementing!
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Kitty Chambliss - Polyamory Coach
COMMITTED TO YOUR SUCCESS
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Giving my book to Dr Ruth Westheimer
Discussion panel with Janet Hardy
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My name is Kitty Chambliss, I have been an ethical non-monogamy activist, advocate and community leader since 2012. I myself have been practicing non-monogamy for 20 years, have been in a fulfilling polyamorous relationship with my husband since 2012, and a nesting partner for the last 8 years.
I know the exact struggles you’re going through. And I’ve worked through them all. I want to help you work through them too! I specialize in helping amazing people embrace open relationship structures all over the world.
I am a Master-Level Certified Coach with ICF (International Coaching Federation), one of 1,075 coaches worldwide! I have over 6,000 hours of live coaching experience, been certified as a mediator and I am a member and volunteer of the APA (American Psychological Association) Division 44 Committee for Consensual Non-Monogamy. My practise is trauma informed and queer/kink/BDSM friendly. All genders and gender expressions are welcome.
I’m also a #1 Amazon Best-selling author of the book “Jealousy Survival Guide: How to feel safe, happy, and secure in an open relationship”. I’ve been a host and producer of an award-winning podcast: Loving without Boundaries, since 2015, with 225 episodes to date, and counting!
In total I have helped save 28 Marriages/Relationships, 4 Engagements/Weddings, 7 New Job / Promotions (thanks to new confidence levels), 1 Baby – AND – 18 got out of Toxic Relationships, PLUS helped 10 release Depression – all WORLDWIDE! (13 different countries so far!)
It is because of the results above that I am so confident this can work for you too!
And best of all… you’ll start seeing results in a matter of weeks, NOT years.
I am a Master-Level Certified Coach with ICF (International Coaching Federation), one of 1,075 coaches worldwide! I have over 6,000 hours of live coaching experience, been certified as a mediator and I am a member and volunteer of the APA (American Psychological Association) Division 44 Committee for Consensual Non-Monogamy. My practise is trauma informed and queer/kink/BDSM friendly. All genders and gender expressions are welcome.
I’m also a #1 Amazon Best-selling author of the book “Jealousy Survival Guide: How to feel safe, happy, and secure in an open relationship”. I’ve been a host and producer of an award-winning podcast: Loving without Boundaries, since 2015, with 225 episodes to date, and counting!
In total I have helped save 28 Marriages/Relationships, 4 Engagements/Weddings, 7 New Job / Promotions (thanks to new confidence levels), 1 Baby – AND – 18 got out of Toxic Relationships, PLUS helped 10 release Depression – all WORLDWIDE! (13 different countries so far!)
It is because of the results above that I am so confident this can work for you too!
And best of all… you’ll start seeing results in a matter of weeks, NOT years.
During this 9 week program we bring together learning, actionable tools, practical guidance, and live coaching. It’s a proven process for adding a solid backbone to your relationships so you have less stress in your life and more inner peace and fun-filled love. The program consists of 30+ hours of training, up to 40+ hours of live coaching and employs the Vulnerability Mapping system which is the key to your success in finally experiencing multiple blissful relationships and blistering passion you deserve…
But first… let’s figure out if this program is for you.
During this 9 week program we bring together learning, actionable tools, practical guidance, and live coaching. It’s a proven process for adding a solid backbone to your relationships so you have less stress in your life and more inner peace and fun-filled love. The program consists of 30+ hours of training, up to 40+ hours of live coaching and employs the Vulnerability Mapping system which is the key to your success in finally experiencing multiple blissful relationships and blistering passion you deserve…
But first… let’s figure out if this program is for you.
This program is for YOU if:
- You are committed to solving this once and for all, and are ready to have an authentic conversation, while also embracing and accepting consensual non-monogamy, for all genders, as a viable and healthy lifestyle and relationship choice. If you’re not open to this, there’s nothing I can do.
- You are financially secure and committed to invest in the future of your relationship and personal happiness. You are ready to put in the resources and time that is needed to achieve trusting and passionate relationships!
- You will attend and participate each week, do the exercises/take action for the particular topic and stay defiantly committed to your desired outcome, emotional health, and overall well-being.
- You will trust the process and be “coach-able” with an open mind, willing to do the hard inner work it takes to have rewarding and loving relationships that rock!
Book a Free Breakthrough Call with me and let us discover if this is the right program for you.
This program is for YOU if:
- You are committed to solving this once and for all, and are ready to have an authentic conversation, while also embracing and accepting consensual non-monogamy, for all genders, as a viable and healthy lifestyle and relationship choice. If you’re not open to this, there’s nothing I can do.
- You are financially secure and committed to invest in the future of your relationship and personal happiness. You are ready to put in the resources and time that is needed to achieve trusting and passionate relationships!
- You will attend and participate each week, do the exercises/take action for the particular topic and stay defiantly committed to your desired outcome, emotional health, and overall well-being.
- You will trust the process and be “coach-able” with an open mind, willing to do the hard inner work it takes to have rewarding and loving relationships that rock!
Book a Free Breakthrough Call with me and let us discover if this is the right program for you.
THE
"Jealousy Survival Guide"
Creating Healthy, Happy Open Relationships
PROGRAM
Developing this program was a true passion project. I knew deep inside that monogamy, and how society defines relationships, did not work for EVERYONE. I felt it was not enough for me to just be an advocate and “loud-voice” in the community. I wanted to actually help people, give them the roadmap and tools, to transition to non-monogamy and not spend their lifetime in conflict, feeling unfulfilled in their relationships.
The “JSG – Creating Healthy, Happy Open Relationships” Program is a 9-week online program designed to help people who are in open relationships learn to better manage strong emotions such as jealousy, guilt, fear, and resentment PLUS get ninja communication tools, so that they can sustain healthy, intimate relationships that feel joyful, satisfying, and feed their soul.
Through my Vulnerability Mapping process I will help you identify blind spots, overcome your self-imposed obstacles, and fulfill your true potential. As we work through this immersive Online Coaching Program we will design an action plan tailored to your needs. You will feel guided and supported, receiving weekly trainings, exercises and 1-on-1 coaching. This is done all from a non-judgmental and sex positive lens.
To ensure the success of everyone involved, the program is limited to a maximum of 10 spaces offered on a case-by-case basis. The program also creates a support system with other like-minded individuals having some of the same struggles, and learning the same tools and strategies.
The program includes:
- TRAINING — Evergreen trainings and content (weekly available each Monday) for you to enjoy into the future when you need a “tune-up” or reminder of how to sustain healthy, happy open relationships.
- COACHING — Live coaching support at each stage of the journey via various 1-on-1 calls and weekly group Q&A calls (recorded for your reference later).
- ACCOUNTABILITY — Feedback on assignments coupled with effective handouts creates momentum + Email Q’s (Help Ticket) when needed.
- COMMUNITY — Access to a PRIVATE Facebook community of like-minded individuals on a similar journey for added support and camaraderie (Reminder that: No you are not crazy or alone on this journey!)
My approach to coaching — integration of mind, heart and body coupled with highly effective and proven tools — is based on the belief that defining our core values/needs coupled with finding the courage to identify and express our most authentic selves safely, is healthy and desirable.
I am only interested in doing great work and I am committed to creating a win-win-win for everyone involved. My job is to show you the way with compassion, caring, and proven tools. Your job is to show up, do the work, and be coach-able.
Developing this program was a true passion project. I knew deep inside that monogamy, and how society defines relationships, did not work for EVERYONE. I felt it was not enough for me to just be an advocate and “loud-voice” in the community. I wanted to actually help people, give them the roadmap and tools, to transition to non-monogamy and not spend their lifetime in conflict, feeling unfulfilled in their relationships.
The “JSG – Creating Healthy, Happy Open Relationships” Program is a 9-week online program designed to help people who are in open relationships learn to better manage strong emotions such as jealousy, guilt, fear, and resentment PLUS get ninja communication tools, so that they can sustain healthy, intimate relationships that feel joyful, satisfying, and feed their soul.
Through my Vulnerability Mapping process I will help you identify blind spots, overcome your self-imposed obstacles, and fulfill your true potential. As we work through this immersive Online Coaching Program we will design an action plan tailored to your needs. You will feel guided and supported, receiving weekly trainings, exercises and 1-on-1 coaching. This is done all from a non-judgmental and sex positive lens.
To ensure the success of everyone involved, the program is limited to a maximum of 10 spaces offered on a case-by-case basis. The program also creates a support system with other like-minded individuals having some of the same struggles, and learning the same tools and strategies.
The program includes:
- TRAINING — Evergreen trainings and content (weekly available each Monday) for you to enjoy into the future when you need a “tune-up” or reminder of how to sustain healthy, happy open relationships.
- COACHING — Live coaching support at each stage of the journey via various 1-on-1 calls and weekly group Q&A calls (recorded for your reference later).
- ACCOUNTABILITY — Feedback on assignments coupled with effective handouts creates momentum + Email Q’s (Help Ticket) when needed.
- COMMUNITY — Access to a PRIVATE Facebook community of like-minded individuals on a similar journey for added support and camaraderie (Reminder that: No you are not crazy or alone on this journey!)
My approach to coaching — integration of mind, heart and body coupled with highly effective and proven tools — is based on the belief that defining our core values/needs coupled with finding the courage to identify and express our most authentic selves safely, is healthy and desirable.
I am only interested in doing great work and I am committed to creating a win-win-win for everyone involved. My job is to show you the way with compassion, caring, and proven tools. Your job is to show up, do the work, and be coach-able.